i received my mones yesterday and couldn’t wait to try them out. I hit 2 squirts of TUTH on my chest, some IH on my wrists elbows and hair.
My wife didn’t seem to different other than a couple of extra looks i notice out of the corner of my eye. She did seem to be a little chattier and somewhat open. don’t know if its coincidence or wishful thinking. Im trying to find my sweet spot but also trying to find if she really reacts at all. we are both nearly 40. Maybe i’m not using enough?
It’s hard to predict the effect of pheromones on any one person since everyone is different.
Try only using the IH when you want to have a deep conversation with your wife. Try only using the TUTH in the evening when you two are relaxing together and it’s a good time to get intimate. In your situation, I see absolutely no reason to use the products together.
Try 1 spray of TUTH a few different nights and see what happens. If that doesn’t change anything, increase to two sprays and try that for a few days. If that doesn’t help, switch to three sprays. If this doesn’t do anything then learn what her cycle is and figure out when she is ovulating. Then put 4 sprays of TUTH on yourself a night she is ovulating and see how she reacts.
Use IH when you want to have a deep conversation with your wife, not when you want to have sex with her. Start with 1 spray of IH and work your way up.
If you use IH with TUTH, it can weaken the effect of TUTH. This is what many people call buffering on this forum and it’s not necessary for your situation.
