Hi and welcome to the pherotalk forum!
Well, i’m about your age and I can tell you that these mones are good for wht you want them for… I have A314a/b and the oil and love the seriousness this provokes in me and in others… a respect the Alpha leader vibe… Clint Eastwood style…
I’ve also used the IH as Tish and Gormas mentioned… this is good for trust, a comforting trust with which you surround others.
I’d also suggest you try out the IS as this will give you a youthful glow… really, I’ve had others tell me so… Interesting molecules in the Instant Shine. I have a contented feeling while wearing it and others are relaxed.
I mention this as the A314 will give off a strong leadership and respect vibe. It can be too intimidating in some settings. In other settings, among colleagues, this could be what you NEED! But, if you want to soften up this Alphaness, then, layer some IS or some IH and you’ll see how they complement and balance each other out.
And after a good shower, you’re back to a clean slate, ready for your next combination or stand alone application! 
Oh, I’d suggest, if you haven’t already, read up on a bit of history and also, why AD does mones this way, with layering and exact quantities here:
Cheers and wish you well on whatever you select!
Let us know how it went!