She slipped my net.

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I’ve got a problem.

A314 has been doing its job, giving me explosives instead of a rod and line to catch the fishes. But…

My latest catch was in a cafe. A lovely girl with brunette hair, flashing hazel eyes and probably the shyest, cutest smile you’ll ever see on a girl came and sat at my table. She could have chosen another one - the cafe was fairly quiet - but no, she chose mine and stared me down until I looked up from the newspaper I was reading.

‘Hi, honey.’ The paper forgotten, I give her my full attention and a smile.

‘Hi…’ A shy smile and a hint of red stains her cheeks. God, she’s so cute and so shy. She kept smiling and looking away, looking back and away again, toying with the straw in her milkshake. She combed her hair with her fingers, pulling it over her face and then flicking it back repeatedly. It was almost as if she was playing Peekaboo, so I took my chance and smoothed her hair back, stroking her face with my finger. She touches my hand with hers and we don’t let go for the entire conversation, constantly stroking, teasing, tickling or just plain holding hands.

Our hands said everything we didn’t say out loud in public. They were very touchy-feely with each other.

I should say she would have been a catch. We got on like a house on fire - briefly - but my net is torn. I can catch them, I can pull them in, but they always slip the net just before I can get them onto the boat. It drives me crazy sometimes.

People are always short on time here. Racing to get from A to B and back to A again, with a detour through C. No-one slows down and no-one stops. Any personal connections made are fleeting, quickly made and just as quickly broken, never to be seen again.

I need a pheromone that will strengthen my net. I want to pull them in and hold them there. :wink: The hold is lacking. Any ideas?

Musk

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Ahhh another enlightening MuskCloud post.

The question you pose, is an excellent question, and I too face this same problem frequently. However, I think that this question is something to be addressed fundamentally by who you are being. The pheromones may assist you in finding long term partners. I believe it is you who must keep them by your side long enough to get to know you.

Try letting your intuition guide you. Make allusions to future encounters. Be persistent. Be dominant and go to them if they refrain from coming to you. Time will tell who will stay and who will go. I find it’s the women who want to go beyond the superficial, beyond the everyday, and make the leap of a new experience that are the ones best suited for companionship.

This is rather abstract…
However i’d like you to imagine, the artist painting a picture of the artist painting a picture of the artist painting a picture of a landscape.

Envision yourself approaching the feminine, envisioning yourself approaching the feminine, envisioning yourself approaching the feminine for a relationship.

The problems we face on initial approach when fixed, turn into how do we build a relationship, turn to how do we build a lasting relationship, turn to how did we get these children and a dog and make me a sammich.

I hope you get the idea =)

Good luck.

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I’m probably the last person who should be answering this as I’m as big of a noob as possible BOTH to “mones” and social interaction with women in general, but based on what I’ve been seeing on the forum and “common sense” I would give IH and/or IO a try, (maybe TOGO bottles from which you can discreetly apply while talking or apply generously to the wrists and practice exaggerating gestures to make the scent available while talking). Get her to open up and converse and look for a shared interest?

Congrats on the big hit, that’s got to feel awesome!

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That sounds awesome but why didnt you exchange numbers? why are you so quick to close the deal? maybe if you are more patient you could close the deal.

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This is just the humble opinion of someone who wasn’t there and doesn’t know the cultural dynamics of the city involved, but it sounds to me like a reciprocity failure.
By initiating prolonged physical contact with a shy (albeit interested) woman you just met, your intentions came across loud and clear.
Under the right circumstances she very well might have been into it, after all it’s not like she bailed right away. On some level though she did bail because not matter how busy, most women will find time for you if interested.

Maybe she was looking for more mental gratification before indulging in physical gratification.
Pheros that might have helped are probably those that stimulate feelings of comfort and closeness.

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One of my best ever hits came from using IHx4 on Jacs in Glasgow. The IH did its job and we really connected on a deep, personal level. It became a short and sweet relationship that ended when she lost her job and had to retreat back home into the Highlands. The relationship fizzled out, mostly due to distance.

Thanks! :smiley: Every time you get a good hit with these pheromones, you raise the bar. :slight_smile: A year ago, that would have been fantastic. Now, above average, but not big.

She remembered she had a train to catch with minutes to spare, Funtimes. Patience is something I have lots of, but I’ve realised it plays a big part in booking a one way ticket to the safe category, the ‘friend zone’. Years ago, I managed to pull my way out of it - it is possible - but it took years. I’ve had enough of that.

I’ve learned a lot about how to play the dating and mating game from these forums. Knowing when and how to make your move is vital. If I had a few more hours, it would be Glasgow all over again.

Musk

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hey i fell in the friend zone several times with women i was interested in, and I think the best way not to fall in that zone is to let her know up front you want more then friendship. This girl you were with sounded bold, she wanted you otherwise she wouldn’t of grabbed your hand. I think if you had made a date with her you would of sealed the deal or she would of. Hey it sounds like this a314 really works and I am sure you have sealed the deal with many with this a314. I cant wait to get my order, I feel like i should of rushed ordered it now. You really made me look forward to trying a314. I cant wait to tell my story.

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From reading this, it seems like she is normally a shy person. It looks like your personality and the mones hit her and changed the dynamics. All of a sudden she got over her shyness albeit only for a short period of time. It seems that maybe once she realized she was going to miss her train, she snapped back to reality, and to her normal self. Shy. Maybe she did not know how to handle the situation so she fled. The situation reminds me of a post of Catlords.

However in this case it was not about sex. “It’s like it engages her emotional/sexual side and obliterates the balance of power with her logical side.” It is like you and the mones disrupted her balance. So she became open. Then realizing the time, her logical side took back control. So she fled. Catlord really has some gems of knowledge :slight_smile:

I do not know about the other women you are not able to net. Are you looking for LTR or just sex?

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An LTR first. A one night stand or just sex is OK with me and I’m not going to turn it down if offered, but an LTR is what I’m looking for. I’ve given up too much for my career in recent years and I want to get my life back in balance.

Musk

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I think for a LTR everything has to be taken slower. You mentioned in your post

In some circumstances that might lead to a LTR, but again it seems like she was not “in control.” Realizing what was going on, probably scared her.

Relax. Just take it slow. Do not push it too quick. You want her reactions and feelings to be natural. If they fail her logic tests she will dump you and run. Be a gentleman. Take your time developing a relationship and really get to know someone. Let the sexual tension build. Basically do it the old fashioned way :slight_smile:

Probably not the best advice. THat is what worked for me. You cannot game you way into a LTR.