So I’m a 42 year old guy/married/kids. There are many reasons I’m looking for answers here but mostly I want people to respond to me better. I would consider myself an introvert but my job as a photographer requires a lot of extrovert qualities. So many times when I’m on a shoot, people expect you to entertain them. Tell us a joke, do a dance, etc. And I must abide to loosen the mood and ultimately get the photo I need. Some days are much harder than others. I would LOVE to have a scent that puts people in a great mood and eager to be photographed.
Two, I want my wife to want me more. We’re all very busy and tired but it would be great if she initiated sex more. I’m feeling a bit neglected. Frankly, I’d love for all the women in my life to enthusiastically cater to my needs. Pretty sure my wife’s inherent jealousy of other women would encourage her to step up her game as well.
So far I’ve tried A314 + IS a couple times and not had any noticeable effects. I’m not generally a cologne guy so might not be wearing enough. Also, I’m trying to be a bit stealthy. Any advice on winning combos would be welcome.
Lastly, I got a P128 tester and have no idea what it does. Thanks for listening.
I am not sure what you are looking for is necessarily the A314 for the job although the IS is dead on I think. I would think something more like Instant Gentleman would be more like you are looking for. CTTM might help too.
There is a thread in my signature block that discusses the difference between A314 and IG pretty well.
There is also a thread that discusses ideas and strategies for life at home. A lot of very experienced guys and gals provided input into that so you get it from both sides.
Give the threads a read and please ask any questions!
The recommendations above are superb. But if what you currently have is A314 and IShine, that’s a good combo too. You just have to give it time to settle with your own natural vibe, act on it.
The same effort you do to entertain your client is still needed here to make the happy mood of IShine be felt by your client and yourself. Try applying some of the A314 on your earlobes(am i correct? that soft part at the southernmost of your ear?) And put some shine on your wrists. And since you are 42, try 3 drops of oil and 3 sprays of Shine.
The p128 is a single molecule that is meant to be blind-tested, so I am not allowed to say what it exactly does.
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Welcome to the site! Your best bet is to test what you already have and keep trying to work on the solo testing and I would start with the IShine. This is the very first one I was going to suggest. With this one, one of my favorites app points is my wrists at times because you can control how it affects your targets more by moving your hands and it works great.
I would try solo testing both of these more to get an understanding of each one solo.
Then to add to what you have I would look into Ammo and normally we suggest the heavy or 2X version after 40, because as we age we produce less of our own natural pheromones. This would be good for general use around your wife, and other women to for general attraction. Very balanced product.
TUTH will come in handy for the sexual part you are looking for with your wife. Best for bedroom use.
The socials like IO, and CTTM2 also come to mind for using during your photo shoot.
It is always best to solo test each thing so you know how to adjust each product in a combo. But some of the ones I think are worth trying are
IShine&Ammo- Very basic yet effective for general attraction and makes people feel good. Very effective and you can not go wrong with this one. I would try this one.
Really appreciate all the responses. And I have enjoyed reading all the journal entries. This is day 3 on the mones and the only ‘hit’ I’ve had was the checkout lady (Black female, 50s) at lunch accidentally gave me a protein bar. Maybe she just ‘forgot’ or didn’t notice it but I’m thinking it may have been A314 related. It’s all very subjective.
I believe I need some more tools for testing so I’ll be ordering AMMO, TUTH and maybe a small IO or IH. Need to read more research.
Do the scents need to be super noticeable/smelly to be effective?
Generally speaking you do want to have a greater ‘cloud’ of scent to help ‘lift’ the mones in the air to work more effectively, but it’s a balancing act of not smelling too much. Nobody likes over excessive cologne scent.
And that could have definitely been a hit. I’ve actually had that same hit, at a health food store one of the clerks helped me find something and then opened it so I could try it, and then gave me it for free.
I’d not rule-out MX297 standalone for this role. Its always been a good one for any line where there is a degree of “chatting-up”/connecting with the customers in an fun/social/engaging but non-intimmidatory way.
The new Stealth version - MX597 might also be right-up his street scent-wise as it is indeed very light, although I can’t personally vouch for its diffusion qualities yet but all other stealth products I’ve tried to date have been fully viable.
You should be fine with everything scent wise pretty much and the only one I would consider in the Stealth version. The scent of Ammo is very nice, but can be a little strong and some do not like it IME more over 35. Scent is needed to help the molecules lift off of your skin, and like Mobocaster mentioned I have a lot of experience all good with a lot of there stealth MXS I have tested, just not the new Stealth Ammo, but I would get the Ammo in the Stealth and the others should be perfect in the standard Neroli.
