Re: Hello, Which one to use

Hello, My name is lizzie. I have been curious about the effects of pheromones. I am single and wondering if the pheromones really work? I have been reading trying to learn the differences in each or the combination that work. I am still confused. I hope someone/anyone would assist. I thank you for the assistance.

Hi Lizzie its great that you came to Phero Talk to learn about Pheromones. Its always great to see new people. Its understadable to be curious but first can you tell me more about yourself like what do you want the Pheros to do, who you want to use them on, and a little about your personality. And yes Pheromones do work but you only get a 20% edge the rest is you, remember that Pheromones are not magic but an increase on your own abilities. Thanks for coming and I hope to hear from you soon.:smiley:

Thats a good question, I really don’t know, To attract men( of course) find more friends, long term, maybe help me get over my shyness around men I find attractive and feel a sexual attraction towards. Thats the best I can do being honest with myself.

Alright first to attract men I would suggest Instant Sexiness for women which sounds pretty self explanatory. Instant Sexiness gives you a feeling of being sexy like you just got a tan or wearing a fantastic new dress. As for finding more friends I would suggest Instant Openess for women, which will not make you find friends but it will make you feel less inhibited and be able to talk to people who will in turn find it easier to talk to you. As you may have seen on some of the other threads just use one Pheromone for a week then use another. After two weeks you could start combining them, which is where the last part of your question comes in. Try combining Instant Sexiness and Instant Openess for women for a knock out combination of your feeling more sexy and thus more confident and being able to more easily initiate conversation with the men you feel attracted to. Let me know how it works out.
Turnier

Hi lizzie,

Welcome.

Pheromones really work You can read the posts here. All the posts are written by real uses.

For your case, I suggest Instant Sexiness and Shine.

IS will make you attractive and sexy. There are 2 versions of IS. IS A makes you more dominant and tougher. IS B is more feminine and softer.

Shine will counter your shyness. It boost your confidence and lighten your mood too.

Good luck

Hello there Lizzie and welcome!
I’m glad you’ve joined us.

Could you give us a little more info about yourself?

Like, what is your personality like? Are you shy? Outgoing? Friendly? Unsocial?

Also, what would you like pheromones to do for you? Help with work? Romance? Sex? Respect? Social?

Finally, do you live in a really warm place or a colder place? This will determine if you need oil base or not.

Pheromones have worked well for me and work well for just about everyone. My favorite so far is IS/b. However, I love just about all of them because they all do something for me.

Hope you’re here to stay. Good luck :smiley:

Tell more about myself. I live where it is warm daytime and cool at night.My friends say i’m funny, goofy, I can be quiet. The shy side of me is around certain type of men. I need serious help in that department. I have friends that are men. They think its funny, I get tongue tied. When I usually tell them where to go. I’m very aware of what goes on around me not at me. Does that help?

Hmm, yes it does help. Do you find your more sweet or aggressive?

Oh yeah, Sorry forgot this is very important. I am a romantic person with no romance. I have to work at staying out of books, because they were my only friends for years. Yes, I’m still a student 2 years to go for a degree.

Depends on the situation, attituide/ mood. atmosphere,and who is around.

I’ve got a buddy that sounds a lot like you. In school, no romance, but interested in ‘the game’.

For him, I’m ordering some Ammo, Instant Openness, and Turn Up The Heat to try first, and then go from there.

Since you’re a girl, I’m hoping the other ladies on the forum can help you out from their experiences.

But to answer your question whether they work or not, absolutely YES!

I would recommend ordering one or two bottles of pheromones that the other ladies here highly recommend, and then ordering a few To-Go bottles to experiment with.

Goodluck and let us know your results. If you’re really doubtful of whether they work or not, the to-go size bottles are just 7$-15$, a small investment for social success and romance (that sounds LONG OVERDUE!!)

It also depends if I’m attracted to the person sexually or for their intelligence. If I feel threatened, I react different than most. I was raised in the country. I’m not fragile, I’m not manly, I do know how to pull my own weight and not afraid to do it. I was at one point in my life to be the aggressor, not now. Turned down to many times and insulted.

Hmm. Not that much info, but I can see where your going with the personality. You may be one of the lucky few who can use both IS/a and IS/b. Someone may have already told you, but I’ll say it again.
IS/a makes you more dominant/sexy
IS/b makes you more cute/sexy
I personally like IS/b the best because it levels me out. I’m generally not a “cute” person. That’s one thing to take into consideration. How will the phero work with you? Do you want it to make u more dominant and tough? Or more cute and sweet?

Also, some people have reported (although I’ve never noticed a difference) that IS/a and IS/b attract different type of guys. I believe they said that IS/a attracts the more timid, nerd guys, and IS/b attracts the more out going guys.

You said you were shy around men so you might want to try IS/a first to give you that confidence boost. Keep in mind that A can sometimes agitate girls. B on the other hand generally helps you to be friends with everyone.

Thank you for your help and advice. I shall put it to good use. Yes, I’m here to stay, I like this atmosphere. Again, Thank you.

Hmm, you remind me of a book character from The Host called Melanie Stryder.
I know what you mean about the aggressor deal. I’m a lot like that now…pushing guys away sometimes, and they hate it. I’ve driven so many guys away from me. That’s why I love IS/b. I gives me confidence and sweetness. Maybe that’s what you need if your worried about your aggressive behavior

P.S. I can agitate or belittle females without any help. It really wont matter, I do it without trying. I’ve been repeatedly told.

Hmm…yeah I believe you’d definitely enjoy IS/b more. You sound like your personality is a lot like mine. I think you’ll like IS/b.
Also, something else to try would be either IH (makes moments more intimate and people feel closer to you) and IS (Which will help with the irritation)

I don’t worry about that now. It’s the nonaggressive that scares me. I’m so unsure that I have lost a man that still to this day I deeply care for. and yes, we still talk, and no he never new what I felt. I was very careful. When I walk into a restaurant, bar, or even my work I walk in as if I own it. Its all how you carry your self. Funny thing is thats not me on the inside. I’m a soft-hearted easy going layed back person. That has to get a back bone and a big stick, so she doesnt get walked on. No, lI don’t have a chip on my shoulder , I knocked that off a long time ago.

I will take your advice. (Maybe, It will work.) Thank you very much.

Hi Lizzie, Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

Sorry for all the questions but it helps us to be sure we are suggesting the right products for you.

Instant sexiness is great and I do think B would suit your needs well.

Now I suggest you also look at IH to increase interaction with others and give a feeling of connection. Works on both males and females.

Ishine may be another you would like. Uplifting warm charismatic it draws people to you and helps them be less irritated or unfriendly.

If you have any questions just ask. I hope to see you in the forum

Your GC is on its way

Tisha