I’m going to type this in a short possible way, I will fix it as soon as I’m able to. My 1st day using these pheromones mixed few instant gentlemen, turn up the heat and mx203. Went to a party at 1st it was normal, but I drank a few shots of tequila and vodka. I decided to tell this girl that she was super cute. I didn’t know what else to do so I went back to chill with my friends and thats it all she said was thanks…
Went to work one day I put a spray of instant Gentlemen everyone seems soo bossy around me piss me off.
I guess that is it. I ll add more when I’m able please check my post once inawhile I might edit some stuff.
For my opinion i think you might have OD there Artsy. Hmm, so all she say is thanks, did you initiate further conservation with the girl after she say that?
Sorry to hear about your Instant gentlemen, people are bossy with you there for what you say but i hear good reports on Instant Gentlemen from the others. Well it can’t work for all people i guess.
Instant Gentleman leads to vibes of dependability, reliability, which implies you can get stuff done. If people are coming to you, asking you to do this or that, that’s because you’re broadcasting that you’ll get whatever you need done.
If someone had a sign that said “Workhorse” on their back, wouldn’t you think it appropriate to give that person some work? Maybe Instant Gentleman is too inviting on your presence? I take it you’d rather look dependable without having to work dependably. Sometimes it doesn’t work that way, but you never know. I’m not recommending it, but A314 might give you a better experience in terms of setting up personal ‘barriers’.
A strange thing I noticed wearing Instant Gentleman (2 sprays on the neck as well as other pheros) is that people become more serious. I was talking to a girl who is normally totally giddy with a real lust for life but she became really eloquent and enthusiastically serious when I was talking to her. It’s quite hard to explain really and it was strange to watch, I don’t know if this is something that regularly happens with Instant Gentleman.
Check out the two threads in my signature. Learning to use pheromones is a process like anything else. I’m a big fan of IG. I hope you won’t give up on it after just one test. Pheromones are not magic potions. Good luck to you!
Maybe she felt as if she was talking to somebody who was equally eloquent and enthusiatically serious. You could probably bump a little giddiness back in with some IO if this turns out to be a problem. I use the two together quite a lot.
Yeah I’m usually quite serious and most people think i am intelligent. I’m seeing her again tomorrow and want a real fun, giddy, jokey mix with a bit of sexual tension. I only want a bit of sexual tension though because I don’t want to screw things up, I primarily want her as a friend but if it progresses then great.
I was thinking of leaving Instant Gentleman out and just using 1 concealed behind shit spray of Ammo with 2-3 sprays of both openness and shine. 2 of each to neck and 1 of each to hair maybe.
Do as renny suggested and read the two threads in his signature line.
First girl:
Who knows. 3 different pheromones, your alcohol, who knows about her. Maybe the compliment threw her off, maybe she gets them all the time. Maybe she has a boyfriend, maybe she just did not fancy you. Who knows.
Instant Gentleman:
Everyone being bossy - again who knows - were they having a bad day - pressure at work affecting everyone or were they picking up on your new “coolness” and it irritated them them. some people react that way when your pheromone signature starts to change - they sense something is different and are irritable although most of the times it is with someone who knows you VERY well - like mom or spouse of many years.
Girl acting eloquent - seems to be reacting to your Instant Gentleman - instead of the usual giddy she is “upping” her behavior to match your new “suave and smooth”. You may not prefer her like that, but it seems to me that is what she was unconsciouly doing.
As far as your next date - mix seems good in and ratios but of course the issue is whether you have worked with them all enough to know what they do with you individually. But good luck all the same. Keep us posted.
I’m going to give you a bit of non-phero-related advice. Repeat after me. Never tell a girl you just met that she is cute/beautiful/hot if you want her to feel attraction for you. All you’ve done is given her the power.
If you want to build attraction, you do it through CONFIDENT flirting…which means playfully teasing her, not paying her compliments.
Yeah that is a GREAT point not only does it demonstrate low value but when you think about it that was really a statement which was virtually impossible to lead into anything other than an awkward response.
I remember this one time a while back I was with my girl at some bar when some cougar comes up to me and was all like “Hey you look just like Orlando Bloom in Pirates of the Caribbean” to which I responded “Uhhh wow I’ve never heard that before…” Shortly there after when we both reailzed this conversation is going no where the drunken cougar just looked at me all puzzled and slowly walked away. Keep in mind I had zero interest in this lady because I was with my girlfriend at the time who was probably 25 years younger and a 100 times hotter than her.
But the point I’m trying to make is to try to open with a question or a statement that you know will lead somewhere, rather than a awkward “uhhh thanks…”
Under the influence of a large dose of androsterone ( Instant Gentleman basicly) I felt “wise”, old, and just a touch “maudlin”, but not much- not like Instant Female Magic. I also said some rather “deep” stuff once that made people wonder if I’d just come off the mountain top and been enlightened, or just had been taking lots of drugs. It definitely has a heavier vibe. Think James Bond. How often do you seems James Bond smiling? Usually it’s just a mona lisa smile, a polite smile. “steel fist in velvet glove”- people aren’t going to think you are bubbly at all. They’ll see you as mysterious, wise, old, or smooth, not giddy.
How much did you use of each product ? many I dont remember I was too drunk
How many times have you tried them ? just once
When you say mixed do you mean layer ? yes layer
She was actually a friend who just came visiting for the summer. I knew since I was 18 and I’m 20 now. We use to make out. Its goodtimes but I don’t know w/e.
Sometimes it doesn’t work that way, but you never know. I’m not recommending it, but A314 might give you a better experience in terms of setting up personal ‘barriers’.