hi abqbelly,
welcome to the forum!
what you posted is very interesting, i read in another post here about a girl that has similar “problems” - maybe we could analyze your phero signature to recreate it 
. Anyways - please tell us a little more about your personality and in which situations you want to use the pheros so the ladys here can give you some good advice.
Non sexual pheromones are pheros that make people feel good, increase communication or give a high status vibe.
please read this post to see which pheros are available for women:
have fun here
magnum