Hi there
I’m Scar and I’m 20 yrs old. Obviously I live in San Francisco as you can tell from the title. I don’t really know much about pheromones and I read about this site on amazon from one of the fragrance reviews. I wasn’t sure about it at first since it seems kinda unrealistic if someone tells you that you can get whatever you want if you spray some of this magic perfume. But I browsed through this forum and figured that it’s actually nothing magical but science so I decided to try some out.
I’ve always been this shy, awkward outcast, and I feel really anxious around people. I’m very self-conscious about my looks although some people have told me that I look very pretty. It’s nice to hear those compliments but I don’t really believe them and I have zero self-esteem. That’s probably the reason I don’t have many friends. I hope that pheromones could help me feel more confident and less self-conscious about my appearance, and hopefully I can make some friends.
Also, there’s a guy I’ve had a crush on for like 2 yrs. We’re best friends and I think we’re definitely more than just friends. But I feel too embarrassed to say anything. And it seems like everything’s just unspoken with him. I was thinking that maybe I can use Instant Sexiness (either A or B) and Instant Honesty when I’m with him so I can at least know how he really feels about me.
Any suggestions?
Hi Scar, welcome to the forum!
That sounds good, for your TG. Just a warning with the other products though, some of these WILL definitely attract attention to you. And this might be uncomfortable or make you very self-conscious, but you have to know that if you DO get more attention, it’s going to be positive attention. I don’t doubt that you’re gorgeous already, but if mones are what you need to fully start believing it, then that can only be a good thing. 
I think Instant Shine is worth giving a go. Just try it, it’s near impossible to OD on and will help with feeling good and confident around other people. I think you will like Instant Sexiness A better than B, but I could be wrong, and it’s good to try both if you can. Good luck, and let us know how it goes. If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask! I hope to see you around here.
Hi and welcome to the forum!
Yes… mones do work! I would say for confidence and generally feeling good and relaxed for yourself would be Instant Shine. Others will see that youthful glow in you and feel attracted to you.
Now, you can also try the IS/a for that Sexy vamp, alpha female inclined feel, Angelina Jolie vibe… you could get the same increase in confidence with it. Now, you mentioned IH and it’s good for others to feel an intimate feeling of being close to you. I’d suggest application on the back of your neck and on your wrists so that it minimized your own exposure to it’s honesty effects…
Cheers and welcome to the forum!
Hi scar, Welcome to Pherotalk
Your right its science not magic. People however wont do whatever you want because you have mones on. Pheromones send signals about you and evoke emotions in others. All human response comes from two things. Learned response or programming and from the way we feel. Wearing synthetic mones is like amplifying the feeling side so that people react on a subconscious level instead of the conscious learned level.
Pheromones can sometimes boost your self confidence and help you interact more with others. You have to let those people in though. The key to self esteem is loving you. If you love yourself then others will love you to. Why would you not believe your pretty when someone tells you that ? I think if you explore that question you will begin to find your self esteem.
I think a lot of people try to improve there self esteem from the outside in. They only way though is to do it from the inside out.
Get the book “Recovery of your self esteem” by Carolynn Hillman. its inexpensive and you can get it at Amazon. I think between working on your inside a little and pheromones you can easily reach your goals with self esteem and with interaction with others.
Pheromonally I think IH is a great choice to help open up deeper communication. Instant sexiness is also good and can help you feel more confident. I agree with spinach, I would tend to go with A over B for you for the confidence boost but both are good. I think B is the only one in stock right now. Ishine is also a big confidence booster.
All of us have issues on some level with self esteem and confidence even those who seem like they dont or have no reason to have these feelings. Its a human condition that we all have. I am glad you found us because this is a great place for everyone to not only discuss pheromones but to work on these issues together with the help of pheromones and support from others who know how you feel.
I look forward to chatting with you in the forum and if you need help just ask.
Tisha
Welcome to pherotalk Withthelightsout!
I think my team did a really good job with replying with your introduction. Tisha hit the nail on the head.
We all have insecurities one way or another but having no self esteem is something that can limit you as we often don’t realize we are superior beings.
I have been experimenting with the P78 test pack and find that it makes me feel very pretty when I normally would feel so self conscious. Unfortunately it’s not available in single experimental mixes yet so you can ask the guys in your order notes to try one out as a freebie.
The female section is a great way to interact and get to know more about pheromones and about each others experiences.
Iron sharpens iron.
Your gc was issued!