Hola my pheromone loving friends!
A friend introduced me to this ‘world’. He had A314 and let me try it. Loved it!!! I am typically a laid back (beta) type but i have a sarcastic & fiesty side to me at times.
The effects it had on me both times (1 drop on forearms): instant headache that went away within 30 min. Got a lil queasy…I think the strong smell got me but once it settled down I actually loved it. He noticed pretty instantly that my chin lifted. Once he told me that I noticed throughout the work day that I carried myself more upright, chin up, shoulders back, chest out.
Effects on others: I said Hey to a coworker and she said Hey back…in the same pitch or note. Other ‘hits’ i observed the first day was that when seated at a table with 3 men and a woman who I sometimes join for coffee, any time I spoke, they stopped & listened. I wasn’t meaning to interrupt…just to interject on something someone said. Typically people continue to talk over me, not this time. I also noticed I never cut my eyes down when passing a guy or group of guys in the hall at work which I normally always do. It was like I had no control … it just happened. And both days on A314 it didn’t. Way cool.
The next day when I didn’t wear any, the Hey lady (who matched my pitch the day before) would have shoulder checked me had I not gotten out of her way when passing me in the hall. Very different from the day before. I noticed my chin was more down and I would try to lift it but it felt unnatural.
Day 2 of A314 (with 1 mone-free day btwn) I didn’t feel as positive but wasn’t completely down either, kinda ‘whatever’. I think I doubted it more too but noticed the change in body language immediately. Espc the raised chin. I would try to lower it but it kept going back up naturally. (That was kinda freaky actually since I’m new at this!) Hits weren’t as obvious but I still got some that would have possibly gone undetected without, but I picked up on easily. For instance, I went to lunch with a guy friend who I think is interested (I am not…I just want to be friends). He everything he did or said was almost like the peacock dance or something…and he’s not typically a showy type of guy. The most bold sign I saw was when he took a bite of his burger. He looked right at me with a seductive look in his eyes and never blinked or looked away, but he’s not an obvious flirter so that was ‘out of character’ if you will. I think that without A314, I a) would not have noticed so easily this hit and b) I would have unintentionally reacted in my typical beta / submissive way and looked away or down but I didn’t! I didn’t give any reaction (well, that I’m aware of 
)…I just kept talking.
The only other thing I thought was interesting was that I didn’t have that constant desire to help or please others. I’m a pleaser by nature plus my job as an office admin is full of that responsibility. Its just become my way of life. I was still helpful, not rude or short but I didn’t have anything nagging at me (which I honestly didn’t realize I felt until I felt the lack of!) I don’t think I apologized once yesterday whereas normally I say Sorry wayyyyy too much. I was not concerned about what others thought, though again I didn’t realize I was as concerned about that until that ‘feeling’ was gone.
That afternoon I ‘split’ a drop with my friend - I didn’t wanna od on male pheromones ha! - I was having dinner with family & wanted to see if it would work on them…have heard it is harder with fam due to deep seeded habits / ways / patterns / etc. It was not as impressive but I did notice I didn’t get talked over or ignored like I do quite often there.
I got my order today!!! Can’t wait to try them all out. Keep ya posted!
Xoxo, Pheebs
