In my limited use of Pheros every time I use them it’s been and experiment/experience. Last night, to change things up, I decided to just use Instant Female Magic. No Turn Up The Heat this time. I applied 2 shots to my forearm. Went and sat on the floor by my wife, she’s sitting on the couch. We talk for a bit, but she’s preoccupied with some numbers game. She gets up to do something else. I go to my office for a few minute and then go check on her; she’s doing something else now. I’m within eye shot for about 30 minutes, more than enough time for the Pheros to do something. I get ready for bed and she comments about the time, knowing it’s my bed time. As she’s walking by I try to kiss her good night, but she just walks by. Basically avoiding me. She will usually make sure I kiss her good night. What am I doing wrong or what should I try? Maybe I’m expecting too much from the Pheros? Should I get another product? Which one? My experience with Turn Up The Heat has mostly been positive, but with Instant Female Magic it’s been confusing.
I found absolutely no direct amorous benefits from either IFM or chemset A-1. However both are amazingly effective at toning down or eliminating bitchiness or mood swings due to her monthly hormone cycle. In other words, A-1/IFM has never resulted in me bumpin’ ulgies with my woman. Sure makes her more tolerable at ragtime.
Outside of PMS, A-1/IFM seems to have some value as an androstenone buffer but is poor as a standalone beyond that time of month.
Instant Female Magic is not a sexual product in itself. Its a calming, a feeling of well being vibe. From your discription she seemed pretty at ease.
So I would say you did nothing wrong.
Turn Up The Heat on the other hand causes arousal and you have said you have had luck with it.
Together she will be aroused and at ease, prehaps a good time to try new things. 
Tisha
The other effect that has been commented on here in the forum and inanother is the fact that sometimes changes in our phero signature (detected subconsciously) can “throw off” clse family members who have known us for a long time. And by “throw off” I mean ranging anywhere from a cautious “What is different about you?” to almost outright hostility. LaurieNY and I discussed this in a thread at some length if you care to look it up.
That being said both Gegogi and Tisha have good points. Instant Female Magic is designed to put women at ease, not lust.
Your experience could mean anything. Maybe she was very preoccupied with something else. My wife often retreats into Soduku or Crossword puzzles when something at work or home is bothering her and maybe she needs time to ponder it or just wants to take her mind off of it. Maybe something was bothering her. Maybe something was bothering her and the Instant Female Magic helped her relax. Maybe the change in your phero signature threw her off that night. Hard to tell without wearing the IFM by itself a few more times to see what happens. If it is due to a change in your phero signature maybe she will get used to it.
Or maybe just go for some old fashioned communication and ask her if something was bothering her that night. Beware - you never know what might come up!
Thanks for the help friends. I wasn’t really looking for lust, just a companion for the evening. I like to sit and talk with my wife, which seems to deepen our relationship. I was thinking the IFM would help; I think Boss is correct, could be something bothering her. That’s one reason I wanted to talk with her. Her job can be high stress and it’s always low pay. I told her to quit several times, but she loves the girls she works with. Things last night were much better; we talked last night before I left for a late meeting. Anyway thanks for all the helpfully information.
A combo you may want to try for that effect at some point is IH and IFM.
IH was induce deep meaningful communication. 