I’m a instrumental solo musician (electric guitar player) myself, and am also looking for the best combo.
So far I find A314, IS to be best for coming off as high value and business in the music field. You will come across as the alpha musician, experienced in years and money. And if you have the equipment to back it up and the music experience it works well with a power vibe. Great when not trying to pick up women but rather coming across as “the man” of the musical world. I think it aids in concentration when performing, and increasing social status. People will talk about your music skills after a party or gig. And word will spread about you.
If it comes down to getting laid and music, I would suggest Ammo and IS, and maybe a little a314. I find with this combination I get more heads turning from the women, especially blondes but also all kinds of women. It doesn’t tune me out as much as npa/edge and I find its more acceptable in situations when you want to get a larger pool of audience to like you. Edge NPA is very volatile and works usually for ONS and when women are either easy or blacks latinas or on their cycles. At times this can backfire like crazy on you. I also find edge /npa always tunes my mind out and makes me tired. I don’t need to feel lazy and smelly when I’m performing.
I play a lot of U2 currently, I’ve just recently expanded my equipment by investing another $5000 in it and I don’t need drunken people trying to steal, or damage my equipment.
Thus, you need to make sure you don’t become to hostile or make others hostile as this could occur.
Generally speaking I find working with IS, ammo, and a314 the best combinations. Also don’t look to get laid right away. the music is the foreplay. It will bait the women in.
Concentrate on your music and that will speak for itself, and if you blunder up big no mones will help you. But from time to time do look at your audience and smile. In between songs, take a break and introduce yourself or say hi at the very least.
Pick music that appeals to a broad range of woman. For me playing songs like Pride, Where the streets have no name, vertigo, and Still haven’t found what I’m looking for appeals to large audiences both men and women (30-75) and the sound effects I get out of my equipment even amaze me and I’m used to them for years.
Green day is a great band that appeals to the under 30 crowd. I intend to learn some of their music too.
Remember there are musicians who have scored with thousands of women, and those that haven’t even held the hand of one woman. In the end its your game. There’s a time for action. The mones will bait them in, the rest unfortunately is up to you. You have to initiate, talk, give compliments etc
Myself I suck at the dating game (been out of it for years so it would never work). I am no good at dancing or in my prime anymore where I can use the body for ONS. But I sure have confidence in my guitar playing. To me it substitutes for dating. If you have an audience people will talk about you. the more word spreads the bigger your audience gets the more woman know you – it automatically leads to more success. At gigs or parties you will be requested and many woman will take an interest in you (woman love electric guitar players who stay in shape). Just let them fight over each other for your attention. Eventually , they will take action as they sense competition. Keep busy, you will score and at the same time not appear desparate.
I started off in a field other than music (computer science in university) and worked for 20 years in that field. Music has always been a hobby but I never turned it into a profession. Still if you know 5-10 songs down pat by memory and can visualize them in your dreams you have all bases covered. You will never need to play 10 songs for a woman before you score with her.
Also instead of just playing music (like a cd player) involve the audience by saying, this song is “dedicated” to my friend XXX etc. It will make you more than music people listen to and forget. They will associate pleasure with the song, and when they hear it again think of you.
Gegogi could probably write a book on how he seduces woman with mones and music – I myself work on a smaller scale than him. Still we could all use some tips.
May I ask how long you’ve been a musician and if you do it for a living?
P.S. Sorry if I offended anyone by such a LOOOONNNGGG Post!
dsouza
, so maybe my opinion in not really accurate. But sounds good, doesn´t it?