Telling friends about pheromones!?

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What about other friends or people that know? Unfortunately with my wife it’s hindered a bit because she has the pheromone sex stigma stuck in her mind and practically hates my pheromone “hobby” so that kind of kills it. I mean not to say that I don’t get a hit from my wife every now and then, usually it’s more when she forgets I’m wearing them or just shrugs it off. But since I know she doesn’t like them it’s hard for me to tell if it’s the pheromones doing that to her or just her being herself with me. So yeah, that’s one reason why I’d rather keep it secret but we’re all different.

Was your girl upset about the whole pheromone thing or was she understanding? If she was understanding I’m sure that was helpful.

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She was upset until I showed her the forum and my reports (especially the initial reports and my putative testing reports)

I probably preferentially showed her reports by people like Bosshank (and his married thread) and Renny since those showed pheros in the best possible light for our situation.

Regardless she doesn’t really know when I’m wearing pheros - She only vaguely recognizes the smell of Instant Shine, and I had introduced that as aromatherapy prior to letting her know about pheros in general. It probably helped that she liked instant shines effects and therefore more likely to associate pheros with positivity.

Last time I ordered I got her a ToGo of IS/a… I know she has used it on occasion… actually it was funny listening to her talk about her day when she wore IS/a (if she had wrote a field report it would have been somewhat typical)… except that she doesn’t know what it was supposed to do.

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Ah, yes I remember you posting about that in a previous post. A funny thing did happen to me yesterday with my wife though, I sprayed on 3 sprays of MX289 which is the IS fixative x4 mix and when we were laying down she asked what I was wearing. Then I just mentioned that it was something from Androtics, she was asking like with curiosity in regards to the smell and possibly (I’m hoping) the effects of MX289 because she was asking with curiosity.

When I mentioned that it was a scented Androtics product she asked me what it was supposed to do, so I was honest about it and mentioned that it’s supposed to make the wearer confident and upbeat. Then she asked me if that’s the reason why I was attacking her in a sexual vibe because of being confident LOL. I felt like asking if it was giving her some sort of effect because she knows I like to test, but I didn’t want to ruin the moment. I think it probably did though, because she really doesn’t ask about the smell or what I’m wearing as she did last night. Hm, I’m hoping that was a hit though he, he.

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i’ve told one person i work with, and my GF.. hence, both ladies have joined the forum… one has yet to say hi, and my GF ordered already. this will be an interesting combo… her phero’s and mine? lol

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I told it now to one person atfer one year usage now. I told it my best frind but not my girlfriend :smiley:
Dirty little secret :wink:

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i tell my friends about it but they are skeptics. they think i’m an idiot.

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Well I’ve told some close friends and cousins about it but not all of them are openminded and most of them think that pheromones are bull**t.Some believe, but say - I’m perfect and therefore I need not enchancement.Some are clever and say - well maybe I’ll give it a try.As general I do not talk much about it because people think that pheromones are some way of manipulating others witch is just not true.Pheros are just an enhancement, as a good cologne or suit or like the miniskirt for girls.But the publik opinion is not what the truth is.If pheros were the power most of the people think they are - they would have been illegal.But most people cannot understand this.Most people just love to believe urban legends and not to think.

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I have this problem with running my mouth too much when I get excited - which happens a lot between the pheromone tests and the results of my calculator. So my mother knows, my uncle Mark knows, my uncle Steve knows, my grandfather knows, and a couple of my friends know. The good thing is that when I get excited and blather, most of them just tune me out. So while they know, once I have told them, and then stop talking about it, they forget about it real quick.

I gave one of my uncles a bottle of Ammunition for his birthday, told him it was a pheromone cologne, and gave him that “This is a secret, let’s keep it that way” speech. He would have been skeptical had it not been in a labeled bottle, and even more so if I had not asked him to keep it secret… and moreso still if I had not taught him what sorts of hits he was likely to see. But a couple weeks later he came back and told me he was seeing more respect from people, and that they were more willing to listen to him when he used it.

I haven’t ever smelled it on him, though, so I am guessing it’s been one of those five minutes of interest things and he too has forgotten about it.

One of my friends knows I use them, and she has a great time watching my antics with getting the girls to talk and be interested. One time for giggles, we exposed her sister to them. I was sitting next to her, in a semi-date situation, wearing one of the precursors to PS. Earlier in the day, we had brought up pheromones casually in conversation, and as my friend and I both expected, her sister confidently claimed that humans were evolved beyond being affected by pheromones, only animals were so affected, and that it was all placebo effect and hype.

Well as hot and bothered as she got during this “semi-date”, I am a bit surprised she didn’t put two and two together, because she didn’t have the slightest bit of interest in me previous to that… or since.

I have another friend who is a typical hard nosed skeptic about everything. I brought up pheromones one day, just to see what he thought, and of course there was the “Oh, Jesus, what a load of crap. Anyone who buys that stuff is an idiot or believing it’s anything ut cologne that’s being falsely advertised.” Then I proceeded to amuse myself by testing Ammunition on him, and getting a lot more respect than usual.

Another friend has decided they smell terrible, and such methods are “beneath him”. His father, who helped test PS-R0x, changed his mind, and recently he’s been asking for samples. I told him he looked a gift horse in the mouth and blew it. How amusing.

My ex girlfriend knew I used pheromones. She usually responded very well, and when I wanted a certain outcome, it wasn’t hard to achieve with her. Sex, peace, making up, honesty… whatever I wanted, she was a great responder. Usually she would ask what I was intending for them to do today, and I’d tell her flat out. “Today, in about three hours, you’re going to be so horny you will beg me for it.” or “I’m trying to promote calmness in myself emotionally today.” or whatever else I was trying for. She seemed oddly comfortable with me wearing them, and even tried my Lust After Me for a little while… but she was doing it in secret, and when I realized that I started thinking she was trying to get someone she was interested in wanting to jump her and made the bottle go away.

Pheromones don’t seem to be a big deal, really, and so I just hide them in plain sight and ignore them in general most of the time concerning people. But I don’t think everyone should be using them, for sure, or nobody would get as much benefit.

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Good post cat!

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that was a great post catlord. Also, thanks for answering my college mix post yesterday or the day before.

Since the thread started, I’ve mentioned it to three people, all friends, and my brother. One friend at first completely told me it was a hoax, there was no such thing. He kind of believed me when I explained I had tested some products and gotten results, but the stigma around it made it so he didn’t want it. That, and his current life position is good and he doesn’t feel he needs “enhancers”. My brother just thought it was kind of shady to be wearing these sprays to “manipulate” people. He’s pretty moral and I can’t explain it other than there’s no way he’d ever try pheromones.

My next two friends were different. They were skeptical at first, but I spent a good thirty minutes explaining it all. I was putting all my mone knowledge into the conversation. Only then were they interested.

If someone told me about this website, I would be immediately interested. I wouldn’t argue with them. I understand the advancements in research in this generation and would be completely open-minded to the concept of pheromones. In order to prevent this type of combatative thinking, I think you have to show them.

I walked through a mall with mones on with three of my friends that I mentioned above. One of them talked to me while we walked while the other two were kind of doing their own things. So I told the one I was walking with to notice hits. He didn’t want to try wearing yet, just watch. I had on 2 ammo and 3 cttm2.

When we walked into the mall, a man completely swerved around me and said sorry, as if he was in my way when he wasn’t remotely. “that’s weird” my friend basically said. We continued with no major hits for the next hour, we didn’t interact with many people but just shopped. He did notice girls were giving me a lot of eye contact and checking me out, which is different than usual. Guys were getting the hell out of my way, basically parting the red sea type thing. I could tell he was on the brink of believing.

To be honest, it kind of offended me a little to know that my best friends wouldn’t fully believe me from the get go. I think people are interested, but not convinced until they see a blatant hint.

We went to a bookstore and I basically talked to the pretty girl who was helping people find books. From the second we got there she was firing off IOI’s, hair flicks, blushing, eye dilation, etc. When we left, he understood much better.

Now the issue is whether or not my friends will use pheromones for the right reason. I mean, I wouldn’t have told them if I think they wouldn’t.

BUT I think the type of person that finds this site is generally different than someone who has to be convinced pheromones work. The person who finds the site cares enough that they are searching the internet to either 1) improve their life or 2) research pheromones as a science. While this is a massive forum, finding it isn’t a piece eof cake. It took me years from the day I learned what pheromones and pick up were, to the time I found it. I wasn’t looking the whole time, I took a major break, but the point is it isnt easy necessarily and takes time.

The person who is told by a friend usually could use some life improvement, but doesn’t actively search enough. My friends are good people, I obviously care about them enough to tell them about pheromones. They both say they think they want to try eventually.

But I think the journey to find this site, and then finally finding it, makes it so that every time you put on pheromones it’s a type of reward. A type of “I can’t believe I found this site, I’m so happy I did and ever since I understand the way life works in a different way.” I think my friends won’t have that same association and won’t respect pheromones quite as much because they didn’t find it on their own, if that makes sense.

Thanks for reading, that post just kept going once I got started haha

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I get you people appreciate things more on their own if they had found or discovered the so called thing in the first place. When people are just told or recommended something without being asked it kinda just gives it to them on a silver platter. I suppose when it comes to advice I rather let my friends ask for it rather than offering it because they value it all the more as a result. I’ll admit I get lonely sometimes being the only one who knows about pheromones in my circle but thats what I have you guys for. As long as you are a decent judge of character in who you recommend mones to I’m definitely all for it.

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I told my roommate who was starting to refer to his gf as an old lady.
He was skeptical, gave him a spray of TUTH before he went over her house, and he had a good night so to speak.
However, he hasn’t shown any interest in it since then. I’m gonna have to agree that if you find it on you own you tend to be more interested in it.

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I gave my buddy a to go bottle of one of my extra TUTHs. Guy is pretty solid. He’s going into the marines. Typical Jar Head 8 pack, ripped, good shape. I told him to try it out and see how easy it makes it to get laid from a club scene. He had 1 bathroom lay and 1 take home. TUTH doubled his usually game. Pretty Soon he is going to check the sight out. He said that it was cheating because TUTH makes it too easy. I told him baseball players use steroids so what we are doing is ok.

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I’ve told one of my friends, on the condition that he keep it between us.

I’ve got him trying my IG (he’s been using it on and off for a week or so). He’s been using 1 spray, and I suggested trying 2, to see if there are increased effects.

It’s fun to have someone ‘in’ on it, but I wouldn’t want all my friends to know, that’d just ruin the fun :stuck_out_tongue:

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Some interesting posts here. I have told a total of three people about pheromones. One is my best friend and the other two are my roommate and his girlfriend. Not much interest was shown by any of them.

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So it turns out that the friend I told about the pheromones and who has been talking about it to everyone who’s cared to listen, certainly hasn’t done it to ridicule me. Quite the contrary, after trying some of my stuff a couple of times he firmly believes in the stuff himself and now regrets telling anyone because, unlike me, he wants to keep it all to himself. I’d tell each and everyone of my friends if I only believed they would respond well to the secret.

So now I’ve promised to help this guy get hold of the real deal from AD, since he has no clue what to buy and could order any kind of bogus shit from some scam site.

That ended somewhat well but I’ll be damn careful about telling anyone else in the future.

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Surprising how often something like this gets posted when the subject of telling about pheros comes-up!

Lucky it went well for you in this case - Many others find themselves subject to ridicule/worse because of it.

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Yes, well the only way to shut him the fuck up was to let him have some of the stuff. He’s such a petty bastard that he won’t want anyone else getting into it. He still annoys me to the point that I want to punch his fucking lights out when he still comes with all kinds of innuendo regarding this subject around new people. He doesn’t want to let people know but he just can’t help yapping.

This whole thing sadly has just about killed our friendship and we’ve been buddies since we were litle kids, for over 30 years. That’ll teach me to tell anyone else about the mones.

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Just accuse him of behaving like some old granny that can’t keep her mouth shut and her nose outta other people’s business. A busybody, a gossip and so forth, but the girlie names. Boys, I’ve noticed, don’t like that. :smiley: As a matter of fact, an Oz insult - guaranteed to stop a guy in his tracks - is being called “a big girls blouse”. I don’t actually know precisely what this means, but who, apart from a big girls blouse; wants to be called one? Or ask if he’s so insecure he has to garner attention any way he can. I know this is a girls solution and y’all are guys and whatnot, but try verbally slapping him and talking. No-one likes losing a friendship. Does he know that he’s left a couple of lines 50m or so behind him?

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He is like an old granny. And he keeps bizarre things a secret while gossiping about things he’s supposed to keep to himself.

Like the other day he came over after work (he’s a dentist) and we went out for a beer. He had his new girlfriend with him, he told me about her a few weeks ago and showed me a pic but I’d never met her before.

Now, I don’t remember what I said but the both of them became a bit nervous and awkward all of a sudden. Afterwards he called me and said “Shit, she was pretending to be my nurse and you blew it”.

I blew it? How the fuck was I supposed to know about this charade? That this 40 year old man and this woman of 30 something are acting like fucking children on this fine day?

And exactly what is the fucking point of keeping this relationship a secret? Trust me, there is none. He’s not married, nor is she and even if either of them were, this guy knows that I’m not like him. I can keep my mouth shut when I know I should.

I just told him I don’t understand him anymore. I really don’t.