Shy Girl wanting to get experience in dating world

Hello everyone!

My name is Kasia. I’m located Southern California. I’m 19 years old, and i’ve never dated in my life. I’m a very hardworking student and I have very big ambitions and dreams, the reason why I never let any guys into my life before. However, I want someone in my life, someone I can share all the wonderful experiences of life, and I am interested in possibly buying a pheromone to help guys notice me. I was googling some information and found this site. I would like to find out what would be a good pheromone to buy. I usually don’t get a lot of guys looking at me, as I do not have a perfect figure. Guys seem also a little intimidated by how much time I devote to my studies and to my singing (i’m a singer). I would like to find something that would make their eyes turn in my direction and have them be brave enough to walk up to me and talk to me. There is also a certain guy i like, who does not return the same feelings for me. is there anything that could possibly make him rethink his feelings? Thanks!

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Welcome Kasia.

You might want to try out ih and io. They both help to get people talking to you. Of course you have to do your part. Building rapport is often the start of good things.

Hello there and welcome Kasia! That’s a lovely name by the way!:wink:

I’m obviously not a girl but my mom currently uses Instant Sexiness/b and experiences great affects from it such as increased attention and more talkativiness from her fellow workers. It’s apparently good at getting people to open up to you.

Also, IH or IO are good canidates as well but be sure NOT to apply IH to the neck or you will be telling all your secrets to the world!:open_mouth:

tHERE IS Instant sexiness A and B. One of them is for shy girls, and the other is for alpha girls, and there was a post in the womens section of this forum not too long ago, maybe you can find it, telling which is which. I recommend it, because it is androtics superproduct for women, like a314 is for men. IS and IO used constantly, in your hair, use it for 6 weeks stright, and if your like me, you will overcome your shyness to a huge degree :slight_smile:

this fascinates me every time, why is it the guy always has to make the first move… ?

This may be the norm, but its not THE LAW!

You say you are in university…
At university I had so much game, I want to go back next year and do my masters!

as you pointed out, he won´t approach you if he hasn´t noticed you.
Stand out in the crowd!
take part in discussions, student activities, socials ect… where you can get to interact. Drama is great, or something sporty…

consider that the guy you set your heart on may be just as shy as you are!
you got to meet him half way.

One thing that always works is have the guy explain some feature on your mobile phone to you… such as how to save a picture to a number so that it shows up when he calls :wink: (who cares if you know it already!!!)

and then there is always the student mating call:
“OH… I´m soooooooooo drunk” - works like a bomb!

No law written by men, true. It’s the law of the jungle, encoded in our DNA before the apes left the trees and roamed the plains of Africa.

Bellacanta, you may have better luck with Essence of Woman (EOW) backing up one of the Instant Sexiness mixes. Which you go for, A or B, depends on your personality and the image you want to project. A is a very forward, go-get-him mix, while B throws out a softer kittenish come-to-me aura.

You can find EOW at Love Scent. It’s powerful stuff and will get eyes turning your way, which is what you want.

Have you given your target any indication you’re interested in him romantically?

Musk

MuskCloud is right. EOW is some very, very powerful stuff. According to Tisha, you can use it pure, but I also found a dilution method for women online somewhere.

I just started experimenting with it to help with the “make em hate me vibe (would make the guys love you)” and it helps me, at a very dillute 1 drop:15 ml of Alcohol.

I suggest you give it a try.

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thanks for all the replies

Hello Bellacanta,

If you are shy and guys find it hard to approach you, a good combination would be IS/B and Instant Honesty. IH makes others more likely to strike up a conversation and also helps you become more bubbly. In addition to that, it is great when you are performing. IS/B gives you a playful, soft, sexy vibe and attracts masculine guys courageous enough to ask you out. It is also helpful if you come across as a bit intimidating currently.

Guys, about making the first move; it is not that guys are obligated to do so, but I would not feel attracted to a man if he could not overcome his fears to ask me out. He comes across like not being interested enough or not being brave enough or not enthusiastic about the masculine role. Being shy is not a problem, actually when a guy is visibly nervous it is even more cute because it then takes more courage to make the move anyway. Hope that helps!

why is it the woman always has to take care of the kids? i had some of these interesting things brought up in my thread on equal pay in the lounge.

basically society seeks balance…men spend years making the first move..then women spend years taking care of the kids. it’s sort of a balance. i really think that men would be willing to take a bigger role in raising children if women were willing to take a bigger role in the dating game. whateva

Sure, I don’t even disagree with you here.
You can’t imagine however, the number of times I’ve heard:
"well, there is this really cute girl in class, I’ve wanted to talk to her for ages, but after the lecture she always jumps up and makes a bee line to her next lecture. I’ve said Hi once or twice but she never made eye contact or responded or anything… "

whats wrong with hanging out in a group outside the lecture hall for a while and having a chat with your friends before running off?

whats wrong with opening up to some eye contact and helping the guy build up some confidence?

whats wrong with saying hi to that shy looking guy that has been staring over for ages, smiling, trying to build up some connection before putting it all on the line? or saying hi to his friend and starting up a conversation?

show a social, dynamic side of yourself, and you’ll find that you get approached a hell of alot more often!

google a bit for “single dads” or “fathers rights” and you’ll see how difficult society makes it for men to take care of the kids.

many regard the “traditional way” of he gets her pregnant then supports his pride with food and security as the “natural way” and thus the “right way” but I feel/think we have evolved beyond this!

Believe me! I’m all for equal pay for equal work, higher education for nursery and child care workers, coupled with higher pay. The same goes for teachers, healthcare and social workers ect… they study as long and hard as architects, lawyers and engineers yet don’t get the benefits.

“men spend years making the first move” ?
Whatever happened the the 3 second rule !? :wink: