This may seem like an odd question. I am wondering if anyone has any advice on something that might help to make someone that is very dominant to the point of being almost physically abusive (i’m not being abused if I were I would get away so no worries there i’m just not sure of the exact words to use) not feel that way torwards me or at least less. Maybe could cause them to feel more loving or want to take care of me or last thing would want to hurt me I guess. I’m just not sure because I am thinking well if I wear something that makes me seem super soft like is/b would that make him even more dominant torwards me, and what if I use a lot of TAL or is/a mx300 would this make me seem more like a threat to his dominance so he would be even worse? I’m just not sure. I usually wear TAL, MX135, and IO around this person.
Well , this questions raises so many questions and worries in my mind. There are different kind of abuse not all are physical.
Pheromones do not make a person act against their will or bring something out that is not there. In addition, since they are not magic and account for only 10% of the results you receive there are some things pheromones can’t fix.
What you said in terms of the products makes sense, wearing some sort of girly pheromone would probably make them feel more dominant and something like MX300 or IS/A maybe make them respect you more and you are welcomed to try it but in this situation it seems what the person needs to do is respect you or love you enough to not be so dominant it seems that they may cross an abusive line.
I hope I did not read your question wrong seeing you were trying to be very vague.
If there is something you need please feel free to PM and I will be more than happy to answer all your questions. 
For a man, A314 would be ideal. Some women have gotten good results with A314. It might be worth doing some searches on the women’s forum for A314.
From my experience with TAH, I should think it would make this person have protective, caring feelings toward you, which seems to be what you want. EST is even more that way, but women have reported that EST makes people treat them like children, not respecting their opinion. (Protecting them is more important than respecting them.) You could get the same results from TAH. I guess it depends on how sensitive he is to your feelings. Some people, when they are trying to be helpful, are so oblivious to what you really want that they come off as domineering. Is this what’s happening, or is it more like he’s trying to over-compensate for some perceived weakness in himself?
I should think TAL would get you more respect. Another woman would be better at answering that. I’ve been seeing this thread for a couple of days and waiting for more female input, but since you’re not getting it, I’m trying to tell you what I know. Of course, it could be the TAL that is causing the problem – like he has to over-compensate for the power TAL seems to give you. That is, you are so awesome wearing TAL that he feels threatened and overreacts.
I’d suggest stop wearing the IO and see if that helps. IH might be better. IH has more depth of feeling. He seems to be disrespecting your feelings.
Another interesting approach to the problem might be P106. It gets the other person involved in helping you to get what you want, which seems to be the opposite of what’s happening now.
P74 also has a quality of getting people’s cooperation, though I think it is less powerful than P106 in this regard.
P75 helps a person feel they can “stand their ground.”
If I could try only one new pheromone in your situation, I think I’d go with P106. Unlike IO, I have found P106 to be slightly (only slightly) anti-romantic. You haven’t said whether this is a business or social acquaintance who is overly dominant.
It could just be that changing from TAL to TAH and IO to IH would fix everything. If that actually makes things worse, you have the sort of person here who likes to torture kittens, and I’d stay as far away from this man as possible, even if it meant moving to a different city!
Sometimes people like this are not fully aware of their dominant/abusive persona. Take them aside and straight up tell them such behavior and attitude is inappropriate and bordering on antisocial. Such men are hiding a scared little boy inside and are trying to compensate for their tininess with aggressive behavior. They want to be loved and accepted like everyone else and just might go, “damn, that’s why everybody hates me. Thanks for that!” Well, it worked for me one out of ten times. The other 9 times they become even meaner (& more frightened). Unfortunately not much–mones included–will change a dominant/abusive person’s essential nature save extensive therapy, a well aimed torpedo or concrete sneakers.
Thank you! 
Very informative. It is a social acquaintance. I know what you mean by domineering I don’t think it’s that though. I am very interested in doing some testing with the p106. I think I will try the IH next time and I haven’t decided what else yet. I usually wear 1 spray of the TAL 1 I/O and 2 of the mx235. I might switch to is/b I don’t have straight TAH though. I am also interested to see how he would react with the est. I only have meo-est right now. I might just try I/H and is/b next time. The I/H for sure. Thanks again
In both situations whether your talking about a dominant person in a relationship or a dominant person in your social circle. TAH will only make them more domineering over you. I would not suggest anything with TAH including instant sexiness A. IS/A is TAL heavy but does have TAH in it. MX135 is TAH heavy. IS/B is Tah heavy.
MX300 with a small quantity of copulins will increase there respect and there perception of your status. Its there perception of your status that allows them to feel free to be dominate. This along with congruence with the signature will change his perspective and make him back off some.
The reason I mention the small amount of copulins is MX134 had the copulins in it already when they sold it and it was fantastic for giving you the higher status while maintaining the feminine qualities that generally makes males more attentive without being overpowering.
If you talking about a person just in your social circle or a boss you can skip the copulins.
TAL on its own is a good molecule for you to have in your arsenal. It can add that higher status vibe to things like IH IO Ishine.
P106 I can’t really say will do it only because I didn’t get much from it when I tested it and the reports are all over the place so there is no definitive direction this one is taking just yet. I do encourge you teswting it and reporting though.
P75 is very male but good in tiny amounts in a woman’s mix.
If you wanted to explore mixing something up I would suggest a base of anol or bnol and TAL and then steer it with just a trace of P80 or P93 and some arone. If its to masculine for you with those add ons then just add a little copulins to increase the sexual aspect of it. I would suggest not adding them right in the mix and just applying the copulins neat when you feel you want to head in that direction. This will make the mix more versatile for you.
Tisha
I don’t mean to seem completely off topic, but I like the interactions here with this discussion, and I feel like it would be a good idea to have more of these spot on “prescriptions” (almost) for different types of people.
It’s hard to generalize people because everyone is so very unique, but it could help steer some into the right direction.
The Jock, The Thespian, The Gamer, The Nerd, etc.
People often broadly fall into many of these stereotypes(?)
So would it be possible to create a thread for Do’s and Don’ts for specific personality types? Maybe something for Meyers Briggs types or even something as simple as Broad idea “Dominant” or “Submissive” along with specific problems “disrespectful”, “inattentive”, “smothering”, etc.
It might be hard, but if I or someone else gets time, we could research past “prescriptions” and list types/problems along with the suggestions.
You forgot the slacker, stoner, drunk and nympho!
Seriously, sure the personality type has some impact on how they handle the reaction, but it’s minor compared to other factors. In my experience responsiveness to mones is more rooted in the genes than personality type. In other words, the ability to receive, process and react are inherited traits and, additionally, are very subject to race, gender and age. Of course, emotional state, social situation and our/their social status impact outcome as well. So, optimized mones for nerds vs jocks ain’t gonna happen. However, optimized mones for a twenty something East Asian female on birth control is a reasonable possibility. The nuances of interacting with various personally types is more dependent on your social skills. In other words, the right mones for his/her racial, type, gender, age, etc., will soften them up, but your body language and speaking skills are the things that guide their response.
Well that’s nice to know! Good point.
Either way, a guidance chart still sounds like a beneficial idea.
Actually there are several well known guidance charts both here and at LS. LS has them publicly available in their “PheroLibrary” whereas AD keeps their research hidden, so several forum members have compiled and made available guidance charts in the recent past.
That would be so interesting!!! 
I’m not equipped with enough experience to take something like that on, but I think that’d be cool.