PhatSounds in dilemma now! Lady Tisha, SteveO, my phero buddies or anybody help!!!!!!

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My thanks to all who given their recommendations & advices plus the birthday wishes as well :smiley: Thank you :slight_smile: You guys have been so helpful there.

Yes SteveO thanks for explaining the factor of class there. That was really good information there. Thanks :slight_smile: And i know what you meant there & what i need to do.

My thanks for the birthday GC SteveO :smiley: I appreciate it & donā€™t worry i will shoot down those pack mules that want to eat it on their way meandering over the mountains :stuck_out_tongue:

Ok just to inform you about that girl, she is not interested in my big brother as he is married & he is her boss in the club btw. My big brother could not make it to my birthday celebration due to some family matters.

And just wanted to ask you about my birthday GC that i get $23 while the others birthday GC are $25 why is that? Mind explaining SteveO :stuck_out_tongue:

As for my birthday celebration, it did not turned out good as expected in fact the response was bad. But still i continue celebrating my birthday & enjoy myself :slight_smile: And i got a free beer from the restaurant manager plus excellent service from its restaurant waiters. They even celebrated my birthday there by taking my picture & singing ā€œHappy Birthdayā€ to me & the restaurant manager even play whatever songs that i requested a couple of times.

Well there is just a piece of what happened there at the restaurant & well i meet a pretty nice girl at a bar later :wink: but i just want to ask you guys & ladies do you really want to hear my report? As this report have a lot more negative than postive results. What do you guys & ladies think?

And to TBrady12, please refrain from posting your negative ā€œfailā€ response there or i wonā€™t hesitate to give you a piece of my mind there!

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And yes a few more things i want to inform here, firstly i will stop posting here for a few months as iā€™m still affected on what happened to me on my birthday celebration i mean the negative results as the wounds are still fresh in my heart & mind & i need some time to myself. So if you guys/ladies did not see me posting here, this is the reason. Secondly, i wonā€™t be able to participate in any intro welcome due to my current condition there so the other Pherotalk intro members can take my place in welcoming the new members. Thatā€™s all i would like to inform.

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Btw, Happy Birthday bro. You were one of the first people to introduce yourself and give me advice when I first joined the messageboard many months ago.

Iā€™m sorry to hear that your birthday didnā€™t turn out as well as youā€™d hope, but you know what? Youā€™re still alive and kicking and thatā€™s what matters the most. Sometimes when dealing with issues, talking about it with friends, or writing about it can be cathartic, it allows for the healing process to begin. But then again, sometimes the pain is too new, runs a little too deep, and it makes it hard for many of us to open up. Whatever you decide, Iā€™m sure you have a lot of friends here that want to help and offer some support.

Many times though, the answers that you are looking for, the support that you need, doesnā€™t come from an outside source. Sometimes, you already know the answer, and with enough time to reflect, the answers will come from within.

I remember a few days ago when I first saw this thread. I believe a lot of the advice you got were things that deep down inside, you already knew. Iā€™ve seen you give advice before, to people here struggling on the forums, great advice to be honest, so nothing in this thread so far is anything new to you, you didnā€™t come here for advice this time, you came here for reassurance, in a way I feel like you knew how to handle things, but just hearing it out loud from Tisha and SteveO gives you the confidence to do what you needed to do.

Take some time off. Give yourself the necessary time to re-evaluate things. Life is dynamic and constantly changes, take mental notes and learn from your mistakes, and life goes on!

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Thanks Intensity for wishing me & your good advice as well there :slight_smile: I appreciate it bro :smiley: Thanks again for your support there :slight_smile:

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Hey, if it makes you feel better let me tell you what happened to me in the last few days.

There is a strip club, not too far from where I live that I frequent from time to time. Clubs out here in Los Angeles usually donā€™t open until around 10pm and they usually donā€™t start jumping until around midnight. So when Iā€™m full of energy and feel like getting an early start, thatā€™s usually where Iā€™ll go to have a few drinks before I head out to party with my friends.

A few months ago, I saw a girl there, absolutely stunning. She should be modeling for Victoriaā€™s Secret, not working in a strip club. Easily, a notch above the rest of the girls, in my opinion, and apparently to the rest of the crowd, and even to a few of the waitresses, as they all say the same thing. An 11 on a scale of 1-10.

She walks up to me, and introduces herself and within 20 minutes she is eating out of my hand. Her girlfriend comes over later and whispers to me that she is impressed that her friend even remembers my name, since this girl never seems to remember anyoneā€™s name.

She asks me what Iā€™m doing later on in the evening, and I tell her that Iā€™m heading out in a few minutes to go to a bar. She asks if she can go with me, if Iā€™ll give her a few minutes to get ready, she wants to bring her friend also. So basically by 11pm, on one of their busiest nights at the club, iā€™ve just stolen the 2 hottest dancers out of there.

I take them out with me for a great night out, she tells me everything I want to hear, she feels like sheā€™s known me all her life, she feels connected to me somehow, she loves talking to me, etcā€¦ you know, all the bullshit. She takes me out onto the dance floor for some heavy grinding, sheā€™s touching my face, running her fingers through my hair all night. When we finally leave, she feels sad to go, she spends all night talking to me on the phone on the way home.

We make plans to hang out the following week. She seems really excited. She calls and messages me all week long. I feel like, ā€œWow, I got something really good going here.ā€ Maybe Iā€™m lying to myself. Maybe itā€™s what I have to tell myself. We all know that dancers are trouble. Maybe this dancer might be worth the trouble if only for a little bit, Iā€™ll make an exception for her, since sheā€™s so hotā€¦

So anyways, I spent the week playing it cool, looking forward to our date, I got my expectations up, planned a lot of fun and exciting things to do, places where Iā€™m going to take herā€¦ obviously, I tell myself this girl must really like me for her to take off a night of work and follow me half way across Los Angeles to spend the night at a bar with me. Thatā€™s just not the typical stripper routine.

And then she stood me up. No call, no replies,ā€¦ nothing.

And in a way, I kind of felt that this would happen. I put this girl on a pedestal before she even earned it. She had given me signs, that perhaps I read to much into. Maybe I convinced myself there was something there, where really there was nothing. That was 2 days ago. Yes Iā€™m hurt, but you know what? Life goes on!:slight_smile:

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Iā€™m making this post after having read only the first page in this thread. Hopefully, since the thread is now 7 pages long, a solution has been reached. Til then, hereā€™s my advice:

Those muscle contractions you feel are normal. No, youā€™re not dying. Just ride the waves and enjoy it for what it is. Donā€™t forget to breathe, and remember to have a towel or a tissue, or as is the case for most guys, a random sock. The emission is perfectly natural and not a sign of disease. Congratulations on your first orgasm. You may now raid the fridge and/or have a cigarette. :slight_smile:

-D4

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Too funny. Got a good laugh out of this one :smiley::stuck_out_tongue:

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And that was exactly my concern and the reason I suggested not even inviting her! I know you can be pretty sensitive and was trying to help make sure your birthday celebration would be great, and one to remember.

If she did like you, she would still be around after the birthday celebration and probably have felt that she needed to try a little harder to win your attention.

If she wasnā€™t into you, then there was no way sheā€™s be able to ruin your celebration, and she would know that she had been put in her place.

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Well Intensity, sorry to hear what happened to you on the last few days, your bad experience that you have with the stripper was exactly the same experiences i have been played out by girls.

I understand how you feel there after what that stripper did to you there but like you said life must go on. I agreed life must go on no matter how bad you have experienced there. My thanks for sharing your experience there & +reps as your experience can be shared to those who have not experienced it yet :slight_smile:

Hmm, that was a good joke data4 but well i still canā€™t laugh as iā€™m still affected by what happened that day but thanks for trying to cheer me up there :slight_smile:

And mark-in-dallas, well it is not like what you think there, seriously speaking i donā€™t care if that girl come to my birthday celebration or not but i think i got to write down what happened that day for you guys to get a clear picture of it.

You are right i can be pretty sensitive sometimes & on that day i want it to be the best birthday to be remembered :wink: And just to inform you that she did not come at all. Anyway thanks for your concern there :slight_smile:

Ok then i will do a full report of what happened that day, the phero combo that i wore & how was the results on that day later :wink:

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PhatSounds, I guess I left a couple of points behind in my original suggestion:

If she were invited and did come, you still wouldnā€™t have known her motivation for coming to your celebration

And, inviting her to the party and her not showing up certainly wasnā€™t going to make you happy.

Thereā€™s a little saying that Iā€™ve learned to live by. Maybe you can take something from it too: Screw me once shame on you, screw me twice shame on me.

Weā€™ve all let someone screw us over more than once, but if they had already done so before, how can we really be mad at anybody but ourselves for letting them do us wrong again?

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Yes you are right on the points in your suggestion well now i know that she is not worth my time :wink: And i know what that little saying there mean. Thanks :slight_smile: Well yes it is our own fault there to let them screw us again as we never learned from being screwed by them before.

Well things already happened & there is no way we can change it other than we just carry on with life :slight_smile:

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$23 for each year in life minus one because I wanted to keep you young

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LOL ok thanks SteveO for wanting to keep me young :stuck_out_tongue: :smiley:

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Its OK. No trouble at all :wink: