Hello y’all!
My name is Brittany, I’m female (obviously), and I hail from the drought-stricken hellhole of Oklahoma. I’m 22, soon to be 23 in October. I’m very blunt and not afraid to speak my mind. I’m an artist and a writer, and my whole life I’ve been that “weird quiet girl” that never talks, but always listens. I was the ugly duckling growing up, and over these past few years I’ve finally come to accept that I am attractive. Maybe not beautiful, but at least good looking. Inwardly, I’m a very sexual person, but I’ve always lacked the confidence to do much about it. So, generally, I’m known as a tease and a flirt.
very much a newb when it comes to this pheromone stuff. I’ve heard about it, even seen some lubricants with it, but until today I had no idea it came bottled and ready to use.
Why did I find out today, you might ask? Well, because of my “situation” I guess you could say.
I am happily in love to a man I’ve been with for about 2 1/2 years now. We do plan to get married eventually, already call eachother fiance. However, since we’ve been together we’ve both become people we don’t particularly like, physically. He’s gained 40 pounds, i’ve gained 30. His is far more noticeable since it all went to his stomach. Mine just filled in the places it needed to be for a growing woman, though I still wouldn’t mind getting rid of some of it, lol.
So, anyway. Our sex life is pretty dull and nearly nonexistent. I don’t enjoy it anymore because of how fat he’s gotten, he just can’t do the things he used to be able to. And this probably will sound strange but his penis has grown more in width than length since we’ve been together. I feel like I’m being ripped apart for the first five minutes and I hate it.
So, until he gets his ass in gear and looses some weight like I’ve been trying to do, I’ve just kind of let the chemistry die between us. This is where my problem arises.
I enjoy flirting with other guys so much. There is one especially at work who, if I were single, would have easily gotten me in his bed. But since I’m not we just flirt back and forth all day. It’s almost like a game for us, and it gets us through an otherwise boring and difficult day. (we work in the Garden Center of Lowes. Miserable job in the midst of this hellish summer)
I’m interested in trying out some pheromones for two purposes, really.
One, while I wait for my fiance to loose weight and get in shape, I think it would be fun to see what these pheromones could do for this flirting game at work. There is nothing quite so fun to me than being a horrible tease. And, my coworker is the type of guy who knows his limits, especially at work. We are smart about what we do, and I don’t see anything bad coming out of it.
And Two, When my fiance is back in shape and we can hopefully do the things we were able to before, I’d like a kickstarter to rekindle the chemistry again. I think the pheromones would be ideal for that.
I found a couple this morning, but I have no idea about them, if they work, if they’re a scam, or what.
Pheromones - Sex attracting colognes and perfumes, affordable and effective The one called “seduction” I’m interested in, but it’s rather expensive I think.
http://love-scent.com/essence-woman-sex-pheromones-p-35.html?p=essenceofawoman This is the other. Much less expensive, but it requires a cover-up sent because apparently it stinks?
I’m looking for something that really works, but also won’t make me go broke. Hopefully this $25 thing might help me out 
Thanks everyone!
It takes a whole lot of self control and with your help and support, I’m sure he can lose much more than a few pounds!