Hey everyone I’m Jim and I’m 23 from the Boston area. A buddy of mine told me about pheromone cologne so I did some research and found you guys. I’m a laid back easy going guy. Sometimes to easy going where people tend to take advantage of it. It takes a lot to get me mad because I can never really be bothered to get mad over things when I know its not worth my time or breath lol. I’m fun up beat I like to goof off and have fun. But I can be serious when I need to be, but being goofy is way more fun and by goofy I mean to make the people around me laugh. When I’m with a girl I always like to put her first and make her smile because that’s what makes me happy.
Hi Jim, welcome to PheroTalk! 
You sound fun to be around, which is always a good thing because pheromones can enhance that. What are your expectations and hopes with phero products? Clubbing? Dating? LTR? Respect? Just plain old fun? Depending on what you’re after, we can give you some suggestions on what to buy. Of course, there is the (excellent, I have to say) Killer Newbie Kit instore, for a little bit of everything!
Hope to hear from you soon!
- Spinach
Well as goofy and up beat as I am when I’m around my friends I’m shy when it comes to meeting new people and my confidence is not very good at first. I also get anxiety when I would like to approach a woman to start a conversation. I want to use pheo products for dating, respect, fun, and eventually LTR .
Jim
Welcome Jman to the forum!
I would suggest IShine and IO when meeting new people. Good times vibe and confidence bump of IShine coupled with the Talk about Anything vibe of IO, let the barriers down, will help out in confidence and meeting of new people.
AMMO gives me a confidence boost, in a sexy confident male, kind of way. I like that it’s sexiness can be adjusted to the back burner with my attitude, body language, conversation, etc. and brought to the fore with the same.
Approach is much about confidence and lowering that anxiety. These mones will help with those feelings. You’re the builder and these mones are the tools to help you build your social circle with your personality and convo’s as the building blocks.
1Alpha
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Hey thanks for the advice. I already have my cart loaded up with a bunch of stuff I want to try including what you said but I’m waiting on the $25 GC because it would be a huge help seeing that I’m in college and any bit helps.
Thanks everyone
It took me a few days before I got my own GC when I first posted. It may be sooner as I’ve seen Mick responding quickly to the GC’s that qualify.
1Alpha
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Ok I got a question so there’s this girl in one of my classes and I know shes noticed me because Ive seen here look over at me once or twice. That doesn’t mean shes interested so I’m wondering what I should use so shes a little more aware of my presence. I want her to feel like she wants to talk to me. I feel that instant openness would be something I should look into.
What do you think?
Have you had any other interactions with her? Conversations of weight? IO will allow for a vibe of being able to talk about anything and this may be the vibe you want to open her up.
However, if you want a deeper, Long Time That I haven’t seen ya, speaking to an old friend vibe, IH would be more along the lines of what you’d want to use.
Does that mean you can’t use IO for that purpose? No, it may not be AS helpful to get the IH vibe.
1Alpha
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No there were no other interactions other than passing papers around the room. But nothing I could make conversational yet. The class is only 3 weeks in so I have time to make my move lol.
Yes, then, use up the IO along with AMMO for convo’s to be pushed from platonic to where you want it to be…
This may be a sily stupid question but does the Turn Up The Heat phero make the user horny or sexually aroused or in the mood. I dont want to put it on in the club or bar and be walking around with a … Ya know strong noodle lol
Well… I don’t get THAT excited with it on. BUT, in the mood and horny are good descriptors of my self effects with TUTH. I don’t wear it very often so I think that’s why I seem to continue to get that effect when I do wear it.
I’ve read reports of user’s applying TUTH and boner’s galore! ! ! So YMMV!
1Alpha
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LOL thats good to know. Ill take it easy when I try it to see how it effects me first.
Are all the spray colognes scented or can I use them with a cologne that I already have. Also will I get immune to them if I use them a lot will I not feel an effect as much? But the effect on women will still be there right?
Hmm I think it depends. Some users say they’ve never experienced self-effects from pheromones products. Others continue to do so after years of using them, and yet others say they fade after a while! You will have you find out for yourself, everyone is different. But in general, I think people experience lasting self-effects. The effect on others should be very much there.
The spray colognes are scented, yes, but you can also cover them with your own if you wish. For example the Neroli scent is relatively light, and using your own cologne on top may even help with diffusion.
Nice Im looking forward to using it. I just put in my first order. I got TUTH, IS, A314/S/B, AMM/SMR2012/togo, and IO. I got them all in the to go bottles to see what I like best. Any suggestions on use and how to mix and match for different reactions/ effects?
It’s a good idea to test them separately first. If you go straight into mixes you won’t know why it failed, or which hits you should attribute to which mones, and how to get more of the same effect. This thread should be helpful! How To Find Your Sweet Spot (How to find your sweet spot...)
After you have gotten a good grasp on what each phero can do individually, you can go crazy mixing - as long as you tell us all about your adventures! 
Even without guidance, I’m sure you’ll have your own ideas on what to wear together to get different reactions.
Have fuuuuun!
- Spinach
Congratulation on deciding to try the products. I personally enjoy wearing them. My favorites are Shine and Ammo. They not only will they make a difference in how others interact with you they will also influence the way you feel. Don’t think is a magic love potion. It’s not. It just influences the way others feel about you. You have to couple that with charm and personality for success to be achieved. Best of luck to you!
Welcome Jman,
I think you got some pretty good advice and you just have to start and see where this goes.
Work on building that confidence and remember that although women like a nice guy they don’t respect or get attracted to a push over , someone who they can take advantage of
We also love a funny guy but not a joker so learn to have that balance.
The guys on the forum will take you under their wing and help you with that
Your gc was issued!
Hey not trying to be a Debbie downer over here, but why are the labels on the To-Go Sprays I got held on with scotch tape, it seems a bit unprofessional.
Are the labels on with tape or the cap is anchored down with tape?
1Alpha