hey all,
something really sad happened for me today, nothing to do with pheromones its really personal, I’m really sad though I can’t even stop crying its been going on all night.
Soon I’ll probably use pheros just to get me feeling better maybe spray oh I donno ten or fifteen sprays of female magic(ok maybe 3 should work) I just need to feel good and go sleep soon, I’m really a mess.
Sorry to go on like this, awww hey if anyone else here is into the law of attraction or healing please help me send me some good thoughts would really be nice, thanks
sorry I don’t wanna bring anyone down just needed little comfort right now I hope its ok, thanks
A friend did something that really hurt alot yesterday and I haven’t heard from her at all since It would really feel alot better if she just called so we could talk. Its someone I’ve known almost two years and been really close friends with. Nothing hurts more when those you feel safe and good with let you down.
Thanks for being supportive, it helps
Last night I was such a mess I couldn’t stop crying just hours and hours then when I just couldn’t take it anymore I put two sprays of female magic on my wrists and it helped alot I got comfortable and forgot about what was wrong for a while and relaxed and thought about good things. When I woke up there was still some effects left so I was ok still, its wearing off too much now though.
I wanna put more on again I don’t like feeling sad, I feel like I need to though just to let it out of my system and so if she calls she can see how hurt I am if I put female magic on now I won’t look sad or hurt and she may not understand how much it hurt me.
Wish you would share what happened, but since you didn’t, I’ll share my thoughts on when my friends hurt me.
I always judged people on how “I” would act in certain situations, and that always caused me pain or made me feel let down pain. You can’t do that.
It’s like the saying, just because I’m your friend, doesn’t mean that you’re my friend. People are people no matter how we think they should or want them to act, and with that comes mistakes, hurt, disappointments, and pain.
Hang in there … healing starts the very second after it happens.
hi M&M,
I was with my only close friend only person I ever could really talk to and open up to. We’ve been friends about a year and 8 months and really close almost a year of that time. I’ve never had any close friends like her that I could really talk to about anything.
We were out of town yesterday and went somewhere and things seemed fine and all like normal then something costed more than she thought and she went to car and said hold on a minute then she just left me there and I never heard anything from her yet since “cries” she never did that before I feel so hurt I wish she would call so we could talk its just killing me “cries”
She’s the only close friend I have and before her for years I had none I was so sad I used to be suicidal from being so alone and longing for a soft and caring friend.
I just wish so much I would hear from her I’m really a mess right now “cries”
Really sorry to hear about what happened between you and your friend. I havent been in the same situation as you so I’m not sure how helpful my advice will be but a few things I would suggest:
Contact her, I know she is the one who acted badly towards you yet maybe you can smooth things out and resolve this. It might of just been a misunderstanding of some sort.
Make more friends, easier said than done right? Sure but you come across as a genuinly nice person. I dont see any reasons why couldnt find more friends. I’m not saying replace your buddy but still its always good to meet new people
If the first option isnt something you want to do then, relax, take a deep breath, put on some relaxing music (I’d recommend turkish instrumental stuff, its really nice) and take some time out to spend on yourself.
Sending positive thoughts your way, hope you feel better soon
You two went out of town shopping, and she left you there? If that’s correct, you’re probably better off. BUT … if it’s really bothering you … call, and if she doesn’t answer, go to her house and find out what happened. She sounds very sensitive, and may have issues fromt he sounds of “just because something cost a little more than she thought” and left you. You sound very sensitive, as I used to be. Don’t take it personal, and next time drive your car.
How did you get back home?
Hang in there … it can always be worse. Crying only causes red eyes and headaches.
I know-i have been feeling the same for the last two days. Turns out my GF is still married as I found out yesterday. I dont know what to do even though she says she is in the middle of the divorce. It was the same thing I was told a while back-nearly a year now.
It helps to talk to someone. Remember when one door closes another one opens and you always end up learning something new out of every relationship.
hey all,
just wanted to add a quick update. Things have gone better we talked I’ve had alot of other things going on lately too though seems all will be good though, well I hope.
I’ll write more again soon, thanks for all the support
I am glad things are looking brighter for you. A little advice though, before you get so upset about something random that happens like your friend ditching you keep in mind not everything that happens is about you.
Sometimes things just dont go the way they are planned and she could have been waylayed for many reasons that have nothing to do with how she feels about you.
Dont sweat the small stuff. One of my Best friends who happens to be male and I have moments of bickering or times when he has to do something or I do and we blow each other off (Behave peeps) but if your friends you will always get past it.
but if your friends you will always get past it.