The problem us guys have all grappled with, particularly given that many of the mones result in inviting smiles, is coming on too strong from these hits or signs of interest. ‘Active disenterest’ and a ‘level head’ sounds like the perfect remedy for this. Don’t turn into some ‘puppy dog’ when a desirable woman flashes her whites at you - easier said than done I guess…
examine (June 18, 2006):
“ps. another thing i noticed. lets say you do get a hit, and you start being a little forward. sometimes coming on.. shys them away. one girl was giggling like mad and had a hard time giving me eye contact (which was very annoying) and another girl looked at me like I dropped my pants in front of her. mind you she smiled at me first.
then my friend Nat said some girl thought i was hot, so I go over to her, and she’s blushing. so I ask her to dance, and she said no because she was nervous. I got her on the floor, but she wouldnt stop smiling, her feet were glued to the ground as she attempted to dance, and she was extremely shy, she told me i was hot, then giggled (as if i was whispering in her ear) and said she felt dumb. so i let her scurry off back to her friends.
but then 30 min later i see her dancing with some clown. alrighty!
i still dont know what happened there.
Instant Shine being Brad Pitt
I say MX 101 is a WWE superstar.
Yea, guys enying, and ladies seek out your alph, but once you approach her, and she has all 6’6 270lbs 3 % body fat in her front of her, it may intimidate. now some girls have confidence and will try to subdue/seduct the beast. other girls may run. even tho later that night shes thinking about the pure power of biceps.
im going to try this mix with 3 sprays of TAH/ TAL / TAA
it outta calm the shyness effect down a little.”
MHarris (June 30, 2006):
“That’s right. Good advice.
The PUAs call this “The 3 second rule”. You approach within 3 seconds (or the bare minimum to get over there), because then you don’t have the time required to feel approach anxiety.
Internal feelings are slower than that. They’re the slowest part of our internal experience (which is one reason why people get “stuck” in emotional states, despite their conscious wishes to feel something else).
Also, this impresses the heck out of a women, both consciously and unconsciously. Men, in nature, are supposed to be doing the approaching.
A man who approaches almost immediately is the most alpha. Women get a real tingle or other internal response out of this.
You’re fulfilling both your and her biological destiny by approaching right away. Makes you both feel really good. You both get immediate psychological & physical rewards from it. Sort of like a pre-relationship orgasm (which is another physical reward for a job well done in the mating game)”
Rob (June 30, 2006):
“…Lol.. just on the side.. make sure this immediate psychological and physical reward does not over whelm you. Its funny how women can easily manipulate men by making them light up with just a smile. Its like they turn men into puppy dogs or something.
If you want to maintain Alpha, then you must maintain a level head in all situations and DO NOT go total EMO HARD CORE over any girl. Besides, you would not want to be seen as a fruitcake (you being a guy).”
MHarris (June 30, 2006):
“…Yes, they shouldn’t feel as if they’ve won you over (i.e., if you instantly melt in response to their smile)
Otherwise, they get an internal feeling of completion, and a little voice in their heads that say “onto the next conquest”.
Something won too easily is not enjoyed. That’s why you utilize active disinterest.
Re: emo hard core fruitcake… hahaha… you have a way with words ”