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Hi, I’m new here as well as to pheromone usage.

I’ve never been great with the ladies . I grew up on a farm 10 miles away from town so I’ve never been a “people person” or had the interaction with others to make things easier… I’ve been divorced now for around 4yrs, having three kids who live with the ex / “Evil One”… About a year ago a beautiful woman wanted to meet me and we hit things off nicely… I wish to use the pheromones to re-spark her desires in me so they over power her over thinking nature. Meaning, her desires for me are stronger than her over thinking about how past relationships hurt her and thinking there is a chance I am trying to do the same…

Below is a short version of my story:

My girlfriend of over a year is military. Recently she found out I was saving for “the ring” around the same time she learned she may be deploying for almost a year. Add in we are both divorced with kids. Mine live in the area (CO), her son lives on the east coast near northern Florida.

She has had some bad past relationships and recently she has been pulling away. I (and a relationship therapist I asked) get the feeling she wants me (lots of details are being left out remember), yet at same time she doesn’t want to make me choose between her and my own kids should she get stationed in Florida after returning from a deployment starting in August…

I’ve told her that where we are doesn’t matter. If I can make a better life for my kids in FL, then I will find a way to bring them closer eventually. (As it is now, my ex - depending on her mood at the time - uses loopholes in divorce papers to keep my contact at a minimum. So I have learned to be a bit detached from them to avoid the hurt not having them “there” causes already…)

Anyways, I thought to try some TUTH in a small dose the next time we (Girlfriend and I) both can spend time together. Figured a spray or two around the neck/wrists would help the hug at the start of the date set things off to a desired path for the remainder of the date. Sex is not the end goal of that one date (important, yes, but not only focus), but sexual attraction and desire to be around me more seem like they would be helpful.

Any advice, suggestions, or recommendations are welcome

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Hey NeoKnight78, welcome to pherotalk

I’m not sure how I personally feel about tuth, not having tested it too much. I would suggest trying something like Instant honesty due to it’s bond promoting qualities, and maybe even p74 which has been dubbed in some peoples minds as “instant boyfriend”. If sex is not the end goal then these may just be perfect for you. Added benefit: you can mix them with tuth.

If you do use tuth, be sure to use it in an appropriate setting. You could be coming off as too strong if you use it in the beginning of the date and she may get the vibe that you were only there to get in her pants, which I’m sure isn’t the intent you have.

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I’ll be sure to check those out more.

Rephrase of my one comment: Sex is not the end goal of that first date… LONG TERM relationship is my end goal

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Go with A314 + IH + P74 if a longterm relationship is your intention.

Read this recent thread about a fallout mix or look up some older posts, plenty of info.

A314 as a base is the way to go at your age. Plus as she’s in the military she’ll probably respond well to an authorative alpha blend.

A314 also screams ‘male provider’ - reliable, ‘I’ll take care of you’. Think a woman with bad past relationships will respond well to this vibe.

TUTH is liquid penis, only good for getting a sexual response. No properties that would make a girl consider you for something long-term.

TUTH can be added to A314 to steer things in a sexual direction, when the timing is right.

Just my 2 cents.

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Will need to get some of that A314, but what’s the difference between A314 A and B?

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The spray version is more blatant than the oil (faster diffusion), so easier to figure out how the product works for you.

I’d stick with the B version if you try it for the first time. It’s dosage as exactly the same as 1 drop of the oil.

The A version is harsher, harder hitting. Good for those times you need to make a really BIG impression, not so useful in 1-on-1 interactions.

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Hello from CO

Not sure if it was a literal sense of having to say “Hello” to get the gift certificate, but if so…

I’m 35, male, living in Colorado.

Posted this earlier with my details as to the “why” I’m here:

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lol don’t feel bad I did something similar when I first got here. I will say this tho. These are good people at ADR and tend not to be too anal about stuff like this. Least in my experience. anyway welcome aboard.

cheers
Kodo

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**Welcome to our community Neo!

We’re super happy to have you join us. Thanks for stopping by and sharing. I hope to see more of you around here in the next few weeks!

This is a quick note to let you know I’ve issued your gift certificate. It’s burning a hole in your email box as you read this!

Have fun!"

~~~~~**

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A314(b) ordered, TUTH to be delivered tomorrow… Others to purchase next pay day :slight_smile:

Is it “evil” of me to want to test a spritz of TUTH near a female co-worker just to see if and how she will react so I “know” this works and a hint as to what to expect in the future?

Now, she has a fianc? and I have no intention to act on anything, just curious as to what effect to expect…

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Well, what do you expect to see as a result?

Beware of using tuth in an inappropriate setting (workplace, library, school, etc.)

Showing sexual interest in a heavy manner is highly inappropriate at work. I do not recommend it.

You can however get a range of reactions varying from “hot and bothered” to “ew get away from me you are coming on really strongly”. Use at your own risk

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As a result, well… Some obvious signal that she is turned on by something would be helpful to measure effects. If she has issues talking around me and a flushed face, I’d be happy with those as a result.

I’m only intending to use 1 spray for the night. I figure if I can get a “positive” turned on effect from one spritz with them, I should definitely get positive results from a certain someone else…

My TUTH came with a surprise of IS. Awesome bonus and one off my list! Wondering if my A314 that should arrive tomorrow will have a bonus too (would be great if it was IH or P74 to round out my current “shopping list”)

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Wearing TUTH unbuffered at the office is like walking around with a hard-on. Be careful.

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Good to know… Maybe I’ll wait until I have some other items to buffer it :confused:

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or better yet wait til you have the A314. Use that at work and leave the TUtH for the clubs/bars. Also bear in mind what works on 1 person may not work on someone else.