well im 20 im sum what attractive all out kinda guy, but i guess i still dont have what it takes to actually get up the guts to talk to them so im thinking of trying a phew out to see if i can be more calm and relaxed with someone instead of tense and see how it goes from there, in general im just wanting to be able to go up to a woman and be more open and not have her think im a freak i guess and in return think im a cool kinda guy, and just see if we can actually have a conversation and too see what might happen after that but my main objective is to get over this talking issue for me when im at a club ill have plenty come over too me and try and strike a conversation but im just at loss of words and then they just walk off, but its cool how people already give me advice with what i should try and i appreciate it guys/gals.
Hi Mysterman,
Welcome to the forum.
For self affects you could try Instant shine and IO they will both make you feel a bit more up bet and chatty. A314 could also help and make you feel more valuable (if that is the word…)
Give us some more info about yourself and I’m sure others will be able to help you out with a few other suggestions.
Good luck
A bit more specifics would be good. Like what are you hoping to achieve? Just talking to girls/guys? Dating the girl/guy? Getting with the girl/guy?
You never specified your orientation!
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Welcome mysteryman
Do tell us a bit more about you, but based on the info you have provided seems like the social products would be best. Consider instant honesty and instant openness. Will help draw people to you and you all feel comfortable around each other. Also consider Ammo, this is an attractant that is very popular with members here.
Do try to write 2 paragraphs about you and the results you want, this will ensure you qualify for the gift certificate 
Being tense and nervous in a social situation is very common. We all suffer from it to some degree. But there are lots of things that can help, and pheros is just one tool in that process.
Instant Openness will make you seem more approachable, and will encourage a chatty feeling in others. It will make them more likely to want to talk, and therefore more receptive to you when you approach.
Instant Shine is a feel-good phero that brightens up and uplifts the mood. It can give people a feeling of general wellbeing and cheerfulness, making them glad to be near you. It can also be a confidence booster.
Ammo is an attractor, and will increase the amount of attention you get from the opposite sex. It is mildly sexually arousing to women, and will give you a warm, charming sexiness that should get you a few second looks. The rest is up to you.
There is no quick fix for social jitters or approach anxiety. There is work to be done on the inside, as well as outer changes like pheros. Take a look at MetalTree’s journal to see that changes that he has made. The transformation has been amazing.
Someone mentioned A314, I wouldn’t recommend that one in your case, because it can create distance between you and others. However Instant Gentleman will work similarly without the distance.
Yes that was me, I would have (after all my reading here) suggested ammo (but its not available at the moment) but like you have said Instant Gentleman would work… not that I have tried this one yet so cant really comment on that either.
I said A314 because the few times i have used it now, it has made me feel bullet proof and with that come the woman… I guess you need to be able to pull it off to make this one work for you. Test and test some more, its lots of fun!
I have a neat self and other person affect to report on later. It’s a good one if I do say so myself (non sexual) but pretty amazing. It involves A314, spaceland and IO… Work to do now, so I’ll be back later with the report (not on this thread though..)
Hello,
Instant openness to the hair – works wonders for making you open up more. A314 gives you confidence, and ammo makes you extremely attractive.
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