Wow… for a newbie who has been struggling with sweet spot testing and finding it hard to see any hits… Yes, I actually thought that testing is just depressing and very discouraging… Until I decided it is time to play Potion Master and mixed up Steve’s Recipe in a to go bottle!!!
This GAY MIX ~ OR straight mix perhaps??? Really opened my eyes!
In just one evening, I encountered so many hits and my group of coworkers/friends were all scratching their heads not knowing what the hell was going on! All these GIRLS…
Steve, THANKS!!! I have recorded the story in my journal!
All the newbies that have been struggling to see results perhaps want to give this a go… I
This mix could be a gay one or straight one, it would all depend upon the wearer and their congruency…it sounds like a really nice mix that I might even try some time.
Somehow I am trying to convince myself that this is more effective for straight people only because I did not have any boys eying me! or approaching me!
Having said that, I did get kisses from 2 male coworkers (forehead and cheek) ~ Out of characters for them and I was very shocked
Now this word “congruency” ~ this word is now puzzling me Very cryptic indeed … So what vibe did I actually give out and how did I become congruent with the message I was emitting??? Anyone???
Thinking back to that night, the only word that I kept hearing was cute! Hmmm… is this the “You’re so cute I just want to pinch your cheeks” Mix??? lol
Basically if you wear Instant Shine and for some reason sprayed in some place you aren’t getting self-effects from, then sit in a corner and mope - nobody is going to read those signals off of you. So they will feel the effects but when they look at you they will say, “Its not him thats for sure” (subconsciously anyway).
If you’re wearing Instant Shine and you actually approach and communicate with people about positive things (it’ll be easier with your self-effects if you have issues with doing that normally), then you will absolutely be congruent and give off that ‘fun’ vibe its loved for.
I was more or less referring to congruency in general and not in relation to your own experiences.
What I’m saying is that mix, there’s nothing in it that says that if I wear it I’m only gonna attract gay guys…because my whole state of being whether that’s in my body language, or in how I respond to someone’s advances will let people know whether or not I’m straight or gay.
So I could go and wear that mix in a club, any old club and whatever attraction it brings me, it will be up to me and me alone to create enough sexual tension so a woman will get the picture that I’m clearly not wanting to be just friends.
I was trying to learn from the experience so that I could take notes on what I did to be congruent with the vibes for next time lol
But i was probably just lucky and the mones worked so well with the girls. Did not actually do anything or trying to get the girls attentions. Tisha did say mones work to a certain degree without having to act accordingly - so this experience must be it!
I suspect the reason this mix works well for you and gay men in general is because its naturally congruent to your personality and it enhanced it. You dont have try to be congruent with a vibe if that vibe is already part of you. That’s what confuses people about the word congruent used in the pheromone context.
The only time you have to try to be congruent is when the vibe your sending with your pheromones is not a vibe that comes natural to your personality. For instance like with A314, the alpha leader vibe. If your just not the leader type, your shy, timid, unsure of yourself its going to give a mixed signal to people. Your body language and behavior just wont match your pheromones. A314 speaks of your character and personality this is why we talk about congruence so much in reference to it.
While all pheromones signal something I think the confusion lies with not understanding the function of each mone and its type.
There are different kinds of pheromones that do different things.
Keeping in mind that pheromone science and technology is really just in its infancy when it comes to human mones. The terminology used with human pheromones has not really caught up with the terminology used in the study of pheromones on other mammals and insects but after using these products for a long time I notice certain putatives and mixes fall loosely into different categories just like with the pheromones studied in animals.
It would be nice if we had are own categories and with the research here at AD I think someday we will. Right now we just make up our own categories to express what we are experiencing and feeling with pheromones. Like… masculines, feminines, socials, mood enhancers, connectives, relaxers. Each of these fall into one or more of the scientific categories below.
You have signalers, releasers, primers, information, alarm and sexual mones. You also have territorial, Epideictic and trail mones which are more prominent in insects and other mammals. We as humans are advanced so we dont we dont rely on these as much but I have seen some pheromones that could fit in the profile of these types.
Some putatives and mixes are a combination of the types I listed above.
Information pheromones are mones that say something about you physically, biologically and your character. Such as A314. These type of mones and mixes you need to sometimes be congruent with because they speak of character and biology.
While something like TUTH (anone) can act as a sexual mone, a signaler or even a alarm mone depending on how much your wear. You really dont need to be congruent with it.
Ishine is more of a signaler and releaser. Its speaks of character and mood. Some congruency will help here but with or without it it will effect the mood of those exposed.
Now I suspect something like Oxytocin is a trail pheromone and calmative.
Natural copulins, while technically not a hormone derived pheromone can act as a territorial pheromone as well as a sexual and information pheromone.
Once I started to look at putatives and mixes in this way it really helped me to get a better understanding the nuances of each putative and mix and understand it in relation to humans and human nature/behaviors. I’m a chart girl LOL. I have charts with each mix or putative I have used and categorized them from my experience and the reported experience of others.
If you really look deeply at some putatives you can see how and where they fall into these categories and when congruence is important and when its not. Thats a big part of the reason I dont like the word congruence and prefer saying not to act in opposition to the mix your using. Congruence implies you have to do something and not acting in opposition implies not doing something. Sometimes not doing something is easier then doing it LOL
OK I dweebed out enough here back to your original question of …
What did I do to act congruent to the mix. You didnt do anything you just didnt act in opposition to the mix. It enhanced what already exists.
OR straight mix perhaps??? Really opened my eyes!
Very cryptic indeed 