Sundance,
Welcome to the world! You have probably noticed by now that this place is full people who are friendly, helpful, intelligent, articulate,… Well, you get the idea. Hell, even the young bucks around here aren’t so puffed up that they can’t admit when they’re wrong. That’s always a good sign.
Mark is right that somewhere 40ish pheromone response becomes more and more individual. The response in both you and the women around you become more experiential and more influenced by social context. It made huge difference in my understanding when I read Renny’s thread Congruence? What's That?