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Hello All. Pleased to meet all of you.

My name is B.W. I am a 35 year old male living in the UK.

Workplace.

Confident in a work setting and able to present to, successfully negotiate and win work from clients. I have some established and productive relationships but to be honest, they are a little clinical and I am keen to explore how I might be able to use Pheromones to ‘ease up’ a little and to generate client relationships/business through rapport, as opposed to simply being viewed as someone who gets the job done.

My colleague relationships vary. I have a very dry sense of humour, which works well with the people who are switched on to my way of thinking, but which can leave other people with raised eyebrows. I am keen to explore how I can raise my profile with colleagues. I know I am perceived as successful (and have been promoted on this basis), but I also know that I am perceived as a bit of loner, aloof and not someone who initiates conversation, or who converses well when approached (I don’t do small talk too well). Senior colleagues perhaps also view me with an element of mistrust because I don’t do the politics things and tend to speak my mind. Strengthening the ‘succesful’ profile I have would be nice, but I am equally keen to give myself a bit of a lift in terms of being seen as someone who is easy to talk to, easy to approach when help is required (which I have always been more than happy to do).

On a social level I am keen to work on the following:

I am fairly introverted with people I don’t know. In crowded settings I tend to retreat to the periphery or use alcohol as a basis to bolster confidence. The latter is fine for a short while, but my witty banter tends to get somewhat diluted after a bottle of wine which does not help. Therefore, to be seen as someone who A) should be approached and B) is worth approaching would be good.

Encouraging conversation (both from me and from the person I am talking to) would be helpful. My close female friends say that I am very charming once you get to know me, but I have trouble demonstrating this in general social settings.

Finally, I am considered attractive (the same female friends have told me this - and no, one of them is not my mother), dress well and am comfortably off financially. However, in the past I have either seemed to crash and burn at a critical point, (this did not happen all of the time) or I got on so well with the female in question that they ultimately ended up viewing me as ‘friend material’. Some help in stirring up some basic female lust towards me would be useful.

That’s about it, which is hopefully enough to get me my $25 voucher (before conversion to £Sterling).

I have kicked off by buying A314 (which also came with a free Turn Up The Heat). Any advice on these products would be appreciated, as well as guidance on other pheromones which might be worth trying/combining.

Thanks in advance

BW

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Hello BW and welcome to the forum!

For work, it seems like some instant honesty and Instant Openness would help with that interpersonal level that you described. A314 would inspire confidence from your employers and generate some more respect for yourself, but based on how you describe yourself I think you would do well to pair it with some instant Honesty or Openness.

For social settings I definitely suggest IO and IH, as they help with making conversation flow really well. Instant Shine adds confidence and makes people really have fun around you. I suggest you also get some Ammo to bridge that gap from “friend” to “available” in women’s eyes.

I know I have thrown a lot of products at you, and don’t feel like you need to get them all at once, but I think for your situation these would be some of the ideal mones.

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Hi B.W,

Welcome.

For work, you got the right pheromone there. A314 will make your clients respect you, listen to you more and trust you. This definitely boost sales.
To build relationship in office, try IH. It can make people closer to you. They will talk deeper and more personal with you.

For social and to encourage conversation, use IO. It open up people and make them want to talk to you. It makes you look like more approachable.

Good luck to you.

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Nice starting post! thanks you so much!
Welcome!

I was going to recommend A314, see how you already have it not going to :slight_smile:

As for making people more comfortable, and talkative, i would have to say instant honesty and instant openness.

Openness makes people talk like crazy!, but you still have to initiate it :slight_smile:.

honesty is more heat to heart trustworthy kind of thing.

If you want something to give you the one up on the dateing scene then Ammo is your go to. It is a great attraction product.

Thanks for the awesome first post ill edit with some links to read in a second. here you go Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15 a great guide about the pheromones.
-nate

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Thanks for the replies. My purchase of A314 was looked into before I bought it. The Turn up the Heat was a freemans. Does the latter work well with A314, and will it have the same effect as the Ammo? The Instant Openess/Honesty route looks good, I will take a look. I am a pheromone newbie, so will take things slowly, but how easy/recommended is it to combine, say, 2 or 3. For example A314 with some Instant Openess and then topped up with Turn up the Heat (for social/evening settings) would seem to be a good combination?

Appreciate that pheromones are also part of solution and the rest is up to me. The small talk element is also going to be important. Either way, thanks for the advice - first impressions on the friendliness of people on this forum are pretty good.

BW

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A314 is predominantly a work product that says “alpha male, leader” - as long as you are congruent with it. That is, if you are or act like a leader. If not, people will ignore the vibe and treat you like one of the followers. Look up the thread “Conruency. What’s that?” by renny. A very good read on the subject.

Ammo and TUTH are not interchangeable. Two very different beasts. Same amount of none but in Ammo it is buffered so the none comes across as “I am interested”. It is polite enough to wear to work.

TUTH on the other hand because it is not buffered says “I want to do you now.” Usually not the subtle message a woman wants to hear when she is first meeting a guy. This product is usually best when there is a fair amount of attraction already or a history of intimacy.

Now some people use IO to buffer the TUTH when they go clubbing. It just makes the message a little … friendlier. “I am a sorta friendly talkative guy who wants to do you right now”. Adding in A314 says “I am a sorta friendly alpha male who wants to do you right now.”

What might work better is going with the IO or a A314 and IO combo at first until you get some contact. Then if things start getting friendly, add in the TUTH at that point. Check out some posts by Lowtek, another pretty new member. He used this strategy very successfully.

It all depends on the message you want to send.

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I am a bet confused by what you mean by “Does the latter work”.
i wouldn’t recommend TUTH for social, I’d say use Ammo, it is received better socially then tuth.

Tuth is good for club/a girl you been seeing for a bit. It comes off as lets get naked and tango. Which could hurt in social environment (non party/club) because every one you incounter can tell your DTF, and looking for it.

edit: bosshank is dead on :slight_smile:

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Thanks for that.

I was referring to using A314 and Turn Up The Heat together. From what you are saying, Turn Up the Heat is a little ‘full on’. It came as a free sample with the A314, so I will perhaps roadtest it a little first as I am not losing anything by doing so.

I will also take a look at Ammo as well (in addition to the Instant Openess)

One final quick question before I stop being lazy and start looking through the various threads, I see that you can also use a standard cologne in conjunction with the pheromones? I’m assuming that the cologne goes on afterwards - so guess that a sensible application will not dilute the effects of the pheromones?

B.J

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ahh i see, bosshank got that covered :slight_smile:
yes you can use your own cologne,
but, after you apply your pheromones, wait 10-15 minutes before applying cologne.
It is always good to test to see how it works with you, what we tell is the general effects but it will vary depending on peoples body chemistry.
for me, my cologne is strong, i do not put it over my pheromones (personal preference), but i believe it doesn’t matter.
Ammo is a safe all the time attraction pheromone. Tuth, used in the right situations is great. but dont take it to church lol.

Any questions ask them, we are here for you :slight_smile:

also i may suggest reading the book rules of the game, by neil strauss (hopefully spelled name right this time). It is a 30day crash course in PUA.

-Nate

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Hello Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

Great advice from the members. I would go with AMMO IO and Ishine.

AMMO is more versatile then TUTH and has the same amount of anone for arousal in it.

IO with help increase interaction and give a friendly approachable vibe adding comfort to socialization.

Ishine will warm up the aloofness and give a charismatic charm.

If you have questions just ask Your GC is on its way :smiley:

Hope to see you in the forum

Tisha
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