Hey all you ladies! I would quite appreciate some advice. Here’s the situation,
My girlfriend and I have been on a long break, you may even call her my ex. Anyways she went away for 2 months after we ended things and just returned last week. We’ve been hitting it off pretty well since she returned, alot of flirting and teasing. I’m know we’ll be back together within two weeks, but I want every edge I can get. To make a long story short,
Do you ladies recommend Instant Shine, Instant Female Magic, Instant Honesty, p74 or another product? How do these products make YOU feel?
I just want her to feel good and have fun around me so we can bring back the positive attractive vibe we had when we were dating. Keep in mind I am already a tall outgoing guy. I am an “alpha male” who leads and initatiates things.
Right now Instant Shine is what I am leaning towards. I am new to this company’s pheromones but have just ordered A314.
Thanks SO much for all serious and experience feedback! She is quite special to me!
Shine would be my first choice as well. It does make me feel great.
There are a few others that put me in a really fantastic mood but the men have only tested them a little so I am unsure as to what kind of reaction they are getting. Mx140 and MX135 are both really upbeat fun mixes. I feel very upbeat and happy when I am wearing them as do most people around me. Do a search on those two in the mens section and see what kind of reactions they are getting before you buy them though. According to Jas you can buy from the advanced section as long as you provide some feedback in the forum or on the site.
I am also thinking some CTTM. Its a mix of both Instant Openness and Instant Honesty. Feeling comfortable with each other and talking will go a long way in helping you get back together.
You mention your an alpha male and your 20 but I think Ammo can still be beneficial to you. Its a good all round product and has a sexy edge to it. You could use a little of that when you go out on dates or special occasions just to throw a little sexy into the fun vibe.
Instant Female Magic is touch and go for me at least. I am generally a very mellow person, not high strung in the least and the product dosnt do a thing for me. For my friend at work who is high strung and and frequantly PMSing it works wonders. On the female supervisor at work to. We spray her desk chair when she’s not looking when she is in one of her moods LOL. Only you know your girls personality so that one is gonna have to be your call.
A314 is a really good product. Its attracting, safe, trusting, sexy in a non aggressive manner. My hubby wore it a few times and this is what I get from it. I may have to buy him a bottle because I liked it so much but he dosnt exactly know there pheromones so I will have to peal the label off LOL. Its very usefull for work to. My friend who gave me a little from what she bought for her hubby said customers have been really nice to her husband since he started using it. It took him about a week to get the right dose though.
That’s so cool! My last GF needed to be dipped in it nearly everyday. Usually worked too. Of course I was using chemset A-1, a notch below Instant Female Magic but surprisingly effective. I think I’ll have to put some in a pocket atomizer for emergencies.
Thanks for the replies! I’m a little wary of the idea of wearing a whole bunch of these products at once…
I get the idea that If I was to wear Instant Honesty, A314, Instant Female Magic and Instant Shine all at once the girls around me would be halfway drugged. Is that correct?
I think for my next meeting with my ex I will just wear Instant Honesty and Instant Shine…or Instant Honesty and A314…Ahhh I’m so overwhelmed with choices! I know for sure I will wear Instant Honesty, but can’t choose between Instant Shine, A314 or Instant Female Magic to go with it.
@ Tisha, Yes she is a moody girl. So I think according to what you say Instant Female Magic would affect her.
Nope, not in the least. You’ve been watching too many Discovery channel programs about insect mating behavior and pheromones. Humans, unlike insects, have a brain and are not subject to involuntary reactions to pheromones. We have highly effective and selective filters to prevent us from giving in to socially undesirable biological urges. Otherwise you’d find yourself mating with the first big mama downwind from ya. If this behavior were true for humans, this stuff wouldn’t be legal for very long. Showers would be required and regulated by law (due to natural pheromone production).
First, to be effective in a romantic sense, there needs to be attraction between the parties involved. Otherwise you could spray a fence post and watch women embarrass themselves and get raw 'n red. However, if there is attraction, pheromones work with your body chemistry and persona to enhance and amp up your words, appearance and actions in the mind of the target. Pheromones do not disable freewill nor invalidate social structure. No sir. They do not create attraction. Not a chance. You create attraction. People do what they want with or without pheromones. The pheromones merely add lubricant to make things easier and faster.
What Gegogi said Pheromones dont change they enhance. So I dont think you will drug her out or anything. To much none could make her cranky or nervous but your not getting anything with alot of none in it.
Just remember they are designed to use one at a time if thats what you want. I know you probably see alot of posts with people mixing a bunch of stuff but alot of those people are experienced users and they know what works with what. The products that you mentioned above are safe to use together though. I have always found my best results by using about 2 products at a time. I will add cops to those 2 once in a while to.
I would suggest using one at a time at first so you can get used to them, learn the correct dosage for you and your girlfriend can get used to the new vibes coming from you.
If you feel you want to use 2 at a time go with something like this…
Use the A314 as you main mone (remember there are like 11 mones mixed in that) and enhance it with one of the others.
Out on a fun date A314 and shine
She is cranky A314 and IFM
More intimate date A314 and IH
my only advice here is to go very light.
very.
changing your signiture so extremely would make anyone moody.
i dont share similar views as far as using different mixes to affect people the way i want them to behave (takes the fun out of taking credit for my own prowess)
but enhancing a signiture can be sweet.
A314, 1 possibly 2 drops .
1 spray of IO.
thats just my
since i have negative reactions to IFM, i wont comment on its use.
Wow I think I understand now. Tisha you are saying to start off small, do you think wearing one drop of A314 and 2 sprays of Instant shine is a good place to start at?
Also, where would you all suggest spraying? I have literally read every page in the men’s forum to page 115 and get the impression that Instant Female Magic and Instant Honesty should be sprayed on the hair and the back of the neck to minimize the user being affected by them. Would spraying Instant Honesty on my wrists be a no-no? We usually sit at a table across from each other. It also sounds like I can spray Instant Shine wherever else on me.
Seriously thanks again, I am so pumped for the future!
Yes start small, I learned that from Lor and experience. Not that I still dont mess up with the puratives and spray to much cause I just did that the other day with P83 LOL
Instant Honesty you should use to the back of your head or at least away from your face. You want to open communication with people not blurt out your pin number. It works good, I had no intention of ever telling anyone I use pheromones but when I had it on near my 2 friends it the first thing that came out of my mouth. Funny thing is while I was blurting it out I was thinking Jesus shut up. I wear it in my hair and now I am used to it more. In fact I need a new bottle cause I only had a to-go and Jas sent that as a sample along time ago.
Instant Female Magic has been reported to cause some slight temporary depression in some men. The guys use it to the back of there heads or necks and dont seem to have that problem as much.
The rest of the products you want to apply to you pulse points or hot spots anywhere that heats up and is kinda in the open to aid in diffusion. Neck, upper chest, wrists, crook of elbow if you have a short sleeve shirt on. Some of us use it in our hair because when you move around it sort of makes the pheromones diffuse into the air. Works best with longer cuts and its just a therory but seems to be a good one.
One drop of A314 and 2 of shine is good to start if you really want to mix right off the bat. You will benefit from using one at a time first though. Like Lor said you dont want to totally change your origonal pheromone sig drastically really fast. Start with one drop of A314 and work up till you begin to notice the effects. Then you will know your sweet spot for that product. If you have them both on you wont know which one they are reacting to. Dont get discouraged if you dont see results right away. It took Rob almost a week before he started to see results and he thought me and my friend were crazy for using pheromones LOL. He loves it now.
With A314 make sure its a drop, not a smear or a dab. Instructions are on the product page for that. Another tip I use that I got from the lovely forum ladies is when you spray something like shine do it in a sort of sweeping motion to cover more area of skin. Takes a little practice with the to-go bottles but it works.
Lor I really do think Less is more with pheromones. I have tried the really big mixing recipes but have just had better results when I keep it to maybe 2 consumer type products and sometimes depending on the situation some cops. Puratives I try alone and then with one other product at a time. I am just not good at those :o Experimental test mixes I really like to test. Some of them like MX140 and MX135 I can wear all alone with great results.
I have been able to use certain consumer products to effect certain people the way I want but not really to the extreme. Its just a subtle difference. Like with shine and my boss. Works on him like a charm everytime. Maybe with him its just so noticable cause he is so nasty normally. Your right about trying to keep your natural “prowness” I have been thinking about that lately and have been going a few days a week naked of any synthetic pheromones.
Because they do effect me when I wear them still I dont want to lose “me” under all the pheromones if you know what I mean.
LOL! I’m not sure who the first is, but that last two have to have some sort of charisma or appeal. If it is not charisma than perhaps it is cold hard cash?
Ah thats mean of me. Perhaps it isn’t money, maybe fame? Grins
Whats attractive to one person may not be attractive to another. Mones I believe do have something to do with it but only a small part. They can help bring them to you but they cant make them stay. We have to do that part on our own.
Pity you cant advertise it. I wont a tee shirt that says HUNG LIKE A HORSE Ha ha
Yeah attraction is a weird animal you can do what you can to help it happen pheromones included but in the end its in the lap of the gods
i get frustrated when i see someone point out how unattractive someone is.
because you think they are, they must be to everyone.
Tisha,
I have always understood pheromones to be something of a
marquee, a way of telling someone a little bit about you.
The act of using them to control another persons behaviour like a drug, rather than by encouraging the idea that this is what you want, is alot of what i hear on the forum. Its disconcerting to me.
I think when others use them in hopes of manipulating behaviour as opposed to encouraging ideas ( i want to be percieved as sexy, i wear instant sexiness; not i wear it to make him do me) i think thats when people get skeptical or disenchanted. they expect too much, start wearing more.
experimenting with more is cool, but im finding everything has its sweet spot.
I dont think you can control or manipulate another persons behaviour. pheromones in my opinion only influence it. If they really want to be cranky or they dont want to “do you” there is not a pheromone in the world that will make them do it. So morally I have no problem with influencing people with them.
I see your point with Instant sexiness, The self effects are great and it does give off that sexy vibe. I think it enhances self as well as attracts others.
Pheromones dont change they enhance. So I dont think you will drug her out or anything. To much none could make her cranky or nervous but your not getting anything with alot of none in it.
Funny thing is while I was blurting it out I was thinking Jesus shut up. I wear it in my hair and now I am used to it more. In fact I need a new bottle cause I only had a to-go and Jas sent that as a sample along time ago.
LOL (just teasing)