Possible 'none OD/Complications... Please Assist

I might be fucked.

The new MX I love might have 'none in it. I have only been spraying it into my hair for two+ weeks straight. :roll_eyes:

Can you guys evaluate the reaction of my SO (below) on our date last Saturday? Does it bear any semblance of a None OD, or a man’s perception of None on “his woman?”

Off to the shower I a-go, with my Oxy Clean!! :roll_eyes:

Hm, was it more of an agitated type of reaction than “upset” or “disturbed” I love -none, and I have not felt sad type of feelings from it, just agitation when I was still new to -none.

If I remember correctly marty had an anxiety attack (along with a down mood if I’m not mistaken, but I’m sure he will correct me.) So perhaps it might be Androsterone? I mean after all, from what I’ve read so far MX320 (if this is the MX you’re talking about) has seemed to give out a “follow the leader” type of effect which in return may fit the description of Androsterone. However, who really knows…

Take a step back and look at this. You are normally relatively controlled, you had a wildly emotional discussion with him a few days before your date, as I recall, he was somewhat uncomfortable then with an ‘emotional’ woman. You then turn up wearing betanol/TAF for a date! My theory is that he is picking up mixed signals from you and, given his apparent propensity for withdrawing from emotional conflicts, is struggling to react in a way that he feels you would expect from him.

I would also consider the possibility that he is picking up on your thoughts of rearranging your life around him, maybe, just maybe getting a little ahead of his comfort zone??

Don’t forget, us guys are simple souls, we generally don’t analyse things in the same way as girls but hey, we get there eventually.:smiley:

Actually, he is the one who seems to be very eager to set up parallel lives. He frequently talks about arranging my job to be near his, switching agencies so we’re in the same one, me switching careers to something more mobile and flexible, moving near to where he may be stationed, etc. Some of his comments and suggestions are quite good, actually, and I have been following up on their potential. However, there’s always a side of “and now we’ll be together/now we’ll be working together” to it from him. He was the one who first brought up that he wanted me in his life, long term. I do not overtly say or do anything to imply that I would also be considering such a move. In fact, he seemed to get moody after we had a long conversation about me looking into the possibility of a deployment at the end of this year, that would pull me away from here, him and this life. I made no comment about keeping in touch, or staying together. It was just after this that he seemed to get moody and sullen, and then started to offer counter suggestions, subtly.

I still think that the Bnol trip exacerbated an emotional swing, and somehow made it last. However, IF there is 'none in the mix, that needs to be factored in as well. (Given that it seems to be underage magic, I am thinking it might be a 292 variant w/ 'rone…) In addition, I have also been spraying my chest occasionally with the MX320, and he completely avoided it that night - sometimes we make out a bit, and he enjoys nuzzling my neck and chest. Not that night.

Since this bomb of an evening, he seems to be coming on even stronger - though very busy, he’s managed to find time to send me daily or twice daily meaningless messages of hello/miss you/see you soon’s, and then changed his schedule and drove out of his way for the possibility of seeing me (didn’t work out).

I am going naked with this one next time - no pheros! :open_mouth:

I had a discussion with someone in the forum not to long ago about the possability of the variant you mentioned. I had said that it feels like a 292 base with eRone and b-nol. I get alot more chatter with 320 than I do with 292. So I agree with your variant statement.

So, some questions, because I think I agree with diamond about mixed signals.

Who seems to be the alpha in the relationship? Is there any chance that on that night he could have felt intimidated by your alpha sig.? Maybe causing him to withdraw a bit? Is this the first time you have worn eRone, or eNone around him? I just feel that if you had been going on dates with a sig. that emphisized femininity, then showed up giving off an alpha vibe,
it may have confused him.

And I agree you should go pheroless on your next encounter. See how he reacts. Please let us know.

He is most definitely the alpha - 100%. 110%.

So yes - your theory is very good. I never intended to wear "rone or "none around him, but if I was inadvertently wearing it, due to sticky buildup or what not, then yes, i suppose he could have been getting a new and unusual vibe…

I started with a very feminine sig, then moved off to neutral ones - p86/74 type stuff. Bonding, fun, harmonizing. I’ve worn bnol with him twice, and it sucked both times. :frowning:

So yeah - naked next time! :wink: Possibly tonight, if the schedules work out right. We’re both overworked.

Thanks for your input re the MX. I read and replied to your questions in my other MX320 thread. I did go and scrub with OxyClean last night, just in case there is 'none, but I do think it’s 'rone… However, how does that jive with the reactions your friend had? Does your ex wife get that finger dragging thing going on with this MX? :confused:

Thanks again!!

Sorry - been really busy here lately and not keeping track of things as I should.

I would say that there is a high likelyhood of 'none in MX 320 based on my experience with it - but again I think it is well buffered.

Nice. Very nice.

J/K. ducks - puts on his kevlar LOL.

I know - it’s not funny. 'None is REALLY sticky esp. in hair. Wash very well just in case I am right. When is the last time you got a haircut … ? :stuck_out_tongue:

Gonna wash that man (smell) right outta my hair …

I know - not funny again.

I would guess you are seeing in part a reaction to 'none. Of course I also think you are seeing a reaction to him being ready for a deeper commitment in the relationship than you have verbally indicated you are willing to commit to. Plus he knows about McSteamy.

Silence can be deafening …

That reaction is probably exacerbated somewhat by the beta-nol/TAF combination.

My only suggestion is not to play it out too long. If he is really Mr. Alpha he may only deal with non-commital for so long …

Now the interesting thing is your female supervisor’s reaction to it if we are right and it does have 'none in it after all …

:open_mouth: TMI. And you two might be even more overworked before …

Oh - you meant sans pheros. Nevermind … lol. :stuck_out_tongue:

And again - you know I was really really kidding about the nickname.

LOL ! :smiley:

Hey BH! Missed you!

Sooo… I guess now would be the time to say that I have done the GI Jane? It’s bloody brilliant for ops… Not so good for dates… :wink:

I seriously took my OxyCLean into the shower with me last night. Do you know what ELSE doesn’t go away, ever? OxyClean! Talk about lather! And now, if I get any water on my skin, my hair, anything, I get lather lather lather and uber clean smells. It’s better than a 'none build up though, I suppose… :roll_eyes:

Thanks for your insight - I too have wondered about whats up.

I’m just planning on taking it day by day at this point - act and react accordingly, take everything as it is. Things seem to be going very very well and moving forward in general, so I’m sticking with that. And sticking with Nake-y. :wink:

Re non-committal - you know more about that in our private discussions. That will stay until HE makes an indication. It must be that way.

Yes, if there IS 'none in it… what does that mean for my post-menopausal Dragon Lady’s reaction? :confused:

Thanks again!

NP.

I just came back to change my post - the more I thought about it the more I was worried it was too over the top and you might be offended which was not what I was trying to do.

Not offended in the least. :slight_smile:

Well, if 320 is a variant of MX292, which has been suggested by Steve, then there is a high likelyhood that there is a lot of none in it. MX292 has more none than Ammo in it, I know that much. I kind of suspect that 320 has rone in it as well. I can’t pick out beta nol as easily, but I wouldn’t be surprised.

Either way, since it’s a rather manly mix, that fact alone would probably cause mixed reactions. Remember, the people at work don’t have as deep an attachment to you, so when you come off as one of the guys, there’s nothing wrong with that. perhaps your sig is just flipping so much that you are confusing the poor guy.