OK.
Read this post in Tisha’s signature line first:
Do as renny suggested and read the two threads in his signature line.
First girl:
Who knows. 3 different pheromones, your alcohol, who knows about her. Maybe the compliment threw her off, maybe she gets them all the time. Maybe she has a boyfriend, maybe she just did not fancy you. Who knows.
Instant Gentleman:
Everyone being bossy - again who knows - were they having a bad day - pressure at work affecting everyone or were they picking up on your new “coolness” and it irritated them them. some people react that way when your pheromone signature starts to change - they sense something is different and are irritable although most of the times it is with someone who knows you VERY well - like mom or spouse of many years.
Girl acting eloquent - seems to be reacting to your Instant Gentleman - instead of the usual giddy she is “upping” her behavior to match your new “suave and smooth”. You may not prefer her like that, but it seems to me that is what she was unconsciouly doing.
As far as your next date - mix seems good in and ratios but of course the issue is whether you have worked with them all enough to know what they do with you individually. But good luck all the same. Keep us posted.