Pheremone and my wife

Hello everyone just introducing myself.I am a married 63yr old and have tried pheremones in the past which did work on a lot of instances.I found my sister-in-law coming on to me and other women seemed to wany to get very near also.My love life with my wife is falling a bit flat at the moment and would love to attract her back to me again with the help of pheremone.I live in Mitcham,Surrey,England.If anyone could give me any help on my situation please mail back and let me know.Thank You.

Hello and welcome to the forum.

We have had a lot of guys coming here with the same problem.

There is a thread in my signature block that talks about just that - different strategies you can use and the pheromones you can use with them. Please give it a read and then come back and ask any questions. We are always happy to help.

Looking forward to your response.

Thanks very much for the reply.After reading about dual pheremones still not sure whether they work together.I myself have hidden in empty after shave bottle and used sparingly about three squirts on clothing i.e. collar and cuffs.What do you think is the best pheremone?

Welcome to the forum! I’m replying to the following below:

I’d suggest IShine and IG for you to have a better focus on your relationship. Also, the attraction of IShine and YOUR attitude toward your love will help things come along. The mones WILL NOT save marriages… HUSBANDS and WIVES do THAT. Mones will give you that extra something, a push in the right direction…

The IShine for the fun loving vibe and happy. The IG for the authority and respect for you and you for her… :slight_smile:

If you can, give IH a try as it will provide an easier time of communications with her.

Hope things get back on track for you and the missus. :slight_smile:

I do not think there is any one best pheromone. There is simply the best pheromone for the job.

1Alpha alluded to a couple things that are key and you will find readying through the thread for married guys in my sig block. First - it is all about your relationship. Pheromones can help along the edges but in the end it is about your relationship with your wife.

The IH can help with the verbal communications but you have to go in really listening (open ears, open mind and open heart) and not get defensive. If you get too defensive then it becomes “you do this and you do that” and it all shuts down. Better to say “when you do this, it makes me feel this way” or “when you do this, it says this to me”. Then it is the behavior, not the person. People are willing to change behaviors but close down if they feel threatented or attacked.

The second point is arises out of the IG comment - she needs to feel confident in you as a man, a husband, a leader in the family. Now by leader I do not mean a tyrant. More like a servant-leader. One who leads because the other person allows them to knowing they have their best interests at heart.

Sorry - I know you did not come here looking for relationship advice but there is a little anyways.

Welcome to pherotalk Jinksy!

I see that you were eager and have already put in your order.

I hope our products work better for you than those you have tried in the past.

Your gc was issued!