Hello everyone, my name is Jesse and I am a 31 yr. old single father living in FT. Lauderdale, FL. My profession is in the the culinary arts field. I have been seperated/divorced for about a year now, and I have decided I should try to get back into the singles scene. Between work and being a single dad I don’t have alot of time to spend out at social places, so when I go I want it to be worth my time going out. The people I know here are either married or to young for me to hang out with so i usually go out alone. I hate clubs. I am not much of a dancer, and I end up being that guy who stands around the outside of the dance floor with a beer. I like bars the best. Most nights I like a chill place (martini bar ladies nights) and sometimes the crowded standing room only places. By nature i am not an alpha male, but not a follower. More of a loner i guess. I very rarley initiate conversation with women, mostly because i am unsure if they are initially interested. I want to come off as approachable, sexy, and interesting. Irresistible would be awesome. I am an average looking guy,(I’m told alot I look like a young Jon Stewart) looking for some help to draw attention from women. I am hoping pheromones can help. I am targeting women between 24-35 for one night stands, casual dating or something long term, whatever gets me back in the game. I don’t like being the guy who ends up sitting alone all night.
I read about Pheros in a magazine. They recommended Pherlure. (which I have read here is useless) I got on the cpu to research it, and during reading reviews I stumbled on this forum. Since then my cpu has not left this site. I have now spent countless hours on this site researching which products I should order. I am more confused now than when I started. I am new to pheromones and need some advice. Can anyone recommened some products, or combos of products to help me out? Also, the amount of each product i should wear would be very helpful.
There’s my novel. Thank you for looking, and I look forward to seeing the reponses.
Great intro, you hit all of the posints we need to know about you.
First off, I suggest Ammo, it attracts women and gives off a sexy vibe. You can wear it pretty much anywhere. Next, I suggest Instant Shine for your shyness, it will boost your confidnece levels. I also suggest Instant Openness, which will get people around you to open up and be chatty.
All of these products can be used together, but starting out, you want to try each one solo to learn what it does. This way, you can also figure out your proper dosage for each product (your sweet spot).
I hope you’ll enjoy the happiness of the “community” and find the best info for you to have pheros help you.
Isn’t a man who works in the culinary arts field a gift for women ? Or maybe my French side is talking !
Anyway, I’m sure your description has already hit some women here : you cook, you’re not too proud, and one thing that we often have here : you’re interested in others and others’ reactions.
As for pheros, most people who have tried Pherlure here will tell you it doesn’t work, or very, very little and thanks to the smell that’s all. But you can go and have a try anyway.
If you want people to initiate conversation and feel at ease, I guess youshould try Instant Openness as an ice breaker, Instant Honesty to deepen conversation, and maybe Ammo to have hits with women wihtout it being too strong or intimidating.
I’m not sure A314 would be of great help, or with one drop and coupled with Instant Openness.
And if you want to bring happinness and brighten the atmosphere, why not trying Instant shine, but I’m sure Instant Openness would be the best to start with.
As for the amount, it’s up to you and what you’ll discover to be the best for you, usually starting low with one spray and then going up.
reading the forum is great to get the best information, and self observation is even better once you’ve got your products, for every one of us is unique. so are reactions/effects.
The guys have made great suggestions. AMMO Ishine and IO would be perfect. Maybe a to-go of IFM as well.
AMMO is sexy attractive, interesting and mildly arousing. It grabs a girls attention
IO will make it easier for you and for them to interact. Its chatty comfortable fun.
Ishine is youthful charismatic warm uplifting and also draws people in. Its great for the confidence as well.
IFM is calming and helps get past last minute resistance.
Now mones will not do it all for you. They open doors and ease communication and interaction. You still have to walk through that door.
Be sure to read the body language link in my signature below as well and Indicators of interest in the mens sticky section. This will give you a head start on noticing the cues alot of guys miss,
Dosage is different for everyone. You need to start with one product at a time. This way you will get as good feel for what each can do for you. Start with one spray and work up till you see results to find your dosage. Then start to layer your products.
If you have questions just ask Your GC is on its way
I’ve had the same problem when first diving in. There’s a LOT to take in. If I were you I’d wear IG. Haven’t seen it suggested yet .
Using this, then Ammo, is ideal. Depends on what you’re looking for, I guess. Depends on what state of mind you’re in. Your intention & your goals. These products will definitely help you put out a vibe. But make sure your mindset & what you’re using dont conflict.
