I’ve never been great with the ladies . I grew up on a farm 10 miles away from town so I’ve never been a “people person” or had the interaction with others to make things easier… I’ve been divorced now for around 4yrs, having three kids who live with the ex / “Evil One”… About a year ago a beautiful woman wanted to meet me and we hit things off nicely… I wish to use the pheromones to re-spark her desires in me so they over power her over thinking nature. Meaning, her desires for me are stronger than her over thinking about how past relationships hurt her and thinking there is a chance I am trying to do the same…
Below is a short version of my story:
My girlfriend (she is 33yrs old) of over a year is military. Recently she found out I was saving for “the ring” around the same time she learned she may be deploying for almost a year. Add in we are both divorced with kids. Mine live in the area (CO), her son lives on the east coast near northern Florida.
She has had some bad past relationships and recently she has been pulling away. I (and a relationship therapist I asked) get the feeling she wants me (lots of details are being left out remember), yet at same time she doesn’t want to make me choose between her and my own kids should she get stationed in Florida after returning from a deployment starting in August…
I’ve told her that where we are doesn’t matter. If I can make a better life for my kids in FL, then I will find a way to bring them closer eventually. (As it is now, my ex - depending on her mood at the time - uses loopholes in divorce papers to keep my contact at a minimum. So I have learned to be a bit detached from them to avoid the hurt not having them “there” causes already…)
Anyways, I thought to try some TUTH in a small dose the next time we (Girlfriend and I) both can spend time together. Figured a spray or two around the neck/wrists would help the hug at the start of the date set things off to a desired path for the remainder of the date. Sex is not the end goal of that one date (important, yes, but not only focus), but sexual attraction and desire to be around me more seem like they would be helpful.
What can I expect from TUTH? Any advice, suggestions, or recommendations are welcome
Have a read through the information given . you will probably find the answer to your question.
Of course members will be pleased to help you with your quest into Pheromones.
Reading through your post I dont think TUTH is what you need .
A more social/bonding pheromone would be better IMO .
Some IH with I SHINE or Ammo with Shine.
Instant honesty is great for deep connected conversation and bonding, I would mix it with Shine to add a brighter lighter social note.
For seduction mixes have a look at Mobocasters journal.
Other will probably have more advice on some of the Putatives that may be of use to you.
Good luck with you relationship, It sounds like you are managing well under difficult circumstances.
Yes, TUTH is straight-up sex. wheras IH/IS is a superb combo for reconnection/bonding and getting any issues out in the open - in a good way. The IS as steering tends to help keep things happy/feelgood. IH alone can go too-deep the other way.
Then you introduce some TUTH to help take things sexual.
Also, in your 30s, A314 oil is a great and subtle way of reminding her why she went for you, what you are worth and it conveys all the best solid relationship qualities. It is also fully usable with IH/IS and TUTH around more mature-outlook women (say late 20s and over) although it may not go down so well with less mature/younger/party girls. The /b spray is dosed to be closer to oil in impact and is a good try-out, although it won’t last so long per application and is less subtle overall.
The TUTH is supposed to arrive today, but I have some A314 that should arrive tomorrow. I’ll try the A314 when we next meet up and if things go well maybe (as in small maybe) spritz a TUTH on near the end. (BTW - She is 33yrs old)
I would assume that a bit of TUTH would at the very least leave her thinking of me in a sexually positive way making it plausible that she will initiate contact for another date soon afterwards. (This assumption is based off reading the “journals” posted by others where they tested TUTH around others and the reactions received.)
Hopefully by then I will have some of these other suggested pheromones to use (waiting on payday)…
I’m currently exploring the journals for progress reports and suggested combinations and their effects.