Well going to the hotel the weekend wont be possible for 2 reasons:1) she works on saturdays and is very busy and on sundays we go out(thats the only day of the week we are free together!) 2)it will sound im taking a hotel just for sex!so that will definitely turn her off!!..i want it to happen easily when we are together at home with nobody you see…we never see each other at home when my parents are there!so on the few occasions that my parents are still at work and lets say she is free in the morning and me too and that we manage to meet at home well when she says ‘no’ after ive been trying my best its a bit disapointing… 2)we cant move together for me moment!that wont be before at least 2 years time!!!
What i want is just that whenever we are together alone at home i have something that will help me arouse her so that she gets ok for us!you see…when we do it its fantastic for both of us..she always tells me she enjoyed afterwards,her mood changes too she becomes much more affectionate with me etc etc…thats too cool!!!then that goes down after 3-5 days till we manage to do it again!Problem is she we already talked about that and she told me she wasnt into sex that for her it wasnt important at all…so im trying to find a way to motivate and encourage her as for any man i think its not easy to be in a relationship where you meet your sweetheart often and you are not able to make love to her!that hurts!envy and arousal builds up for me the more i am not doing it!im not the king of guy also who when he doesnt get what he wants will search for it elsewhere if you see what i mean!..i have no problem attracting other ladies etc…but thats not what i want..i love my girlfriend thats why i will try everything in my power or knowledge to find a solution for that
i have not met a woman who was healthy mentally and emotionally and was not into sex at your age. it does not sound like she has religious reasons for not wanting to be intimate. i know this is cold and clinical, but if you two are not sexually compatible, you will need to find another woman. why go through years of this type of frustration?
Everything is fine, their sex life is great, it’s just that due to their circumstances and schedules they can’t be together as much as he’d like. Nothing more and certainly nothing pheromones can help him with.
If you want to make love to your woman, it ssounds like a hotel is the only option. It can even be a motel, as long as it’s not a pay by hour one. Look on the internet for a deal on a hotel room for a weekend or a night if that is all you can afford. Go check in. Decorate the room with flower petals from the door to the bed with chocolates and balloons on the bed. Then pick her up for a great picnic and take her out for the day, romance her. Then put on a blindfold and drive her to the hotel. If you pick a great hotel, they will have a bath waiting and champagne (if you’re old enough). If you can’t afford that great of one, buy some wine and chill it yourself. Run HER a bath. Wash her hair, bathe her. Play her favorite romantic music while you are doing this. Afterwards, she’ll be ready to make love all night. In the morning if they don’t have room service, go pick up fresh muffins for her or if they do, order her fave breakfast.
I am sure she will do all she can to change her schedule to get some more of that good loving after a night or weekend like that!
I love her…we ARE sexually compatible.Finding another woman is not a solution its running away rather!!!I wont let her down for lack of sex!!!thats unfair and not right!!!she’s my lady the one i love and its not years of frustation like you say!!its just a problem to be resolve and get things going better and easier!!!i dont think age has something to do with it!!! you take 50 women all aged 26 like her ok i dont think all 50 women will have the same kind of libido she has!!!every woman is different with her own personality,perception of life etc…some may match but everyone’s not identical!!so some women at the same age as her may be colder for sex than others who would get turned on quickly and easily thats all!!!
If you take time to read a bit more on the forum you will find a guy thats been married for 18 years!his sex life stopped the day he got married and he discovered pheromones only last year!!!so for 17 years he’s been strugling hard to find solutions for his couple for that…and guess what when he started using the pheros things began to change for him!!!
You are so right, BUT … it’s not fair to you either.
That’s a standard married joke … I hope! It mainly happens to lots of marriages … when things become ROUTINE.
T’would be nice if she was thinking exactly like you on this. There should never be ONE person on a pedestal … it’s TWO or NONE.
BUT … I always say, “No matter what others think or say … do what makes YOU happy.” Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn.
Hang in there!
Turn Up The Heat, Instant Honesty, Instant Female Magic, Instant Openness, and AMMO for a change of a suit so to speak (Turn Up The Heat being your other suit), should be on your shopping list.
Turn Up The Heat: Sexual or “Thank God! There’s a new man in the house!”
AMMO: Sexual and “That’s my man!”
Instant Female Magic: “I love being around him.” “What cramps?”
Instant Openness: Fun and laughs and losts of conversation.
Instant Honesty: “Honey I shrunk the kids.” “It’s okay baby, I smoked some crack with BIll.”
Great post m&m!!!thanks man!!!its cool to see i can count on some guy’s support here!:)i havent got my 1st order yet but i hear many good post about ammo too!!!i think ill include it in my next order!!..Hey man by the even if its unfair for me thats ok cause i remain positive im sure better days are coming and as soon as i get my products from androtics like you said yourself ’ Thank God! There’s a new man in the house!’
I hope that’s what hits her sexual nerves. For your sake. Just understand … that there’s no guarantee, but do give it a week or two before you give up/try something new.
It mainly happens to lots of marriages … when things become ROUTINE.
Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn.