Ok ladies,
I’m going to share with you some of my experiences, and observation in the art of attraction.
Attraction begins with your body, how you walk, stand and present your attitude. From far away, that is what a man sees first. He’s got to be drawn in enough to recognize “oooh woman, me need to look closer.” If your clothes make you look feminine you can always win over the slutty look, no matter how revealing that other woman is. Cleavage does not equal quality attention.
Women who are voluptuous or tall and thin women are easiest to recognize as women. However, in this day and age a lot of people send out messages that you should be ashamed of being slightly meaty. Thus a lot of women pull back thinking they are fat and not beautiful. Trust me I had to lose 5lbs before I could allow myself to believe I was beautiful. And then you have other women who pick at other women’s faults so they can feel better about themselves. It’s a lot easier to pick at a voluptuous person, because you can see their boobs and butt right away.
Secret #1 women are more harsh in judging other women then men, physically and morally. Men are more relaxed in that area than we think.
Next he looks at your face and does a quick scan as to if she’s his type, is your face shape feminine or striking. Those with more contours in their cheeks and jaw get looked at first. Looking/staring does not equate to attraction yet. Then he looks at your eyes. It either tells him your loving, seductive, fierce, or intelligent. Then he looks at your lips. And noses on women, most could careless, but it does help the profile.
Secret #2 no one cares about your nose except you. Beauty is in the eyes. By a simple glance you can change how attractive you are at any moment. Assumed sexuality in the lips, because he is thinking about kissing and kissing means sex.
Third, is the clincher, and that is your scent trail. And your scent has sooo much to do with how people in real life treat you. You know if you stink, it doesn’t matter how fine you are people will run and assume the worst of you. If you smell like a memory of good times you are instantly on the like list.
Secret #3, the key to being a head turner is the scent you leave. So pheromones are 3rd on the list of importance when it comes to attraction. However, they are #1 important for you to feel good about you. In a way your scent is the extension of your aura. Your scent aura should not bleed through the cubicle walls. It should be close to you enough so a man realizes he is close to you enough to touch you.
Once he formulates the conclusion “attraction, or reminds me of someone I know” that’s when he opens up to talk to you. And, that’s when your personality matters. For some, he so attracted to you physically, he kind of puts this part in the back burner. For others, if this part stands out the most all those others matter less.
Secret #4 personality is the last thing that creates sexual desire if any. But it is the main thing that continues or ends the relationship.
Secret #5 Inciting sexual desires gets you sex, not a relationship. Be careful with phero overload if relationship is what you seek.
Secret #6 Inciting love and seducing the mind with hopes and dreams gets you obsession.
Secret #7 Conversation IS the relationship. Be wary of guys who don’t have time to talk on the phone regularly. Chances are that will not lead to a relationship you want. Not until it does become regular.
Secret #8 Great sex make a woman want to stay. It doesn’t always for a man. However, if he feels he can please her like no other in bed, he will most likely stay with her. And the opposite is true.
Secret #9 Everything has an essence. When you wear natural perfumes you sometimes get more additional effects from the laws of nature. We can call it magic if you want. Plant essence have hormones to that can help your hormones as well. You can drop essential oils into your pheromones. It’s killer good double wham bam.
Secret #10 It’s better to buy all your putative and experimones in a togo bottle at a high dose than to commit to a large bottle of weak dosage.
Secret #11 Some of the best mixes are accidents and weren’t measured.
Secret #12 Your beliefs are real, they shape your reality and what you seem to always get. Change your beliefs and you change everything. IF you shatter someone else’s reality, they will resent you. Keep it to yourself.
Secret #13 MEO-EST is the mother of all pheromones. Can’t use it alone though. Throw it in any mix and watch you SUPER SIZE your dose. Use with caution.
Secret #14 You want your man to cook clean and please you? Add -NONE and cops. He will bend at your every beck and call. By the way, don’t abuse it will back fire. If you can manage not to lose it, you will always be in control.
Secret #15 If you use EST for cuddling, don’t confuse that with love. It will wear off when you take a shower.
Secret #16 Sold cops are basically vinegar but tweaked. Trying wearing vinegar, you’ll be surprise how many hits you get. It carries a musky woman like scent. Put honey scent over and WHAMM instant queen bee.
Secret #17 nothing beats an all natural sex glow and real love.
. He began sniffing my neck telling me I smelled good. And I was like hey, I thought we were just going to be friends. He of course being in the mood said forget everything we said. Let’s start over. 
Fantastic journal, Sugarspice! Very interesting topics here. I like how aware you are of your environment. Have you experimented much with wearing vinegar? What happened?