MX415
3rd testing:
Today I had to attend the “ending” event for the “Get Fit Hawaii” health and fitness initiative that is an annual thing I have participated in since its inception 4 years ago. It was basically a potluck with gifts for everyone, recognition for team leaders and others who had really contributed to the success of the initiative.
Because I knew it would consist of mostly females, and because with my two previous testings of MX415 I had experienced slightly argumentative situations with females, I wanted to see if this might happen again.
Right before my friend (the same one I went shopping with last week and had the slight argument with about where our food really comes from and why organic really is better) came to pick me up, I applied 2 sprays of MX415 to the skin of my forearms (rubbed together) and chest/neck region. Slight mood boost as before, and I remained cheerful throughout the day.
My friend had promised to get there early to help set up, but was running late and had me walk down to the gas station to meet her so she wouldn’t have to make two stops. She was rushing and speeding a little, feeling really bad because she had promised to help (the other person would have been setting up by herself). I told her to relax, that by the time we got there the event would be already starting and there was nothing we could do about it anyway. She finally relaxed about it and we got there just in time for the beginning of it (though not in time to help set up).
Between 20-25 people showed up, 4 of them males, the rest females. All interactions were warm and friendly, and quite a few of the ladies took the initiative to introduce themselves and speak to me. No negative vibes of any kind whatsoever, the entire time.
One of the males, a very attractive Caucasian male who appeared to be in his late 30’s/early 40’s, seated one person over (there was one person between us) kept looking at me.
When I got up to get water, I decided to get my water from the big dispenser thing in a cup, rather than take a bottle of water from the cooler, in order to be more eco-friendly, and also because I prefer my water to be more room temperature which the water in the dispenser was.
As I was pouring my water, he got up from the table (across the room) came over and asked why I didn’t want the bottled water. I explained why, and he said, “Yes, I like my water that way too” and proceeded to pour himself a cup of room temperature water from the dispenser. We walked back to the table, and resumed eating, and I then noticed that he already had a bottle of bottled water sitting by his plate, lol.
He pretty much “followed” me around, trying to be subtle, lol, like when I went to get another serving of fruit, he just “happened” to have to get up and get something too.
After the meal, everyone kind of stood around and mingled, and of course I ended up talking to this guy, and we found we both had similar tastes in reading, and had both in fact read a somewhat obscure book on philosophy that we both had really enjoyed. And of course he just had to mention that he used to be a personal trainer, lol.
Later, when prizes and presents were distributed, he and I both happened to have won one of five books, which the book winners got to pick which one, whoever won the book one first got first pick, etc.
So he won just before me, and of course he waited until I went over to choose (there were three books left) then came over too. One was about where our food really comes from, one was about medicine today, and one was a philosophy book. He said, “I know which one you want” (the philosophy book) and I said, “You go ahead, you were first, which do you want?”.
He pointed to the philosophy book and said, “But you take it, and then you can lend it to me after”, I said, “No, you were first, you have it”, and he said, “Okay, but then I’ll lend it to you after I read it, though I’ll need to know how to reach you”. I said okay, then chose the book about where our food really comes from (to lend it to my friend who I had the slight argument with the other day so that she would stop being clueless, lol).
Later, he found a pad and pencil, gave me his phone number and email, and had me give him mine.
On the way home, I told my friend about this guy, and how he seemed really into me, and how he followed me around and really wanted to know me more. My friend then told me that he was married and had two kids. I was totally shocked. I asked her if she had met his wife, and she said yes, and that his wife is really gorgeous.
So I am totally clueless as to why this totally hot guy with a totally hot wife seemed to be all over me. And his behavior was very open, anyone who was noticing at all certainly saw this. And if my friend (who was a team leader and very involved in the initiative) has met his wife, I’m sure others there knew he was married and may likely have met his wife too.
So that really sucked, especially since we really hit it off and had interests in common. Ah, well…it was nice for a little while (before I found out he was married!)
Conclusion: MX415 does not necessarily contribute to argumentative behavior from females, and in a setting where I didn’t know most of the people, it may have helped attract them to initiate conversation with me.
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