Kitten has an excellent explanation of this topic here:
I’d have to say she is correct. My husband and I are both personality alphas and tend to bump heads comfortably. Excess tal or instant sexiness A sets both of us off and I become more difficult to deal with. I annoy myself wearing a lot of tal.
Tah melts him with a plainly visible relaxation of his facial features and his eyes become love heavy with a response that can only be compared to early stage relationship adoring. I’m also softened, more relaxed and it just works like no other for both of us. I love my tah!