Tater needs help with gorgeous redhead

Wow.. that doesn’t seem to happen to me any more.. well not so much that I lose my confidence thankfully! :smiley::smiley:

Sorry for being to primitive, but EYE CONTACT O.o. I swear, I’ve probably caused at least 4 girls to develop a crush on me without me saying a word to them. Just 3 seconds of eye contact with the right message being transmitted can do so much. Now it’s like they’re dying to make eye contact with me again; I feel bad now :frowning:.

Tater has decided to bail on tonights party. Im not in the right frame of mind. Its too important to me and im freaking out.

I’m going to change that to “Tater has decided to go on balls alone to tonights party”

If there’s even 1 mutual friend that you know is going, then you’re all set ^^.

Hey, Tater, go to the party! You’ll kick yourself if you don’t. Just be open with her. Tell her how you feel. When all else fails, sincerity without pretense can be amazing.

-D4

Okay tater

I am going to shout at you. But I am going to shout at you for your own good and to stop you kicking yourself later. So consider me your ass-kicking freaky fairy godmother. Ok Cinderella?

No way are you not going because it is too important to you, you are thinking of bailing because it is scary because you like this woman. You ain’t alone we all do this - every time we meet someone who really melts our butter. Male, female, any gender we all feel like that. Heck I have even seen Hell’s Angels reduced to mush staring at their boots in front of a woman they like.

But if you don’t go - you will wonder for months what would have happened if you had and that will drive you crazy and you will regret it.

So stick your best clothes on, stick a smile on, stick at least some Shine or upbeat social fun guy pheros on and get to the party.

Secondly, screw the bar-room method techniques. This woman is not some bimbo bar-fly who hardly knows you. So forget deliberately ignoring her, that will either piss her off, or she will see straight through it. She seems pretty high flying so she doesn’t really have a need to seek approval from others. If you ignore her it is possible you might leave her wanting more but it is more likely she will just think you are being rude. Being ignored, at any level, by someone you have had significant interaction with is not endearing it’s verging on insulting and as I said this is an alpha intelligent, smart female who doesn’t really need to chase your approval - and that’s one of the things that turns you on about her - if I read your posts right.

Women love men who make them laugh, talk to them and listen to them. Use your inner game enough to be confident, charming , intelligent, and sexy and FUN!

Now get up off your ass, get out there and go for it. Faint heart never won fair maid and all of that.

You might not have the pheros you want, but it is possible to get dates without them you know! :slight_smile:

Now go and have some fun dammit! Or I will set Kitten on you!

May

Don’t worry, we’ll all be there in spirit ^^.

Good advice.

figures often thrown around the forum:

90% you, 10% pheromones
99% you, 1% pheromones

If she likes you - cool.

If she likes just who you might pretend to be, things probably won’t work out in the long run anyway.

I would try ammo, just plane and simple ammo, smells great, pheromones work better than 95% of complicated mixes i have made during my 2 years pheromone testing.

Girls love happy, friendly guys with high levels of joy chemicals in their brains because that means that they are loaded with nutrition.

Just be healthy and most girls will want you, and if you don’t feel great with them, then leave and find another girl.

Don’t take your love life to seriously or it won’t work, let it glide with the wind.

HAHAHA! I LOVE IT! Since joining facebook, i feel as if all my friends are with me in spirit!

My thoughts exact-cally! :cool:

You’ve been coodie-fied! :open_mouth: See, Tater! This is the kind of thing that happens when you exchange conversation with a gurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl! :cool:

WTF tater. You are an alpha male. You have a million women to choose from. Don’t let this one girl fuck up your mindset! Go to that party and BE the party.

Aw, hockey-sticks. The driver just called to confirm my address. Didnt get my cancellation. I think im going. Driver will be here at 7. Partys in SF at 8. Maybe IO 4x instead of IH 4x. No time. Think it over in the shower. Wish me luck.

:open_mouth: Tater where are your biscuits man. Get going to that party. You really like this girl and you will regret it if you dont. She could be waiting for you. Just go and be you and you will do fine. :wink:

Girls have cooties. Women have copulins :wink:

Tisha

That makes for a good quote. . .

Seconded. Mostest awesomest thing I’ve seen today. :smiley:

-D4

Fantastic! Tater :wink:

Tater i feel nervous too when i really like a girl especially when they are intelligent (my favorite) and i tend to think they may not like me.
I cant tell you how many times iv worried about the outcome of an attraction to later find out the girl was hot for me right from the start.

Like my present LTR I wrongly assumed she was out of my league.Sometimes its better just to assume the girl is attracted too you.

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It sounds like Tater could do with some Mystery Method teachings =)

Good luck mate.. really don’t get discouraged. I’d use Honesty rather than openness for the communication aspect..

Just got home. Not a disaster. Not what i hoped.

I got about 2 sprays out of my IH 4x bottle, so i used another 2 sprays of IO 4x all to the hair, added 12.5mcg of P83 straight out of the bottle to the neck with a shot of 25 mcg MEO-EST. No time to composite anything.

The night went well. Tater gave a short congratulatory speech to everyone, entertained everyone, had them rolling in the aisles almost. No dancing, just dinner and milling about from table to table. She came over to compliment me on my speech, mused that im very flamboyant and shes impressed by my work, and my ethics.

I showed her to a few people she hadnt met, making sure to -handle- her by the small of her back which she seemed to take comfort in. One of my buddies made the comment that we were about the same age and looked cute together, which i owe him a 20 for. At one point she mentioned that her boyfriend would like me and i should join her for her familys Christmas party when im in Germany. I pretended to be unaffected by the -boyfriend- line. Told her my PA would get her contact information from her office. Blah blah blah. Oh i have to wake up early in the morning. Conference calls you know. Have a safe trip back and ill look you up when im in Germany. Told the driver to stop at Jack in the Box on the way home. Im pigging out as we speak.