Seriously.
I was in one of those Uber-Bitch moods. Agitated, irritable, snapish. Everything my family did this afternoon just rubbed me the wrong way. I felt really bad, but did not know how to snap out of it.
Just before I started dinner, I decided to try out my new stuff that arrived today:
IS/B - 3 sprays to hair Instant Shine x2 - 3 sprays to hair
TAH - wrists and clev.
spritz of perfume
Shazam! Seriously. My mood changed. I no longer felt tense and angry. The urge to throttle my daughter and chain my sons to their beds passed in a whiff of neroli…
I was happy again. Me again. In control and ready to plunge once again into my mundane domestic evening activities.
My mood and the pheros must have affected the little dears. They became calm and cooperative! I’m suddenly Mary Effing Poppins!
Wow! I am still feeling good (with the small addition of a glass of red wine, of course).
I liked the reactions I was getting from attractive men this week due to my liberal applications of phero bomb, but this is even better. Domestic harmony in a bottle?
Let’s see what happens when J gets home. Once again I have failed to produce the magic combination to arouse his senses. The night I wore the “cop bomb” he … FELL ASLEEP! zzzz… Not a great argument for monogamy…
That’s why they call it ‘shine’…lol…does nothing for me, but my husband loves how he feels when he wears it. Makes him feel good and perks him up when he’s tired…and people almost always react well to it. TAH can definitetly add softness, alone, or added to a mix. A little Instant Female Magic, also alone, or with your mix would add a relaxing calmness. …though it could have a slight tendency to make you a little tired or your SO a bit depressed…so, of course you’d have to experiment with it. A little Pink Sugar and a little red wine is good for a girl! …as far as men go, yeah, Instant Sexiness/B and Tah is a winner. A lot of men enjoy those soft, sexy feminine vibes…mine loves it.
LOL, if only…
Well, what did happen?..and do elaborate on the falling asleep business…just how tired was he? Did you add the entire “Cop Bomb”, or just the cops, to what you were already wearing ?
Once again, nuffin from big J. Just his usual FBI/CSI novel is more interesting than anything I could offer.
Starting to wonder if something is going on, like he fancies someone at work…
Will call the “cops” tonight - and bring the Instant Honesty!
Damn, you too? Shine did nothing for me either, and I felt like a Martian because everyone else is gaga over it. Alseides was the only other lady I knew of who also found it to be a dud, but she hasn’t been around the forum for awhile.
Pheronoob, Dont worry he will come around. He knows your natural mone signature and sometimes it takes a while with spouses. I had the same problem at first and slowly he started responding then suddenly bam it hit him.
I had the same problem with my wife - she kept looking at me like she knew something was different but could not put her finger on it - almost like she thought I had someone on the side.
I would recommend that you to wear the mix you wore in your first post and for YOU to initiate. Very directly. Do not take no for an answer. Help him get used to the new phero-signature and what you are signaling with it. Do this several times and once he gets used to the new phero-signature and what it means - he will initiate on his own. Once he gets the whiff - his mind will associate it with … romance and he will know what the deal is.
Then you can put it on before you go out for a date and he should be pretty attentive, if not in a rush to get home.
Remember - Rome did not get built in a day. And it took more than a day or two for you two to arrive at FBI novels, falling asleep, and “Are you awake?”. As long as you are the one initiating anyways - go for it a few more times, this time 'moned up. Nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Umm that quote is not mine bosshank LOL allthough at first my husband did the same thing
I didnt initiate exactly, I sort of teased with subtle cues and lots of cops. Took a few week but I noticed the same effect as BH. First he didnt notice then he would look at me funny. After that he began to ask questions like “is that a new hair do?” "New blouse? " He was trying to place what was different and then suddenly whamo. I put on a bunch of cops one night after he went to bed when I couldnt sleep. Going for the morning nuky and the next morning he got out of bed and I was thinking Oh shit it didnt work again but he picked up the phone and called into the office that he wasnt going to be in that day and told me to do the same LOL. From that point on it worked like a charm but I got to tell you I was getting so frustrated waiting for that moment and Dolly and Lor are the only reason I didnt give up.
I guess I should be more clear about my position on this situation. It’s not the sex I am looking for, I would like him to be open, flirty, chatty. You know, relate to me as a person. Be FRIENDS, have fun - that sort of thing. Not, I’m reading, don’t bother me. Or, Hey, I’m watching tv, don’t talk to me until the commercial (for real).
Ok, so… Last night:
5 drops LAM
3 sprays TAH to front
3 sprays IH x2 to hair
3 sprays IS/B to hair
He avoided me!!! LOL
But I am getting hits off random men when I am out and about!!! Too funny!
Ok. I’m going to skip all the sexy stuff and just bathe in IH x2 - see if we can get some convo going…
I have enjoyed reading your posts along with others. Just wondering, what ever happened when you skip all the sexy stuff and tried your IH x2 with your husband?
You can get Pink Sugar from Sephora, Amazon.com, or any other major fragrance outlets . I was introduced to Pink Sugar by reading posts from this forum lol. I’m loving the scent!!
…as far as men go, yeah, Instant Sexiness/B and Tah is a winner. A lot of men enjoy those soft, sexy feminine vibes…mine loves it. 