I have a card that I’d like to send to my ex. I’m not exactly sure if I want her “jealous” but I want her to consider what she did to me. (Long story but she acknowledges her unfair behavior). Perhaps making her want me a little while she reads the card?
Basically the card is a “missing you” card. We were married for 2 years.
#1 Does spraying pheros on a card do anything? #2 Which scent would be best if it does?
pheromones are context sensitive. Spray androstenone on a mannequin and women ignore it. Spray androstenone on a hot stud and women go nuts. So would it work on a card? Maybe if she were thinking of you. However if she opens it in the presence of another person they’ll probably reap the benefit. I’d say it’s a weak technique. If you want results, use them on your body.
With all that said, I sprayed “friendly” pheromones–androstenol–on my promotion dossier (50 page narrative!) 3 years ago. I figured if the readers (live committee) were in a better mood it would be a positive thing. I’ll never know if it helped–I probably would gotten promoted to full professor anyway–but I was sure it wouldn’t hurt. Not much chance of benefit but no harm done.
Incidentally LS used to have a pen with pheromone ink! A total joke but I signed my dossier with it. Made me feel like I did everything possible to insure a promotion.
If you do send her this card with pheromones on it, she will detect the neroli or the ammo fragrance. A perfumed card is tres romantic, so you will come across as really missing her. To be blunt, from what little you have said of Madame Ex in this thread, I doubt she would respect that kind of gesture.