You bet your ass humor affects attraction. But it takes a certain type of humor, that is directed towards the girl. Making fun of her, treating her like a bratty little sister, or ‘cocky comedy’ as David DeAngelo calls it.
You just gotta bust her balls in a funny way, and the more sexual innuendos you can make, the better. Funny ones though, not creepy perverted ones (though, with the right tone of voice and smile, you can get away with saying some pretty crazy things lol)
It has to be DIRECTED towards her, specifically. Your humor for each girl you talk to is going to be as individual as they are.
Confidence is important, and I mean an aura of confidence, in how you stand, in how you speak, in how you act, how you move your hands. If you are touching your face a lot or fidgeting, you give away an aura of insecurity, so being calm, slow moving, elegant, and proud, is a good way to exude confidence.
Always keep your face relaxed, that’s also important.
Sincerity is also important, never say anything you don’t mean. Compliments are good, but for every compliment, you should be making fun of her for something twice…like if she is wearing some big honking jewelry, say ‘Nice ring!! You know, my gramma is into costume jewelry as well’ and give her a little smirk or something. You’ve gotta make stuff up on the spot, so get in the habit.
Kinesthetics (kino)…the more you touch her, the more attraction there will be. It’s a fine line between being pervy and creepy, and building attraction. Touching her arm or upper back is fine, lower back is acceptable after a while, then with comfort and time, you can move to touching her neck, face, hands, etc.
Speaking of which, palm reading is awesome! Get into it. And good hugs are always a great thing to master.
David DeAngelo has some great stuff, Mastery With Women is a great audio seminar that teaches you how to be a better man, to be interesting, and wholesome. Girls like the whole package, so you have to refine every part of you if you want to be truly successful with girls. I’d highly recommend it. Another great audio seminar is Sexual Communication.
It also takes time. Most good girls, who are a catch, aren’t going to give it up easily, they KNOW they are a catch. In which case, the rule of thumb is 7 hours of building comfort.
This means…all the time you spend with her should add up to 7 hours before you can really make a move, or take it to the next level. So if you spend 10 minutes together for a quick coffee, great that’s 10 mins towards your 7 hours…then if you go to the zoo for 2 hours, you’re up to 2:10, get it?
That said, lots of girls these days just want a quick lay, so it depends what you’re into personally. IMO, the good girls are worth the time, because you improve as a person by spending time with great people. You’ll learn a lot from them.
And yeah, don’t over do the making-fun-of-her thing, but be sure to bust her balls in a funny way whenever you can.
Also, let her know you’re picky, that you are selecting her, not that she is selecting you. You can just mention casually that you’re picky when it comes to girls, or that you have high standards, and then go on to have a conversation about what you both like/dislike.
With time, you’ll figure a lot out on your own.
Find a guy who is good with girls and hang out with him, ask questions about and mimic his techniques until you figure out your own.
Hope this helps. Don’t be wreckless with girls hearts though. Like I said, the good ones are worth the time.
