Today I CLOSED with this strategy.
I was fed up with all the criticism and no real world data to back me up so I decided to go out and try…
I went to a coffee shop I haven’t been too, family owned.
I saw a beautiful italian woman there and ordered my coffee..
I asked her first does she like her job? (MISTAKE #1… this is a yes no answer and I realized after I fucked up)
A few minutes later I told her I didn’t mean to ask you if you like your job, i meant to ask you if what you like about your job?
She answered.. i said can you explain more.
She smiled. A few minutes later she was juggling many customers at the cash and preparing their sandwiches so when I got the chance later I told her “you multitask well.. I wish I could do that.” Finally I realized this was just a statement and had no bearing on the outcome and was more fluff talk so i shut my mouth hoping she’d forget about such a stupid comment.
A few minutes later I asked her what her favorite food is since she makes sandwiches.. i ask her where she likes to eat… She told me Moxies. I asked about the steak.. We have a small conversation.. How does eating your favorite foods make you feel? She told me her favorite food changes depends on what she’d in the mood for.
then she asked me about my job.. I explained I worked at cibc and am an accountant.
Finally I noticed the manager there in this family owned business was getting very angry… he didn’t like my confidence one bit and tried to interject and control her and others. At one point he was flirting with her another point her was giving the woman shit. I stayed composed and pleasant all along.. i didn’t leave.
That ruined my chances of closing, but today i felt was my lucky day.. Its K I’m after anyways not this girl so I such might as well practice. She left for lunch unexpectedly and I realized my chance was blown..
But I still had 45 min to my doctors appointment so I sat down and ordered a meal.
By the time I was done the manager was gone and this girl returned.. She looks at me and says “wow your sitting all over the place” (I was in a new location).
I smiled.
The line ups grew worse as it was now rush time. Still my confidence was very high.. I was determined that he techniques would work and that teh delivery is what counts not the words.
I waved over to her and asked her for a glass of water and told her one other thing, do you mind if I get your number?
She said she had a boyfriend.
I remembered John’s Sebastions line an stated it “Well you can tell him about us but I prefer if we keep it a secret”… She just looked at me with shock and then a smile. I said I have to go soon. She gave me the digits.
CLOSED.
Mones worn: Here’s the tricky part… NONE.
I am convinced the next time I try this approach I will do better… Itwon’t take me 1 hr to close on a woman for a number.
The techniques in this post worked but I mixed them in with general fluff talk and mystery (I had to always leave and come back). i didn’t care for the outcome at any point.. i just felt like a pit bull.. I messed up some parts but in the end I got the number from a complete stranger.
Next time I will use mones. i will use IS, AMMo, IH, IO. I will be better at talking the more I do it.
Incidentally there is one secret product I used today which i believe catapulted my confidence and sense of invincibility but it wasn’t a mone and I dare not give it out here on a mone forum. i am convinced using it twice it put me in a euphoric state to achieve anything.
