Sex with my girlfriend has dropped to once or twice a month: what product helps?

hello everyone i have never tried phermones before but am willing to try here is my situation. Me and my girlfriend have been together for just a little over a year for about the first 6 months of our relationship we would have sex everyday somtimes up to 5 times a day it was just awsome was never a happier man lol. That being said the 105 paund girl i first started dating has put on about 20 pounds and is insecure about her weight even tho she is still sexy as fuck and now we only have sex mabey once or twice a month i was wondering what u guys think the best product to get my sex life that i had back any comments or tips would be greatly appreciated

I don’t think phero’s for your sexlife or that give you a sexier vibe is what you need… You need to find a way to make HER feel sexy again & help her increase her confidence :slight_smile: There are phero’s that boost mood & confidence that might well be alot more useful than products like Ammo etc You can try IS or IS/a for her (her wearing them, not you :wink:) and if you wear IH it might help her open up so you guys can talk about this. Do you tell her you still find her really sexy? Don’t forget beautiful too…us girls want to be reminded we are beautiful too, not just sexy or hot.

Do you know why she gained the weight? 20lb is quite alot… Did she go on the pill? That can cause weightgain (though usually only a couple of pounds) as well as cause libido to take quite a dive.

Ditto what Xiphoid said. It will be hard for her to be comfortable with you if she is uncomfortable with herself. Sounds like you need to help her boost her confidence. Take her out somewhere nice that requires her to dress nicely and maybe put on a bit of makeup and do her hair nice, you know - all the works. This may help remind her that she looks good even with the weight gain. I also have to ask if you have an idea of what caused the weight gain? 20 lbs in a period of months is sign of depression. I’m not saying that she is depressed, but with her decreased self-confidence it may be a possibility. There are of course many other things that could cause the weight gain, I just through that out because of the circumstances.

All that said, you may want to try Androstenedione (A1). It used to be found in IFM sold here, but it has been discontinued. Love scent sells it in high concentrations and you can either use a drop or two at a time from that bottle, or dilute it with some perfumer’s alcohol and apply it as sprays. It will calm her down and have her feeling more relaxed. Instant Shine also tends to perk people up quite a bit, so you could try wearing that around her as well.

Great suggestions from both Xipoid and Scottie

I highly agree with the compliments per Xiphoid’s post. Be sincere. Tell her and show her that you’re still highly attracted to her. I definitely think the IH to use to get her to open up about it would be a great idea. Most of all, make sure you listen when she opens up to you about it.

You can suggest doing activities that will promote bonding and togetherness as well as see if she wants encouragement to get herself back into shape by doing physical activities together. Even if it’s just walking a couple miles a day after dinner, it will provide awesome bonding time for the both of you as well as promote an added physical element that could spur her to work a little more on her own. If you start getting into things that really get the sweat going this can be extremely good in building up sexual tension as well as the bonding aspect.

Most important thing though is to compliment her and try to help boost her esteem with your actions and words. Also, be honest with her. This is obviously something that’s bothering you and may be something that’s bothering her quite a bit too but she’s just scared to bring it up. Be supportive and I think you can work this out to benefit both sides.

Good luck!

20 pounds is a lot on a 105 pound woman. Telling a woman she’s beautiful doesn’t work most of the time, they just don’t believe you. But telling her during sex seems to work.