originally posted jan 2, 2009.
happy new year’s all. this report is a bit long so if you have time, grab some leftover drinks and follow me on a journey of my night.
to start, i based my mix off of mack’s od mix that was listed in the nye thread. it is:
3d A314 wrist and ears
5s Come Talk To Me Mix 2 hair
3s Turn Up The Heat neck
2s ammo neck, 1s between wrists
6s IS neck (as per the mix, plus it’s my Instant Female Magic cover)
4s Instant Female Magic back of neck, some residual split between wrists, .5/1s hair
2s Instant Honesty hair, 1s between wrists
then 1s ammo and shine before heading out
od phero bomb? sure. easy way to run through pheros if used daily? definitely. more importantly though, did it work? i say yes.
the night started around 4:30. i was driving to meet the rest of my friends for dinner. they had been travelling all day as well so when we met, there were no hugs or high fives, just straight to the restaurant to plop down in our seats. these friends are people who graduated with me and we just now had the same schedule of free time to hang out. one girl in particular (my age, white) took a liking to me before pheros so i wanted to try this mix out on her. the other girls there were attached.
nobody really talked at the start of dinner. perhaps it was from travelling all day, or perhaps i ghosted a bit, who knows. i sat next to the girl who likes me. slowly i start waving my arms around by passing menus down the line, “stretching,” etc. about midway through dinner i said something that made everyone laugh, and from that point on the “ice” was broken and people, with almost full stomachs, began to talk more. it was at this point i started to glance over at the girl who likes me. it seemed as if she wanted to kino me, but couldn’t. understandable, really. it was dinner, all of us hadn’t seen each other for a while, and we never made moves for each other before this so it would be kind of weird for her to scoot in next to me or for me to place an arm around her. regardless, her foot/leg sometimes brushed mine, our elbows touched occasionally, and she made attempts to playfully hit me but never made contact.
after dinner we all headed to our cars. the girl (who i’ll call sarah for the sake of this story) and the people in her car forgot where they parked so i walked with them to look for their car. it was brisk outside and i walked very close to sarah, and whenever a car was coming i would nudge her gently to the side of the parking lot aisle. after the second time i did this she joked that i was trying to push her into a parked car. then i actually tried to nudge her into a parked car and she freaked out and we laughed. eventually we found the car and we rolled out from there. nothing much related to pheros in this segment, just wanted to refamiliarize myself with being around sarah and get playful again, so i didn’t have to cold-start my flirting at the club.
we drop our stuff off at a friend’s house and now we’re off to the club. typical club setting with finger foods and drinks. we got a table reserved so we wouldn’t have to worry about standing room. the seating arrangement was set up bench style so once you sat down, unless there was a game of musical seats or people did the restroom shuffle, you were pretty much there the whole night. sarah takes a seat on the end and i file in immediately behind her. again i proceed to wave my arms around, this time through excessive high fives to some new people who met up with us at the club, some hugs, shuffling of jackets, passing drinks around, etc. the other side of the bench got up to get food first so sarah and i and some other guys are just hanging out on the bench. she starts a fairly basic conversation with me about my life, what’s new, etc. next thing i know, she’s kinoing randomly, as if there was no sexual intention behind the kino. aside from body parts brushing from sitting so close, she’s looping a finger through my belt loop (i guess this could be sexual?), “fixing” my collar, and even put her hand on my forehead once like she’s checking for a fever. pheros kicking in? could be. since there wasn’t a solid sexual undertone, it could’ve been that she was warming up to me too, like i did to her back in the parking lot.
then something interesting happened, both as we were in a single-file line for food and while socializing around the bar waiting for drinks. sarah would throw in some sexual kino and then nuzzle her face directly into the back of my neck. (majority Instant Female Magic, residual Come Talk To Me Mix 2 and Instant Honesty) for example, she was behind me in line for food and would wrap her arms around me and then plant her face into the back of my neck. around the bar, she would throw an arm around my shoulders and sort of swing herself behind me, essentially removing herself from the social circle, and then proceed with the face plant. this piqued my curiosity. was it the Instant Female Magic that drew her in? was it the whole phero experience that did it? or is she just a fan of sticking her nose into the back of peoples’ necks? (let’s hope not) there’s a slight followup to this in a later section and i’ll be sure to test this more in future events.
everyone was feeling good from the drinks and snacks and it was about an hour until midnight at this point so i decided to turn my sexual predator game knob up to 11. kino everywhere (knees, outer thighs, waist, a couple times basically sarah’s butt). people were packing in so we had to lean into each others’ faces to hear and speak without yelling. pheros or not, sarah was digging the whole thing.
fast forward to midnight, the kiss (which sarah started a few minutes early
), etc. we’re just finishing up our champagne and waiting until 1 or 1:30 when some more cabs would be free. sarah began to take an interest in my neck in general, not just the back. at times i thought she was going in for a kiss but really she landed on my shoulder and necked her way up to my ear. by doing this she basically got blasted with almost everything i had on that night except for Come Talk To Me Mix 2 and Instant Honesty which were solely applied to the hair. on the other hand, if she was that close, she probably got some of those too. i think this is where her attraction/addiction/liking to pheros began. she wasn’t hammered drunk and stopped drinking after the champagne, my sexual predator game stayed at the same level, and kissing a neck/ear is fun for only so long before it’s just kissing a neck/ear, so there had to be some reason she was all about my neck. i hope it was the pheros.
fast forward again to my friend’s house. sarah and i are sharing a bed for the night (first time doing so btw) and there’s two other people on an air mattress on the floor in the room we were in. she basically had two sleeping positions that night: the spooning position with my arms around her and my wrists near her face (pheros) or me on my back with her face snuggled into my chest/neck area (more pheros). here’s the followup to the neck thing from earlier: with me on my back, every 10 minutes or so she would jam her face into my neck, take a deep whiff, and then kiss me. i found that if i kissed her back, she would immediately snuggle into me and we’d have a mini makeout session. nothing serious and nothing too far as there were other people in the room, but fun nonetheless. if i just smiled or didn’t take action in response to the kiss, she would go back to breathing and sleeping normally until the next time she took a deep whiff. literally every 10 minutes, maybe 15-20 later in the night. by now i was pretty sure it was the pheros drawing her in.
i wasn’t too concerned with status hits that night, and especially with it being new year’s eve, i didn’t expect too many problems. bouncers, bartenders, and random guys were friendly. no od side effects on any of the guys in my group. a few random hits here and there but there’s other times and places to follow up with random hits.
fast forward again to this morning. we’re just hanging out in bed now, talking with the guys on the floor and whoever walked by. the kiss count had gone down from last night but there were a few snuck in occasionally. at lunch we were totally normal like we were at last night’s dinner – walking side by side, an occasional slight nudge, some playful remarks. my guess is that in addition to the pheros wearing off (and being licked off by her), the party atmosphere was gone as well and we could no longer throw on kino or game. that’s fine with me. sarah will be around and i suspect she’ll be a target in many of my field reports.
as for the mix, it was definitely a once a year thing, maybe twice if there’s another really special occasion with a very high probability of success. i learned today that Come Talk To Me Mix 2 is a 50/50 mix of Instant Honesty and Instant Openness so i’ll need to retune the Come Talk To Me Mix 2/Instant Honesty portion of my normal party mix to adjust for this. as an asian, i find that i can lay on the -none a bit and not od; additionally, asian girls respond well to a bit of -none. Instant Female Magic smelled worse today than it did the first time i used it, now i see where the complaints come from.
if you’re reading this, thanks for sticking with me. if you have any advice or questions, let me know.