I am a 24 year old musician and deli worker. I practice Yoga, try to eat healthy and keep in shape.
My girlfriend moved into my house approximately 3 years ago when her parents made it unfit for her to live there (whole other story completely).
and it has been very good for a long time. a couple of months ago, things started to get rough and we broke up, but the break up was only in name it seemed. We still slept in the same bed, hung out, watched movies, were cutesy and cuddle with each other and overall things seemed like they where going to work out.
just last week she abruptly moved out of my room and in too the back room of the house and is now going on casual dates with some guy she just met 2 weeks ago.
Now I know that pheromones are not miracle scents that will save my relationship, but she has done subtle things that make me think she doesn’t really want things for us to end and seems really confused about what she really wants and I am desperately looking for a means to reconnect.
I know that pheromones may not work in my situation… Hell, nothing might work in my situation, but I feel the need to do everything in my power i possibly can to try to fix this.
are there any suggestions for scents that might possibly make it her open up and think “maybe this could work out” when I’m around?
You’re right, pheromones are not miracle products. They will enhance the person you are. What is your personality like? Are you shy or outgoing? How about her? What’s your communication with her like? How did you find out about this other guy?
Pllleeeeenty of A314 will take care of that. Are you too nice of a guy? Really the fact that shes STILL in the house is a problem. If she’s going out w/ ANOTHER man, in YOUR house, then she needs to go, period. Otherwise, you’ll be even MORE miserable than u are.
Pheros can only go so far..Its really up to you..BUT..
If you are going to get a couple, I’d go for the a314 1st(2-3) drops..more if you REEAAALLY want her to know you’re not playing. It gives you the repect vibe from males and females…
Then Ammo, or IS for you to go out and meet someone new. If you wanna keep her, you can still use the same now you’ll have a little more respect w/ her..that or she’ll feel like shes not worthy of someone as good as you..
MIght be a lil skewed, but do you see what Im getting at?
Imsoalive is right. Put on your big boy pants and tell her that if she is going to be dating other guys it will not be while living in your house. That is just a plain slap in the face. She is relying on your feelings for her to let her get away with that … stuff.
After that you really need to evaluate if you want to be in a relationship with someone who is going to treat you like.
If you think the relationship has a chance of surviavl, read the thread in my signature block for married guys. Iknow you are not married but the basics apply.
After that come back and let us know what you think.
well, i dont really know the whole situation, and doubt your here for dating advice, but i mean, she may still like you, but not some of the things your doing or something.
i mean, if you play your cards right, you may not even need anything other than a little more charm, or just to listen more, you know?
something like that.
i mean, thats how it is/was with my girlfriend. i mean, the charm is there, shes told me that, but i have trouble listening sometimes, like, even i catch myself sometimes.
i dunno.
i hope everything works the way you want it though.
good luck to you man.
I want to suggest A314 because you are in big time need of some respect from this girl. I need to know though if you can pull off the vibe. Are you shy, timid, quiet , with her, not in general ? If not get some A314 and some Ishine for a boost of uplifing confidence and kick her ass to the curb.
Use your products for a few days around her first though. I know its a corny saying but its the truth and I will say it in my own words…
Let her go, if she comes back crawling to you she is yours, if not she was just using you for a place to live.
You deserve better then that. Now I hate to do this but rules are rules and I dont want to get burned at the stake LOL … I need to know about your personality and how you found the forum so I can send a GC to you
Looking forward to your reply. Oh and I didnt mean to be harsh but I really think what she is doing to you sucks.
