Okay, so i thought i already posted this thread but apparently i never. But heres the story
So today is Saturday, and yesterday, the guy from DHL came with my order of pheros. Except, i wasn’t at home. so, anyways, i dont really mind having to wait untill monday, which i know i will get it then because i will be home on the account of having a holiday from school. But i have an extremely important date on sunday and i do realize that it would porbably be bad to wear your pheromones fro the first time, on an important date, but i still would have liked to try them out.
So do you guys think i should call DHL and try to arrange a pickup time? or just wait untill Monday?
Oh, and i also forgot to mention, my parents are sort of old fashioned, they wouldnt even let me use their credit card online (which is understandable) but because they for one: dont know how to use it, and secondly because they think that if they use it online, their number will automatically be stolen and used for other purposes. Because they are old fashioned, i believe tat they will not like the idea of me using pheromones. What should i tell them?
Alright, first off i’m going to assume you don’t live in the US, since DHL has been discontinued for US to US shipments. So i would then assume that your package is sitting in a local DHL hub. If you can get in contact with them, there’s a good chance they’d be willing to release the package to you, although you’ll need identification. Can’t say for sure though… but might as well give it a shot.
As for your date, if you really want to try out your products with this girl, try to keep the spray count low and use only one product. Even better, i’d recommend sticking to the social products first. A -none OD with a girl you like isn’t going to end well for you. But we can give more advice once we know what you ordered.
As to the credit card problem, if you go into the shop and find out the amount of money that your order will cost you, you can get prepaid cards that aren’t linked to your bank account. That way it doesn’t matter who you give it out to, assuming you get the product. But since you’ll be dealing with Androtics, that’s not an issue.
Finally, i suppose a good question for you would be: Do you make your own money from a job, or do you get an allowance from the parents? Because if you’re earning your own income, you could try to politely explain to them that if you wish to “waste your money” on pheromones instead of CD’s or eating out, does it make much of a difference? It will even encourage you to go out and socialize more, since thats what the products are for! But remember, i said POLITE. I never recommend going head-to-head with the parents, since they’ve done their best to raise and support you. In their eyes, discouraging you would just be protecting you from “getting scammed.”
1: No, i live in Canada, and i called the number on the sheet that they left in my mail box, but there was no answer, and the message machine’s inbox was full.
2: i ordered all to go sizes of:
-Instant Shine
-Instant Openness
-Ammo
I wasn’t really planing on testing the ammo if i were to test it at all, i know shes really into guys (ill call them party guys, cause thats what they’re called here) who have a lot of confidence, and go to most of the parties. As for the parties, i usually declined most invites in the past cause i knew they would just get out of hand and would get busted, but i do go to a good few, and as for the confidence… My level of confidence can vary. But even if im at a confidence high, i sometimes have troubles showing it, (im hoping the shine can help) and if your wondering how i know she likes those kind of guys, well she told me, plus shes dated a bunch of my friends soo
3: Oh, thats what i did, i bought a $50 pre paid visa, hoping to get me 4 to go samples, but i had no idea that shipping would cost me $29.99. And i have utmost confidence in the safety of Androtics website
4:Neither. I just save money that they give me to purchase lunch, or money i get for birthdays and christmas’s and such. But thats pretty funny because as i am typing this now, im about to go out and drop off a few more resumes around town. Cause i never got any reply from the last ones i dropped off. And theres a Home depot near my house which im hoping to get hired at because they’re short staffed there
Anyways, im gone to do that now, i hope i gave you the info you needed MFG
(so if you guys have anything to say while im gone, ill check as soon as i get back in. Cant wait hear some good advice )
OH! and incase anyone was wondering, the girl im hanging out with on sunday, what were doing is that we are going mini golfing, and then to a movie, incase that makes any difference lol
Well, i’m afraid to say pheromone advice might not do you much good if you can’t get in contact with DHL to try to pick up your package. I really have no clue if you could just show up there and try to claim it… might just waste some of your time. Honestly, i would just wait till monday, unless they also have that day off for holiday… might wanna check into that.
But assuming you do get your hands on that wonderful pack of goodies, i would recommend 3 sprays of IS (2 neck and 1 split between wrists) and 2 sprays of IO (1 neck and 1 split between wrists). That should help you feel a bit more confident and upbeat, while hopefully letting you get those outgoing self-effects from IO without making you a chatterbox. But i’m sure other people will be around to give their 2 cents as well shortly.
Hello, disconnected. Sorry to hear that your parents might not be particularly approving of your use of pheromones. No one in my family knows either, except my mom, who just sort of laughs about it. If I told my grandmother (with whom I live) and could get her to understand that they’re not just for sexual purposes and can be useful in many environments, and that they actually work (a few published studies would do the trick), I might actually get her approval, but I’m not going to risk it. I originally thought that she would think it was ridiculous, but I’ve since come to realize that she approves of just about any means of advancing oneself through society as long as doesn’t hurt anyone and isn’t downright outrageous.
As for jobs, you might try requesting to speak with a manager personally. For a while, I was just putting in resumes and applications and never hearing anything at all regarding any of them. Then my aunt found out about my bad luck and suggested I ask to speak with a manager when I apply. I went to five places that day, three to which I had already applied a while back, and tried that. I was confident, gave a firm handshake, made sure they knew my name, and so on. Two days later, I had a choice between four of those five jobs, and the only one I hadn’t secured was at a company that manufactures steel wire and things for docking and shipping companies, so it probably required a bit more experience and specific skill than I possessed. Give it a shot and see how it goes for you. Good luck!
If by some chance you can’t get a hold of your package by tomorrow remember that even with pheromones on it’s still 90 percent you. Pheromones only really act as a social lubricant, so if you can do it with them on the odds are that you can do it without them.
Just be outgoing, upbeat, and put on a smile and I’m sure you’ll do just fine. I mean hey you got the date with out any help, so something tells me if you had to, you could go the rest of the way with out 'em.
Yeah, my little brother who is fairly close to the same age as me knows, and he thinks they sound pretty awesome. Im most likely just not going to tell my parents aha
And as for a job, im most likely going to end up applying at one of the more popular places like McDonald’s or Tim Hortons, no matter how much i do not want to, and when i went into Home deopt, i was talking to one of the employees for about 10 minutes about a job, and she was going on about how much this store is a real good place to work, and then finally, she was like, oh do you have any i.d? i have to check your age. And i gave her my piece of id i had on me. And then she was like, oh, your not 18? and i was like no im only 16. She was like yeah, i though you were like 20
Thanks! I really needed the amounts of sprays and stuff i had no idea what to try and i only have a holiday on monday because its a school board holiday
Yeah, by the looks of it im not going to have it for tomorrow, and earlier when i said “date” i think i put it in quotations but im not entirely sure, anyways, the quotations would be because, its not really a date, we are technically just hanging out, but it was originally supposed to be friday. So it was the day before valnetines, and its only the two of us, usually when we hang her friend comes along, but not this time, and its a date like situation. Were playing mini golf and then were seeing friday the 13th, and were getting supper. SOOO it does sound like a date seeings how its the day after valnetines. And depending on how it goes im deciding weather or not telling her that i still like her. Because she liked me last year, but i wasnt really available. And then she liked me again this year, and we went on a date but i wasnt really acting like it was a date sooo.
But do your self a favor unless your in a relationship with a girl don’t tell her how your feel for her, that gives her all the power in the situation… Instead show her that you like her, lay on the charm and throw in a few romantic gestures. Women like the mystery and the challenge of trying to figure out what your thinking, if you do it just right it will drive her crazy. (Which is a very good thing.)
Besides if you spill the beans and she doesn’t feel the same way you’ve just put yourself into a really awkward situation.
aha thanks man, But the thing is, she knew i liked her in november when she liked me. And im not entirely sure what she thinks now, but if i told her, it wouldnt shock her TOO much or anything, but i think im just gonna “hang out” with her, and if all goes well, ill tell her later on the week or something
AND! this is most likely a terrible place to ask, but what should are the do’s, and the do not’s of my situation. if you dont mind me asking. Like i know what i want to do, but i dont want to make anything feel rushed, or forced or anything like that
There really aren’t any hard and fast rules when it comes to this sort of stuff, if you’ve got the right mindset or “inner game” as they call it you could do just about anything and it will work. Just try to look good, smell good, and don’t do anything to insult her or put her off in anyway. Oh and try to smile.
Word on the street has it that Steve is the man with this sort of stuff you might want to send him a PM and see if he will allow you to pick his brain.
Yup, it just happened… 2 weeks ago? Maybe three. But it was very recent. I suppose FedEx has conquered the US special mailing business, but DHL continues strong in the international field!
Yeah, i think there was something mentioned about this in that thread talking about the special shipping deal for 9.95? when i logged on the other day it auto re-directed me to it. It explained most of it.
Oh, and just a little update, for anyone who cares, the girl im hanging out with just texted me, and she can no longer hang out now, so we have to re-schedule meaning that i will get my pheromones tomorrow in time for whenever we hang out.
So, i now MFG has posted his thoughts on what i should wear, anyone else got any suggestions, once again this is what im ordering, and its my first order, so they’re all i have: