Your situation could of course be completely different than what I had, but I found when I got a ton of LMRs in a row some time back it was because I was excessively going from attraction to sex close lol, without simply spending enough time with her inbetween, and doing some interest besides attraction,& having some more of some sort of comfort level connection before sex. I also went back and studied/learnt the Principles of why and how what you do much earlier on can affect LMR much later on in the MM model
As you described it, her not wanting to give up her power, and being excessively attracted. That makes alot of sense. As if she’s excessively attracted to you and then sleeps with you, she will now be MUCH more emotionally vulnerable to you, and attached. All I can think of that will help with that is abit more trust that she wont be hurt by you, after (eg emotionally hurt, or have to feel emotional pain and/or heartache)
sometimes it can be appropriate to give just abit of vulnerability yourself before sex, so she has some power in relation to you, the same kind of power she will feel you have over her after being excessively attracted to you and sleeping with you. So its being just abit emotionally vulnerable to her earlier on (being emotionally vulnerable to her requires some trust on your part, which sometimes results in reciprocated trust too). I’m sure you’ve heard of this already as they do teach it in quite afew PU circles anyway heh
Even when I run fantastic comfort it occurs. On PARTY girls, for goodness sake. I had used Summo + 83 + 75 at a bar and had three bathroom pulls over the course of the night. Two were party girls. I had them super into me, ran some fast efficacious comfort, did a room destroyer or two, had a load of qualification, and pulled.
I spent about an hour gaming that girl. And it was not that she was saying no, it was the ‘I need to keep this one so I will hold out’. She wanted to relationship me.
I tried with less solid comfort on the second one, no room destroyer and less qualification. Still holding out, still getting right up to the end goal but she had a pained look on her face as she keep logically convincing her that she should not do this.
Third was a set I stuck with the rest of the night (Midnight to 4 am). A normal girl. Sorority sister, but not a party animal. Daddys Little girl. I ran TIGHT comfort. I had enough compliance with the group to move to a place to eat 20 miles away, and some sexual things we should not talk about here.
But she would not let me full close. Logistics were handled in EVERY situation well. I ran good game for the girl. It was just some shiny object obsession I had the girls going after me.
I have had this before without this blend, normally with less attractive girls with super low self esteem. It could be I am so amazing they want to keep me, but I think its a combination of me being so high value and having a load of social proof, status and being Alpha that a great attraction blend is too much.
The 2.5 mcg of P75 with about 40 mcg of P83 sends a very distinct message to men and women alike, which some find slightly intimidating. “Guess what I’ve got in my pants? Go ahead, guess. No, it’s not my cell phone. It’s a tool, and I’m ready to go to work. Oh, and by the way cute girl, I’m not your puppy. You can pet me if you want, but I’m not your friend or your puppy. Just so we’re clear.”
The default would have been neroli. I don’t know what the native scent of P83 is (if you were to order it unscented). I’m familiar with P83 neroli at 12.5 mcg. I’d probably want the 20 mcg if the overall scent remains the same. The higher you go with the mcg per spray, the less neroli you have to cover whatever is the native phero scent. I prefer using neroli 6% exclusively. As a rule I don’t really care for colognes at all. Then, if I have several product sprays of neroli, even that gets over the top.