I just want to say that I’m not very experienced with girls at all and being eighteen, I can say that I’ve never had a girlfriend or have had my first kiss (I blame it on conservative parents and a single-sex school )
So after reading the stickies, I’m still not too sure about what I’m looking for.
My situation is that I think I’m stuck in the friend zone. I’ve known this girl for quite a while (3 years). She had shown interest in me (heard from a friend) but at that time, I went overseas for a few months and lost contact.
Now this girl, in my opinion, is “out of my league”. She is very pretty and I’m not that handsome at all.
What I’m looking for is something that could possibly get me out of the friend zone and something that can help me work my way towards a relationship with her (and I’m guessing physical attraction is needed too?) I’m also, usually, a shy guy without a lot of self confidence towards my physical appearance (however I understand confidence is a very important thing when approaching girls).
Any advice is appreciated. Thank you.
PS. Are the products from Androtics buy-online only? Shipping to Australia is very expensive and I don’t use online purchases.
Pheromonally, small amounts of AMMO should be what you want to use. Androtics is online only at present but AMMO is supposed to be coming to dept. stores soon…keep your eyes open.
Since you have been out of touch with your target for some time you have a lot of freedom to change the way you act with her…flirt like hell with everybody, maybe she’ll see you in a new light. Google fastseduction.com. Start with the beginners guide.
My advice is to rely more on changing yourself than worry about pheromones at this stage, from what you are saying. Look into ways to increase your self confidence, self esteem, self respect, sense of self worth and self image. Learn about body language and how women communicate differently than men. You probably have a lot of mental programming holding you back… work on that. Pheromones are only going to help you “say” something different about yourself through chemical communication, but if it’s not a message that is congruent with what you’re saying otherwise (actions, body language) then you’re not going to see the best possible results.
First of all lose the mind set that any girl is out of your league. As with many things in life desire can be viewed in a supply and demand sense. If the supply (you) comes across as of not much value then the demand will reflect this.
Second, realize that while she may seem like the greatest thing on earth, this mind set isn’t helping you. Almost all women want a guy who interacts with them on their level at a minimum. If you’re constantly thinking she’s ‘above’ you it might convince her of such.
Third, while you may want to be around her constantly when two are together, do not under any circumstances become her shadow.
If you two are going to be in proximity with one another then it should be on equal terms. This will display to her (and others) that you are a person who values himself and reduce the likely hood of random guys interrupting you two.
I cannot tell you the number of times a beautiful girl at a party has had at least one random guy shadowing her. She of course realizes he is there but is virtually ignoring him. You know what happens when I approach and start talking to her on a equal (if not higher) level? Most of the time 90% of her attention is instantly diverted to me and those shadows of hers disappear.
In other words, be the sun not the shade.
Lastly, there is hope if what your mutual friend said is true. I’ve found that in many cases if a girl liked you before, she can (through the right actions) like you again. However this may be a uphill struggle that will require you to put yourself out there more.
Don’t beat yourself up though if you fail, take it from me, these things only get better with age and experience.
As for product suggestions, I’d go with a small amount of ammo + a bit of Instant shine.
Or if you feel comfortable with a putative 5-10mcg of P83 + Instant Shine 2X.
Which, unfortunately for you is only available online at Smartmones*.
*(fortunate for us since it remains more of a secret)
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