I went to a club with girls I already knew, IBF worked wonderfully.
When I go out with the guys, I’ll go with an IJ + P75 or one of the UF Mixes.
Sometimes I really do love my life.
I used up the rest of .25b in the ICM mixes, about 3x left.
Went out for some after work drinks. Was out at a place with plenty and plenty of women. We were just sitting at the bar minding our business, talking to some friends we know there when I got this poke from this girl I know. We haven’t seen each other in a while and we kinda got distant, but as we were both migling she became flirty again, we got to busting chops and initiating some kino. Almost like we didn’t stop seeing each other.
The other one was a cute brunette, probably in her early/mid 20’s who was being pretty flirty and hovering around my friend and I. Nothing too much but she kept playing around with us, and giving the whole hard to get approach. Nothing too blatant but definitely got some looks throughout the night, we took it easy and still got some hits here and there.
Bout to make some more of this batch up and test more out.
I always get addicted when I use my IBF mixes. They just work so well I can’t begin to tell you how much I’m going to miss this when I run out of the molecules that are used in here.
I knew this week was going to be time intensive so I decided to take it easy. We went out for some burgers and beers which was pretty nice since she’s down to earth and we can go to formal nice dinners to just a nice night out. After that we went to an outdoor bar, it was pretty nice out and the conversation just flowed for hours. It honestly felt like how it would feel like if I were in a relationship.
We both had plans for the night so we parted ways, but what was really interesting about this mix, is that she text me the entire night and spent the rest of the night talking until the wee hours in the morning. There’s definitely a great factor involved in the vibe that IBF projects. It really just works that good.
Second part: I was out for a guys night out and I decided to try out Steve’s ICM 2.0 mix. I’m saving this cause this stuff works so well. I put on 2 drops of A314 UFE with it and went out and about. I was really just enjoying our time out, we were catching up, since most of us never get to do that we were the rowdy bunch we were during our college days. I was standing behind some girls waiting for a drink I wasn’t talking and wasn’t in their peripherals but one cute blone looked behind and smiled. I smiled back and was going to say something until one of my drunk friends came by and started drunk hitting on them. I could tell her friend wasn’t having any of it, so I ordered my drinks and tried to get my friend to ease up a bit to no avail. The blonde was more easy going and I ended up building a decent raport in a couple of minutes but I took my friend back before things got out of hand. I was getting the normal subtle hits all night, none to which I took advantage of, which I should have, but because I have something going on right now it was the last thing on my mind. What I can say, and this isn’t just a plug for Steve, is that if I was down and willing, I probably coulda closed something.
Controlling a drunk friend around women is the worst! I’m glad you weren’t looking for anything otherwise I’d be angry for you.
do you think if i up the dosage i will screw off the vibe say
P96 40mcg
P83 40mcg
P74 20mcg
TUTH x2
A314 x2
instead of :
P96 30mcg
P83 30mcg
P74 15mcg
TUTH x2
A314 x2
And do you apply everything to the neck area if not what his your application point?
Can you also tell me what his your P75+IJ ratio or what his the mcg and application point
Hmm looks like my last post didn’t go though.
The ratios are the same, but P74 is a bit tricky.
When I apply I layer on my neck, equal parts of everything.
For IJ + P75 is 1:2.5mcg for my applications.
Sorry for the short reply I typed something but it got deleted and I’m running around today.
Like a plug as in you plug it in the socket? I lost my plug the other day, but now I know the TRUTH!
I do love IBF, but I had to do what I felt was right in terms of our relationship and what we’ve been doing.
I knew that going out with her was fun. I really really enjoyed myself, it reminded me of how things were when I was in a relationship. I can start to feel that she may have been at that point and it was going to cross a line I didn’t want to cross. I thought I could keep things platonic, but it never worked out that way. I finally had to say I have to back off from seeing her so much because I respect what she has with her relationshp.
I know we can still be cool and there won’t be any awkwardness, but I felt like after last night, things got way too close to that line.
Looks like I need to read what you have been up to… 
JOSIE YOURE BACK!!!
Geezes man I missed you, how have you been?
Updates! Updates! Updates!
Josie, josie, josie!
Sit down and pull up a chair, its story time with Mustang.
A long long time ago in a galaxy far far away there was a boy who barely registered a blip on people’s radar. The boy led a pretty good life, just like everyone else he had his ups and downs. There was something special about this boy though, he possessed some raw talent that even he did not know he had. As years went on, he muddled in the muck of mediocrity, often settling for less and not going after what he wanted.
As the years went by he knew he had to do something because something deep inside him told him he can do better, and that he must. He embarked in this ongoing journey to experience and live his life. He was not sure how hard it was going to be, or what kind of experiences he would encounter, but went on ahead knowing that he didn’t want to be where he was. The road was tough, there was so many obstacles yet so much to learn and experience. He was the good, and he saw the bad but as time went on and the distance he traveled kept increasing he knew that somewhere along his travels he would find wonderful things that await him.
He came to realize that all the warning and caution signs weren’t meant to discourage him, but to educate him. He heeded and ignored them, to his realization, he learned what he can and can’t do. However each time he challenged himself to do better and better. Friends along the way helped him stay true to his course, gave him encouragement and set markers along the way. In his travels he’s known what it felt like to succeed and to fail. Knowing full well that if he stayed true to his passions and himself, good things will come and will fall into place.
I’ve gone through so many ups and downs here and I’ve publicly shared this with many of you. I learned another valuable lesson recently, that being yourself, and the genuine aura that you give will always trump any pre-set game or any boxed tactics. I’ve used the M3 method, and other PUA methods to learn to be playful and create tension, but that’s all mute when you yourself aren’t centered. If you remain who you are, and let things flow the way they’re intended, you will reap the rewards for it. Too often times we want something that’s almost an instant result. Sometimes things that are worth it, are worth the time and the effort, as long as both sides respect each other. Recently, someone who has been in my life, and have not actively pursued, came to a mutual realization about how we felt about each other. I was always 100% genuine with her, and always told her everything. She saw me for the real me, without any hindrance from trying to be too perfect. She saw my flaws and was fine with it. I learned she thought and felt about me the way I did for her. I thought this was recent and with the help of IBF but this has been going on a while. All I can say is that I’m happy. It may not work out because our lives right now are going in different directions but you never know where it may lead. It felt good when this happened, and I truly am at a happy place right now.
I want to extend a Thank You to all of you who have read and supported me and cheered me along the way. Aside from my RL friends, and to name a few, Steve, Smelly, Josie, thegentleman, joe, olfact, jay, astrea, and a few others, thank you.
Well umm yeah . Always be yourself. That’s what I have been calling congruency all along. You have to be comfortable with who you are. So what happened?
Great post by the way and my vote for TOTW
I met this girl, she was always a friend, we got along really well, and I never thought anything was going to happen, because she was taken. I would talk to her about other girls, we had a platonic relationship. As time went on we spent more and more time with each other, it was also because the relationship was on the rocks and she needed time away. We both started out as just a means to get away from the bs we deal with. We never even as so much had any kind of kino. I was attracted to her but I always kept it quiet. I flirted with girls, talked about girls, right in her presence, and she didn’t react negatively so I knew it reaffirmed by belief that this is a cool chick, and I have the female input.
As things progressed, we got closer and closer. My feelings for her intensified, but I knew (or thought) she was happy with her current situation so I wasn’t going to remotely try. As we got closer, the inkling in my head that she liked me kept getting bigger and bigger. We finally had a heart to heart and found out that we both liked each other, a lot.
I’m a scumbag, regardless because I hooked up with her while she was in a relationship. I know that this is all kinds of fucked up, and all my close friends have told me, but in the end, you gotta just go with it. I’m not advocating it, or proud of it, but I would rather look back and say yea I tried and it didn’t work out, to I didn’t wanna try and I wonder what if.
I haven’t met someone who legitimately makes me smile and happy.
I don’t know where we are going to end up, but I do know she will always have a place in my heart for her.
Annnnnnnnnnnnnd das itttttttttt
So you hooked up with someone you care for. Doesn’t sound scumbaggish to me
Well since you mentioned me in a post I have to nominate it… I just playing with ya stang I always have two open ears and a bottle of jack if you ever need it.
P51
Amazing post like usual my friend. I had to nominate it and I wish other people could see and get some inspiration from it.
I believe everyone has something in them that makes them unique and attractive in a way but we are so influenced in our social surroundings that we forget that we are originals and instead we aim to be a copy of someone else who is “successful”.
I never shared this online to anyone but I feel like mentioning it here.
When I was young, living in Canada, I was living in a place where the majority look at people who do not have baggy pants as “gays”. Weird right?. Add to that, inside my house, I’m always wearing this traditional men clothes, from middle east, that looks like a long dress and when I go shopping for my mom, I go out while wearing it.
The amount of stares I received and people laughing at my choice of wordrop didn’t effect me in the slightest. I was raised in a way that I’m not supposed to judge people on how they look but instead how they behave. Just because people around me couldn’t see that, it didn’t mean that I have to cater on what they want and don’t want me to wear. Once people knew who I’m, a person who doesn’t pretend to be someone he is not, they accepted me. Good god, how they long for this kind of company, I could see it in the way they interacted with me, and how they wanted to be friends right away.
I got to admit, when I was young, before coming to Canada, there was no tv’s at home, the only entertainment we had was running barefoot on the pavement playing soccer. No toys, no nothing. After I turned 7 years old, I had to learn that me, being a man, Crying wasn’t acceptable, only when you are mourning someone. My dad made that perfectly clear. I did a lot of mistakes, you know, part of being a kid, but those mistakes were punishable, sometimes with a few slaps but we had to hold firm and not cry. I was supposed to stand up and face consequences when I make a mistake, and running away from it not acceptable. The mistakes that were punishable that earned me a few beatings are as follows:
Disrespecting someone
Lying
cheating
stealing
Eaves dropping
Showing off
I always wondered, in the beginning, why would my parents do that and how I hate them every time they punished me. However, when I grew up, I can’t stop kissing their hands every time I see them on what they did to me. Everything they did was for me and me only, without them aiming to get anything back. I felt they gave me everything I need to face this world.
Now when I started being interested in girls, without being distracted in other matters, I tackled that field without a guide. When I see someone I’m interested in, I go up and be direct with my intentions, and I let nature takes its course. My mindset towards people I was attracted to , before the approach, was that I can’t force people to like me, and I will never be someone I’m not, despite friends trying to give me advice on what girls like and don’t like. I was right and they were wrong. I attracted the people who accept who I’m in my life, and left out the others.
What I learned all my time in Canada, is that the majority of people run their life on what the media tells them, or shows them what’s acceptable and what is not.
Glad that you have started to see the world through your own eyes and not through other people’s eyes. Trust me, you are very fortunate. Others live and die living as a copy all their life.
“The better the future you build in your thought, activities, movement and awareness, the stronger your hold becomes of the grips of the future, knowing that the present is prepared to lead the future”
God bless
Joe
Thank you for sharing that Joe.
I’m honored you shared that GREAT piece of advice, and like usual, I’ve learned something new in this journey from you guys.
You know Steve, there are a lot of people out there who will automatically label her a bad person and assume that because of that one mistake that it’s something that disqualifies her automatically as a person. This is the only time she’s done it and a situation happened where it wasn’t spiteful to the person, but it was more of a culmination of everything we’ve been through.
Either way, whatever reason they’ve came up with I’ve told them that I’m not excusing the act but I’ve been the one to forgive and not held a grudge over someone’s head. We’ve discussed this about the potential ramifications of such actions.
For me, when I posted that our lives are going in different directions, it is because in her stage, she needs to go and experience life. She needs to have the boundaries that she has right now, which is pretty tight, to be lifted. When we spoke the next day about our actions, I knew that while it felt right, that I would too have to let her do what she needs to do and just be there for her as she does what needs to be done. What I do know was that I put things in perspective for her, and she needed to stop living the life she thought she had to but rather live the life that she wants to.
Keep on truckin’
It came once and it’ll come again