Ah yeah! P74! Absolutely!
P74 is all of these things to all of these people… P74, a compilation: enhanced attracting effects, a ‘cool person' vibe, and empathy
I’m just getting used to it myself. It is… kind of a confidence builder, and so much more.
Yes, of course, your sensitivity counts for a great deal, it is how you express it that makes the difference. You’ll get the right sort of idea from David DeAngelo’s material, for sure. Much of what you may find in the PUA material is somewhat counter-intuitive, to say the least, but you can work it without compromising who you are at heart. And work with the IFM when she is around. Try for a fairly consistent phero-signature but don’t worry too much if it is a little different from time to time, have a constant like A314/IFM. It may take some time for the association to set in, she is to associate you with the nice effects of IFM and the alpha A314 vibe, and the other guy with… nothing much in that department.
I imagine that it is by no means the first time that this guy has tried for the extra-marital affair. And she will know this too. The more time passes without him getting anywhere with her, the more his “jerk” kind of allure will fade too, I think. Jerks get their results in a short time frame, or not at all.