Hi All. I was with the same woman for 11 years, 8 married, and we are now separated, a mutual decision and we’re still friends. During that time I never seriously thought I would be in the situation where I would want to find another woman, but there it is. I find myself more or less single (still married for health insurance, till it becomes “incovenient”.
I am both excited and terrified at this. I very much want to meet a woman that I can…well, I dunno. Become friends with and then fall in love with? Sounds nice, but also long a drawn out. I wouldn’t mind getting intimate with several different women before that happens.
Part of the reason we separated is that neither of us was really physically attracted to the other for very long, and we stayed together WAY after that was gone. Yeah, oops. I don’t ever want that to happen again, so I would like to attract girls that I would normally consider “out of my league” or too hot for me. Yeah, self-esteem issues, I know. I am also quite shy, especially with girls. No real reason, I look fine, it’s just that when talking to a girl I am seriously attracted to, my mouth dries up, my hands shake, and I forget most of the words I know. And I know a lot of them, usually!
So what do we think? I decided to look in to pheremones almost as a joke, and then thought “well it couldnt hurt to look” and then I found this site.
Oh, and I’m 39 years old, if it matters, and my preference for a woman is wide open, from a mature 18 to a young 40, basically. Do these work equally well on women of all ages?
I am truly sorry to hear that your marriage did not work out. But welcome to your new life. I know it is scary - I have had both male and female friends face the same thing.
Mike has given you some good recommendations. I would ask you to consider one other product: A314. It will give you a success alpha The Man kinda vibe. Pair it with Ammo that Mike mentioned above. This will be your base product combo. You can wear it to work and out socially.
Then you can tweak it with IH or IO. If you have a hard time with those intial conversations then IO may do a little better for you.
I will say that the A314 may come acrss as too mature for the 18-24ish crowd BUT by about 24 or 25 the girls figure out that that is the “marker” of a successful guy. Which can be an aphrodisiac of its own.
