New and desperate for help

Hi everyone, my name is Erica, I live in British Columbia, Canada, and I’m 21 years old.

I first heard about pheromones by coming across Dr.amends pheromone advantage..I ordered a bottle of this a month ago and have sent many emails but I still have not received it yet. Now I think I’ll only be using Androtics Direct.

Okay, so here are the two reasons why I want to use pheromones and I could really use some advice on which ones to get.

First off, My life kinda sucks right now because I’m a very social person that loves to be around people, but I’m EXTREMLY shy, which has left me with having zero friends (my only and best friend moved away in April).
I’m hoping that there are some kind of pheromones that can help give me more confidence to actually talk to people and maybe something that will encourage people to want to be around me.

Second, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just over 4 years now and I feel like he’s slipping away from me. We used to have amazing passionate, romantic, and angry sex lol.
Now he works really hard at two jobs, and doesn’t give me the attention I need. We only have sex when I initiate it first, which is getting more than a little boring and frustrating.
I love him more than anything but I’m afraid that if he doesn’t get some of his passion back, he’s going to drive me into bed with someone else.

Thank you for taking time to read this. Please help with any suggestions on what to try so I can make some friends and help my relationship! :o

Welcome Invidious,

I applaud the fact that you are looking for ways to help improve your life and the people around you and not running away from something you know is great. Communication in a relationship goes a long long way and i suggest you start there and fully express yourself and your concerns even though that may be difficult.

To feel more confident i reccommend you look at instant shine since it will give you an upbeat mood and a little confidence boost to want to be social and less shy. Also look at IO to make others open up to you more and be trusting of you and it will help you to relax and communicate better as well.

I being a male, will let other females hopefully comment back on some of the for female only mones that can offer up some further advice, and i wish you the best of luck with all you are here to conquer.

Hi there,

Welcome to the forum.

For making friends, try IO, IH and Shine,
IO is to open up people and make them want to talk to you.
IH will make the conversation with people more meaningful. They will talk in more personal and more details. People will feel thay have kown you for long time.
Shine can help to counter your shyness and boost your confident socially.

For your bf, try instant Sexiness. It can make him feel you are sexier and more attractive. There are 2 versions of IS. IS A is for more dominant and tyougher vibe. IS B is fore more feminine and softer vibe.

Good luck

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Hi Erica and welcome to the forum!

My first bit of advice to you is to believe in yourself and realise that your situation will change for the better in time - you just have to be patient. You also say you have zero friends which is untrue as your boyfriend is hopefully a good friend to you.

You need to stop putting yourself down and start being a good friend to yourself and dont be too hard on yourself. Having faith in yourself and also learning spiritual disciplines depending on your faith can help in your growth.

Pheromones will help you in helping yourself. Definitely go for the social pheromones to help you to be more socially confident. IO to increase the quantity of conversation and is an excellent icebreaker. IH to deepen the quality of the conversation and creates initimacy. IS is a mood enhancer and will make you and the people around you feel great. CTTM2 for all round friendliness and approachability.

Like JB said one of the instant sexiness pheromones will help with your relationship with your boyfriend and also IH.

You can buy these pheromones in togo bottles and with your $25 GC you will save money.

I hope this helps and I wish you all the best in the future.

Mackie