Roses are red...

…Violets are blue. I’m new to these forums, and need help from you!

Lol.

Anyways, I’m a fairly confident outgoing guy in most situations. I can even be downright cocky. I work out and maintain a very high level of hygiene. I’m also quite shy when it comes to just walking up to a woman and talking to her.

Can pheromonoes help?:confused:

Hey, Mangy!

Speaking as a mostly shy person, yes pheromones have helped tremendously in that department. Instant Shine is a huge help in helping me relax enough to feel comfortable opening up. However, they won’t initiate the conversation for you. That’ll take some time and practice.

What would you like the pheromones to do for you? Where do you think you’ll wear 'em?

Well, there’s a few things I’m hoping for.

I’m very interested in the way pheromones can affect me personally. I battled depression for many years before I adopted a healthy, more natural lifestyle and positive outlook. (I eat paleo, supplement and work out often).

I still have a few odd days where I feel lonely however and this can lead to a vicious cycle of negative self talk and depressive feelings. I was hoping for one of two things:

A) Using pheromones when I feel that way might give me the little push I need to break out of it?

B) Using pheromones might give me that little push I need to approach women and have them be a little more forward with me? (I get 95% there but usually by that time the opportunity has passed.)

I plan to use them purely for socialising. It would be in both club/bar scenarios and in small group settings.

I’m mostly interested in how pheromones can effect me personally. Maybe that’s a little weird. :stuck_out_tongue:

I battled depression for a long time before I adopted a much healthier lifestyle. (Paleo diet, exercise, positive outlook)

Unfortunately I’ve been mostly single ever since my relationship with my longterm girlfriend ended two years ago. Sometimes the feelings of loneliness put me into some sort of vicious cycle where the loneliness leads me to feeling negative which leads to further loneliness, etc. Depressive episodes I guess?

I’m hoping this can help me on two fronts:

A) Perhaps directly kick me out of this state of mind when it happens.

B) Give me the confidence I need to cold approach women more often, and make them more receptive to it. Usually by the time I psyche myself up enough the opportunity has passed.

I’d be using it in social settings from clubs/bars to small gatherings and parties.

Edit: My problem is that I’m an introspective overthinker. If there’s something that can make me shut up and just do it that’d be great.

Holy s, you sound just like me. From the depression down to the LTR that ended two years ago. I’d say grab ahold of some Instant Shine once your GC is issued and see where it takes you. It’s probably my favorite Androtics product (though they’re all good and all effective), but it’s the first one I go to for self-effects. It’s a mood elevator that I use on certain days when I know I’m going to have a harder time maintaining a positive attitude - for example, when I’m around certain coworkers who grate on my nerves.

So it may help for minor depressive states that may last only a few days. For REAL slumps, unfortunately there are no 'mones that will clear that up in it’s entirety, and you’re definitely on the right track as far as all of that goes. You’re taking good care of yourself and maintaining a positive attitude and that makes all the difference.

It’s comforting to hear that someone’s been through the same things as me. I’m usually only down for a maximum of ~10 hours at a time and it’s almost always triggered externally by happy couples doing fun things or being shot down hard by a girl.

Aaaanyways, thank you very much for your help. It’s greatly appreciated. :slight_smile:

Woah, welcome to the mone forum, Mangy. For the shyness that you mention, I’d recommend IO which really gets me all bubbly with others and others with me. This along with IShine would be great to meet new people.

As has been mentioned, mones aren’t designed to help with a particular ailment and it’s just a happy coincidence that it helps so many with the blues. IShine, I agree, is the best for that, IME.

Wish you well in your mone testing! Start up a journal to let us know how it went. :slight_smile:

I’m concerned about using IO as I’m already an extremely open person. TMI style. Though maybe I could use it a lot and burn out its effects on myself. Future project! And I’ll definitely be back here to give an update on how things go when I receive my shipment. Maybe I’ll start a journal after. Anyways, thanks!

Welcome Mandy,

I really don’t get being cocky and shy at the same time. :confused::confused:

However for a great confidence boast and to ease you into conversation IO and Ammo are your buddies. Use them wisely!

Good luck

Your gc was issued!

I’m shy for a small window when I’m initially intending to approach a woman. I overanalyze and talk myself out of it. The rest of the time I’m outgoing and friendly, sometimes edging into cocky/obnoxious teasing. :stuck_out_tongue: